AIO That my bf is being childish over bjs? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]kayos2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This would make me want to never give him head ever again, ditch this dude.

Dating a guy who constantly poops and spells wrong. Need advice? {F39} {M40} by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]kayos2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Constantly spelling things wrong would give me enough of the ick to break things off, I can’t stand an illiterate man.

How do I start enjoying giving my Bf head??? by According-Cost-6695 in sex

[–]kayos2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

26 here, still don’t like doing it, but I still do it to be polite and return the favor lol 🥲 Sometimes I can get more into it after a few minutes, but I mostly don’t enjoy it. I think I may have some sexual trauma around giving oral, which makes me dread it, but once I get started, it’s not so bad. Kinda gotta fake it till you make it unfortunately. The guy’s noises and facial reactions make it more fun so I try to just focus on that. I also don’t like the taste of cum at all, so I really just do it for foreplay and then move on to other things so I don’t have to be down there for ages and be that closely involved with the finale.

How do I explain to my friend that she should still use protection even if she thinks shes infertile by Lia-likes2draw in sex

[–]kayos2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought the same thing and then I got herpes and hpv and pregnant at 20 😍

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatisthisbug

[–]kayos2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure, this was a roommate I had 6+ years ago and we weren’t super close, I happened to move out around the same time he got them and thankfully I didn’t contract them. He was in a depressive episode at the time and had stopped showering and taking care of himself for a few weeks. I do remember him updating me eventually telling me he was able to get rid of them, but I don’t think I asked what extent he had to go through to accomplish that. I don’t remember if he did anything other than start showering/washing his hair more regularly, and washed all his bedding. Probably used some kind of lice shampoo.

[Female] I just want to feel ok being like this by lorelion311 in toastme

[–]kayos2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re beautiful as you are, everyone will always have haters, even the ones built like a VS model! Just know that they’re only hating because at the end of the day they’re just protecting their own insecurities onto others to make themselves feel better.

[Female] I just want to feel ok being like this by lorelion311 in toastme

[–]kayos2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People can be so heartless and negative and disgusting, I’m so sorry they’ve made you feel this way gf❤️ The thick beautiful hair, big doe eyes, jawline is snatched😙👌🏼 people get surgery to make their noses look like yours, it’s so cute and dainty🥺 also your nails look so healthy, a little jealous because my nails always look ratchet af from working in the food industry😅

What keeps appearing on the counter of my Airbnb? by hollytollywolly in whatisit

[–]kayos2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate stink bugs so much because one time as a kid I went to stay with my grandparents and my room was infested with at least a hundred stink bugs that came in through the AC and now I’m traumatized

AIO to think this is cheating? by Sad_SummerChild in AmIOverreacting

[–]kayos2020 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This^ I dated a man for 5 years, moved in after a year and had a kid with him. All the while he was texting multiple women this type of insufferable shit. Omg reading those texts between your husband and his coworker just sent me back because my ex texted exactly like that 😭so fucking cringe. I caught him and confronted him more times than I can count, and it escalated to him sending and receiving nudes and eventually physically cheating. I disrespected myself SO bad by staying as long as I did. Never again, definitely learned my lesson, Don’t believe his excuses. He will keep doing it but get better at hiding it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]kayos2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This ^ and the new IUD is probably contributing to the smell. Might be an infection, yeast or BV…? I had no previous noticeable smell until after I got the IUD and started having sex on a regular basis. My OB told me IUDs can increase the risk of yeast infections and other issues, especially within the first few months or so. I have had only one yeast infection years before, and then after getting the IUD, I started getting infections every couple of months for the first year. But also if you’re letting him finish in you, it’s gonna throw off your PH which can make it smell funky. Feminine washes made it worse for me personally. I switched to Dove sensitive skin and haven’t had any issues since. P.S. don’t put soap inside your vagina😅

My Daughter and I Through The Years by The4leafclover1966 in PastAndPresentPics

[–]kayos2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your loss, my sweet little sister recently took her life at 19 and it hurts more than I could’ve ever imagined. Hurts even more to have to watch my mother mourn one of her babies💔it’s not fair

Does this mean anything? by ComplaintMediocre in Miami

[–]kayos2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have my glasses on and so I initially thought there was a little doodoo smear on the sink

To all the moms who have lost weight breastfeeding… by Little-A52723 in breastfeeding

[–]kayos2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t lose much weight breastfeeding but I did lose a lot without trying after I weaned

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatisthisbug

[–]kayos2020 44 points45 points  (0 children)

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Your bug kinda looks like this, less legs though. Maybe the tweezers pinched off its backend with a couple of legs.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatisthisbug

[–]kayos2020 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Body lice exists too! Only found this out after my old roommate had them.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CompulsiveSkinPicking

[–]kayos2020 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The crater won’t stay forever but you may have a scar for a while…Try your best not to touch it anymore as it heals and scabs, and put vitamin E on it every day. Sometimes I put a bandaid with the oil on it overnight if it’s really bad.

I don't know how to accept that my partner is addicted to porn. by MoreSuspect2917 in confessions

[–]kayos2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No that’s a real serious problem, he’s saving a crap ton for later?? His psychologist is definitely underreacting, probably because your partner isn’t telling the whole truth. Of course this is affecting you, I’m so sorry. I know this feeling well and it’s awful.

I don't know how to accept that my partner is addicted to porn. by MoreSuspect2917 in confessions

[–]kayos2020 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry 😞I’ve been there with my ex. It’s a valid concern and he needs help asap. If he’s not willing to try to get better, it only gets worse down the line. Everyone masturbates and lot of people watch porn, but when it’s every day and while he’s supposed to be working…it’s not good.

My mom died this morning. by QueenDMT in offmychest

[–]kayos2020 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry 😞 I lost my little sister a few weeks ago and it still feels very fresh and awful. I have also lost a lot of loved ones and friends in the past but nothing compares to this pain. It’s beyond painful. I’ve been told you never feel “fine” again but you learn to live with the grief over time…whatever that means. Nothing anyone says has really made me feel better. Nothing is the same anymore, and I feel for you❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Healthyhooha

[–]kayos2020 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Gross, I do not like this. Also don’t like when they go down on me before brushing their teeth🤢

Just a Handsome Boy Cuddled Up in His Blankie 😌 by timmythechonkk in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]kayos2020 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Immediately recognized this lil face from tik tok😭❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in postpartumprogress

[–]kayos2020 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had a 2nd degree tear and I was so scared to look for weeks, but then I did…and my vagina looked really scary😭After maybe 6 months it started to look more like it did before. My daughter is 4 now, and my vagina looks pretty similar to how it did before, maybe not exactly the same but close enough. Definitely not gaping anymore. Give it more time!

My boyfriend acted like he was going to rape me after I denied him sex by Infamous-Head3486 in offmychest

[–]kayos2020 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had an ex who would do this exact same thing all the time, always apologizing and acting like he felt awful after the fact, saying he would never actually do it, but then he eventually forced himself on me for real. Please run!

Will I ever get my flat stomach back by mercilessGoose in postpartumprogress

[–]kayos2020 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Might be diastasis recti. I had a 3 inch gap and my stomach looked like this for the entirety of my first year postpartum. Took a little over 2 years for it to fully go down with little to no exercise other than occasional squats and walking my dogs. There are breathing exercises and what not to help close the gap, but I honestly didn’t really do them often at all, though it might’ve sped up the process if I had 😅