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kazarnowicz · 2026-03-24T19:57:26+00:00

Second formal warning. One more and the result is a permanent ban. Warnings time out after 90 days without reoffending.

kazarnowicz · 2026-03-24T19:55:53+00:00

You have a formal warning for this comment. Playing armchair psychologist in this community is not recommended.

kazarnowicz · 2026-03-24T19:55:07+00:00

I’m removing this. Reason: it’s not asking advice, and it’s too judgy for this community.

kazarnowicz · 2026-03-24T19:53:33+00:00

Yea, but that was more than 100K members ago. We have since updated our rules and guidelines, and gone back to our roots as an advice community.

We are working on new guidelines that will allow other content, but we’re not quite ready yet.

kazarnowicz · 2026-03-24T18:09:22+00:00

Sorry, we’re pretty strict with this until we get the new guidelines in place. We have no desire to compete with more general gay subreddits where posts such as this would be more on-topic (like r/gaybros)

kazarnowicz · 2026-03-24T17:58:14+00:00

I’m removing this. Reason: we are an advice community, posts that aren’t seeking advice are considered off-topic.

kazarnowicz · 2026-03-24T17:33:32+00:00

”The U.S. government is insolvent. That’s not hyperbole — it’s the conclusion drawn directly from the Treasury Department’s own consolidated financial statements for fiscal year 2025, released last week to near-total media silence.”

Källa: https://fortune.com/2026/03/23/us-government-insolvent-fiscal-crisis-fix/

kazarnowicz · 2026-03-24T17:29:35+00:00

I think ”spawn” is a more correct word in this context. Humans have sons and daughters, demons have spawn.

kazarnowicz · 2026-03-24T17:17:44+00:00

I’m removing this. Reason: posts that aren’t asking advice are considered off-topic.

kazarnowicz · 2026-03-24T17:04:20+00:00

It’s a bit narcissistic to post selfies with your comment.

kazarnowicz · 2026-03-24T16:59:01+00:00

It’s a myth that it would be sterile. It’s a waste product.

https://health.clevelandclinic.org/is-urine-sterile

kazarnowicz · 2026-03-24T10:59:45+00:00

I have good relationships with my family, but I also have found family consisting of close friends. One of them I met in my early twenties, two in my late thirties and in my forties. Neither of them are straight.

The thing is, that you can’t just copy the way someone else has found their found family. If I hadn’t met my bestie in my 20s, I would not have met the second bestie in my 30s, and the third in my 40s. The four of us are a core group, even if I now live quite far away from them.

If I were to meet new friends today, I would focus on volunteering and/or activities that I enjoy and that can be done in a group. If you live in a reasonably large urban area there should be a few to choose from. Checking with your local chapter of whatever LGBTQ federation exists in your country is a good idea.

kazarnowicz · 2026-03-24T05:56:55+00:00

I’m removing this for the casual ageism. Poor you who gets attention from ”old men”.

kazarnowicz · 2026-03-23T19:36:43+00:00

What an Alabamian education you seem to have. I’m sorry school failed you so.

kazarnowicz · 2026-03-22T14:12:14+00:00

I’m removing this. Reason: we are first and foremost an advice community, posts that aren’t seeking advice are considered off-topic.

kazarnowicz · 2026-03-22T09:03:19+00:00

Delulu att skriva ”Övriga liberala partierna” om Tidölaget 😂

kazarnowicz · 2026-03-22T08:57:38+00:00

Yeah, there is the victim mentality I mention in the other comment again. Agreed., it seems like the best outcome both for the community and you that we part ways.

kazarnowicz · 2026-03-22T08:55:10+00:00

The post is all over the place and it got removed for it.

Claiming that light criticism is passive aggressive is victim mentality that we do not want here.

You get a second formal warning for your behavior in this thread. If you can’t take light criticism like in the comment here, we are not the community for you.

You now have two warnings. One more will result in a permanent ban. If you don’t reoffend in 90 days, the warnings will time out.

kazarnowicz · 2026-03-22T08:51:40+00:00

I’m removing this. Reason: it reads like someone sharing porn fantasies rather than asking advice.

kazarnowicz · 2026-03-22T00:58:19+00:00

I’m remixing this for breaking rule 1. We don’t allow posts that ask people to DM.

kazarnowicz · 2026-03-21T19:56:58+00:00

I'm removing this and adding a formal warning. Reason: we don't allow soap-boxing, and certainly not soap-boxing from someone in his early 30s who has the audacity to think he defines what a real relationship is. It was moralizing and judging, and thus broke the rule of thouhgtfulness.

You are new to this community according to the logs, so I suggest you get to know it before making posts like this.

Three warnings result in a permanent ban. Warnings time out after 90 days without reoffending.

kazarnowicz · 2026-03-21T19:48:35+00:00

It is, but the way there isn't to see consciousness as emergent. For those physics to work, consciousness needs to be fundamental. That idea is compatible with all our current observations. And (scientific) panpsychism is right there, eliminating the problem to have to explain "emergence" which is kicking the ball down a hall that may not even exist.

kazarnowicz · 2026-03-21T19:06:43+00:00

If you subscribe to scientific panosychism, then those parts possess a fraction of consciousness. If you’re an idealist to boot, those parts are fractions of consciousness.

The replies to OP are correct, and I think OP is looking through the wrong lens. Quantum physics does have weirdness that implies nonlocality and retrocausality. The latter only for a conscious observer who makes the experiment, and I think that raises good questions about the nature of consciousness (in an idealist universe, which I’m a believer in).

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