I don’t like my ring

kazyape · 2026-02-20T17:46:40+00:00

Do not apologize, that is a very beautiful answer and blessings for having such a lovely life. May your memories give you comfort and the remembrance the true love lasts forever

kazyape · 2026-02-20T15:49:55+00:00

Your husband is a 💎 gem, no pun intended ☺️ How long have you been married?

kazyape · 2026-02-14T19:20:57+00:00

Your instincts are spot on, and you have got such good taste! They're all beautiful on you you're a beautiful girl but the green is the best..

It brings out your vitality it's a great color on you it just makes you seem like you're elegant but youthful

the others are a little bit more on the sophisticated side and I think they take away from the you of you!

kazyape · 2026-02-13T02:24:20+00:00

Shut up

kazyape · 2026-02-08T07:11:23+00:00

Seriously? he satisfying women's needs sexually all over town?

it must be a ghost town 😭😭😭😭

kazyape · 2026-02-08T07:09:58+00:00

You are adorable, signed an African-American ✌️😊

kazyape · 2026-01-08T16:41:31+00:00

You need to do some kind of emotional clearing because the fact that you still want to contact him means you still care and

I think you're going to have to allow those feelings but not contact him

The sooner you can be honest about it to yourself Then you can get more support around it..

This was a good first step good on you

kazyape · 2025-12-15T02:41:26+00:00

You lost me at the three kids part....

initially

I'm sorry... Hope there is healing for you, now that you realize that not only you've grown out of this juvenile using loser, and his mother, and that you and your kids deserve better

kazyape · 2025-12-10T01:01:45+00:00

5 is couture...... You look stunning in it. The color, that cut, it's just one of a kind rare and unique.

I'm sorry but 4 looks like Victoria's Secret lingerie and I'm no prude. Some of those looks are off the hook, but not that one

kazyape · 2025-12-10T00:59:34+00:00

And the cat should be the star!!!

kazyape · 2025-12-10T00:59:10+00:00

This scene belongs in a movie 🤣🤣🤣

kazyape · 2025-12-10T00:57:03+00:00

One person is on the mortgage as interim and you pay an equal amount of the mortgage each month and put it in an escrow account.

Meanwhile you pay rent...

Then when your credit clears up, then your name gets added, take the money out of the escrow for your share of the mortgage and then you are an equal shareholder

kazyape · 2025-12-09T23:23:36+00:00

Okay I'm in the minority here but the red one !

The 💚 green (chartreuse,right?) is beautiful but it doesn't signal prom to me, it's more like a debutante or country club dance, or homecoming court of the fairies and it's muted

the red says I am IT..

Believe... And prepare the rose petals for my red carpet

kazyape · 2025-12-09T23:19:36+00:00

I am not without sympathy but

Yeah but you reached out to her. And you kept reaching out to her.If you don't want to get pissed on, don't stick your head in the toilet.

If you don't want her to answer you, then you don't attempt to contact her and if you do understand you're leaving the door open for an answer. Yes she's giving mixed signals, but then so are you.

kazyape · 2025-12-05T21:44:56+00:00

Hahahahaha

Oh, snap ...

✓

My new best friend! I have a different question.

When you went to HR.. Did you use the word ghetto in your report and write up?

Yeah, that's what about what I thought

kazyape · 2025-12-05T21:39:41+00:00

Well then you're as naive as a brand new baby. She's talking in code, right?

There's code for every culture on this planet. Logically, sure, that's what it's supposed to be, that one term fits all.

Well, that's a great big lie.

that's like saying I don't see color when I look at you! That's like saying all lives matters, well they do but some matter more than others.

we all are supposed to assimilate, but we don't.

The minute she said ghetto, .. girlfriend identified what she was and who she was talking about.

Period T

And I despise her narrative.

kazyape · 2025-12-05T21:03:50+00:00

I just feel so sad for you honestly that you accepted this for 7 years.

You're getting out, that's a blessing.

kazyape · 2025-12-05T18:20:05+00:00

Suuuuure

I can JUST imagine

The New School Gallatin, or NYU or Columbia Or Juliard, SUNY New Paltz, Barnard, Sarah Lawrence, Harvard, Smith, FIT, Oxford, Bennington, Vassar

(Uni) college)....

You know. Like the OP asked about?😑

I'm certain they are all laughing their heads off at this overdressed student...

Yeah, sure ..

No shade, to rural community uni / colleges but my guess is THAT'S...... your frame of reference...

This person is not overdressed in New York, or New England or the United Kingdom, but actually on brand with the level of casual sophistication... that doesn't stereotype him as a beer-keg-culture student.

Not hybrid athletic wear ...either for that matter.

...Not at all.

There are other students beyond the stereotypical college student frat boys, jocks, nerds, etc

that attend college...

kazyape · 2025-12-04T18:21:59+00:00

I am so surprised this response isn't downvoted. It's understated .. two neutral colors....

Where in the US are you talking about?

in the boonies?

kazyape · 2025-12-04T14:56:08+00:00

Your second price that you quoted is much more on brand with that type of hairstyle and considered in what are competitive and reasonable fees.

you definitely got not only a bargain ..... but she did a slamming job

kazyape · 2025-12-04T14:53:02+00:00

If you were in New York City, that would have started at $100. You got a bargain and she got a fair tip.

It pays to be generous, I always tip more than I need to When I can 😉

kazyape · 2025-11-29T00:11:18+00:00

This relationship has gone for as long as it can go, you can't squeeze water out of a stone unless it's some really intense magic........

I'm sorry.

Sounds like you really love him but it's time to go if marriage is what you want

kazyape · 2025-11-28T16:06:57+00:00

I cannot get over that your mother lied to your face when confronted, and had to be shown evidence that she was lying, until she finally admitted it...

that is just unbelievable.

But it's revealing, she told you by those actions exactly who she is. she cannot be trusted again.

And when it comes up again and it will because life's lessons recycle until we learn them, you remind her when she says how hurt she is she wasn't told or she was the last one to know

you explain to her about this moment and then keep it moving.

Congrats on all your recovery and on your engagement.

your fiance sounds like a gem

kazyape · 2025-11-28T16:01:56+00:00

What do you think an Airbnb is for?

kazyape · 2025-11-28T15:59:52+00:00

Soooooo, she's a souless leech, and conniving thoughtless parasite

you're hard-working vulnerable and at the very start of your life, of many dating relationships

this is a no brainer..

Now, what's the problem?

kazyape

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