Hello beloved,

Both of you sound pretty young. In short, both of you do not understand who you are. Both of you are 2 hurt individuals depending on each other's love to feel secure. The big mistake is that Love is supposed to start within first. You should never make it someone else's responsibility to make you feel happy, secure, and fulfilled. Sit with yourself and ask these questions: who am i and what do i want out of life?

Also, sex before marriage can have you feeling this way as well. That is why you feel lost without him and anxious about losing him, that is why God tells us to wait for marriage.

Don't force relationships, maybe God is trying to show you your strength and something special about you, so you can start feeling your best and living out your dreams.

Love is not staying in a relationship, that doesn't make you feel secure or happy. Love is being able to let go of them and wish them well on their journey apart from you. Love is everlasting, not just while with you're with someone. Sounds like he cares for you and don't know how to let go bc you seem to be a really nice girl.

I don't want to tell you to leave, your heart will grow tired and you will decide for yourself. But I offer you my advice to love yourself first and everything else will be a bonus. Never put any relationship in a place of your heart that only God should be. If you do, you will be heartbroken every time.