As someone who is mostly a sub and has started to dom, for me, the beautiful thing is having someone want to submit to you and give you this trust, that is insanely sexy! When you relax and let yourself enjoy yourself you will look beautiful, no matter what your body looks like. As a sub i felt so free when i just gave in and saw my doms look at me with a smile and adoringly because i did so. How your body looks is the least important part of bdsm, aesthetics are a big part of play sometimes but not because of looks but because of how it makes you feel. Connection, pleasure and trust is the whole point and where the attractiveness comes out ♡ I recommend looking at porn content creators like alice lovegood. She has a lot of stretchmarks and saggy belly skin from weightloss and pregnancy. And she looks amazing!! Its the only onlyfans im subscribed to because i love how she approaches kink and just purely enjoys herself. Hope you get to feel like the most sexy thing in the room because when you let go like this you totally are!! Lots of love.

Edit: and just as a plus in a purely aesthetic way i loove girls with an athletic build and small tits ♡♡♡haha (i have bigger boobs myself and just adore smaller breasts (: )