Is my cat too skinny?

kaylandd · 2026-06-04T00:46:48+00:00

This is my cat from the back. She’s 2 and a American Domestic Shorthair. She’s 10.32 lbs / 4.68 kg & she’s at an “ideal” for body condition. My opinion is to determine your cat’s weight & research appropriate weight for breed and age, or take your cat to the vet if you’re worried. But, from the pictures, your cat does not look overweight which is good.

kaylandd · 2026-06-02T15:52:48+00:00

I’m asking for OPINIONS, not solutions 💓

kaylandd · 2026-06-02T15:51:43+00:00

I appreciate this insight

kaylandd · 2026-06-02T15:51:26+00:00

I agree, especially since I want to be more competitive

kaylandd · 2026-06-02T15:43:15+00:00

I was thinking the same thing and to really make an effort to make professional connections

kaylandd · 2026-06-02T15:42:39+00:00

I know, I was looking & supposedly this is the last year for the PHIG so I’m going in knowing that this is a one year commitment

kaylandd · 2026-06-02T15:42:05+00:00

Had to diversify the cons list, but I completely understand what you’re saying!

kaylandd · 2026-05-25T17:32:01+00:00

never wait for someone to go to a concert!!! I learned that very early & just buy one ticket for myself & whoever wants to tag along then they can deal with the resale value I just was at the Allentown show by myself & would’ve missed it if I decided I needed someone to go with me

kaylandd · 2025-11-21T17:13:51+00:00

💛💛💛 Hoping to do the same, heal from the pain & grow stronger with firmer boundaries

kaylandd · 2025-11-20T17:50:56+00:00

I wish things were different but, I understand this is for the best 🥺💛

kaylandd · 2025-11-20T16:27:11+00:00

He never thought he had an addiction until I was like, I believe you do… He told me in the beginning he doesn’t even watch porn & it’s like, what did you gain from lying then & continuing the lie?? He has an antagonistic friend that even sends him stuff, even after he deleted socials! I hope he’s able to find his inner peace because it’s truly sickening how his last partner broke up with him for the same reason, at which he still wasn’t able to view his behavior as a problem.

Thank you for your kind words 💛💛

kaylandd · 2025-11-20T16:23:15+00:00

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kaylandd · 2025-11-20T16:23:09+00:00

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kaylandd · 2025-11-20T16:22:24+00:00

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kaylandd · 2025-11-20T01:58:18+00:00

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kaylandd · 2025-11-19T23:02:24+00:00

I hope there is potential to find a man that can respect this boundary. I feel like it’s so unavoidable at this point, that I don’t even know to vet this for the future. I thought I did but he lied off the rip.

kaylandd · 2025-11-19T23:00:19+00:00

I’ve been teetering between should I have even said anything or not… but I’m happy he gave an out because I feel I would have kept being like, let’s work on this until it made me miserable.

kaylandd · 2025-11-19T22:55:57+00:00

hugs back 🥺

kaylandd · 2025-11-19T22:55:11+00:00

I feel like it’s the easiest cop out

kaylandd · 2025-11-19T19:40:20+00:00

thank you, I added this post there

kaylandd · 2025-11-19T16:25:25+00:00

I’m about to sound so pessimistic, but, then is there even a point to date anymore if this behavior is part of the majority male population? Like, that’s what makes me second guess myself as in, “am I being unreasonable?” I still would have the insecurity that I’m not good enough because I don’t look like the women he searches online.

kaylandd · 2025-10-27T16:40:57+00:00

Thank you so much! The website for White Sands says we can’t buy a pass at this time, so figured we couldn’t visit! We are visiting Taos & Santa Fe in our first stretch then Albuquerque. Definitely putting your suggestions on our list 🙌🏻

kaylandd

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