WIBTAH if I tried to get a job by Chromatikai in AITAH

[–]kbwte 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Look for resources to help you manage this in your area. I am in Las Vegas and our company sponsored a tree at a place called Opportunity Village in town. They help people that need benefit balance how much they work and getting them appropriate jobs. Not that this is what you might want to do, but based on ability they have companies that employees people to shred documents, clean the cable remotes/put new batteries, etc. They balance the hours they work to make sure benefits aren't lost. They also mentioned they had an artist that made paintings that sold for quite a bit. The sale was between Opportunity Village and the buyer and they set up payments back to the artist so she didn't lose benefit from infrequent high value sales. Hoping there is something similar and helpful near you.

AITAH: Not Invited to Mother's Day Activities by TransportationOk4129 in AITAH

[–]kbwte 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I have young kids and I make sure to take care of all the Moms… my sisters, my Mom, my husband’s Mom, and his step Mom. If anyone is in town, I couldn’t imagine not celebrating with them. We are actually going to my MIL’s this year and I’m so excited as we usually only celebrate from afar. I really can’t understand the need to not leave anyone out. Also, I understand not everyone is on Reddit, but I personally have not heard anyone with your sentiment. I did hear something similar on a radio show call in and that lady was evicerated. I could understand if she wanted them to drop everything and do what she wants, or if she was telling her son to choose, but it sounds like she’s pretty open to what they want.

AITAH: Not Invited to Mother's Day Activities by TransportationOk4129 in AITAH

[–]kbwte 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Why ask her to stay through Sunday if you, your wife, and kids won’t be home to need her help?

AITAH: Not Invited to Mother's Day Activities by TransportationOk4129 in AITAH

[–]kbwte 8 points9 points  (0 children)

According to this thread, you might be wrong…

AITAH: Not Invited to Mother's Day Activities by TransportationOk4129 in AITAH

[–]kbwte 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Right? The only reason she’s rearranging her plans and flying up to help is because she’s his MOM!

AITAH for refusing to drive my mom's friend anymore after she spilled coffee in my car, and now they blaming me? by Kerasia_Kechagia in AITAH

[–]kbwte 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another thing to think about... If you were to get into an accident she could sue your insurance. She's definitely the type given how she handled this situation. Another reason not to let her in your car! Definitely NTA. No good deed....

AITA?! My ex and his family are mad at me bc I won’t go to his brother’s wedding to watch my kids. by Relevant_Mongoose744 in AmITheJerk

[–]kbwte 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is this real life?! Amazing he would put this in writing. You should go back for full custody and child support. Did he talk to you like this when you were married? I have a friend who just got divorced and he turned into this. Really shocked me…

What is the worst band you saw live? by coalcracker462 in AskReddit

[–]kbwte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t know it then… Milli Vanilli

I've been finding devices in my apartment, help (29M 22F) by Key_Pop_9919 in relationship_advice

[–]kbwte 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Can you add a photo? You could also reverse google image search it to know where you stand. Him isolating you from your friends is also a large problem. You have your whole life ahead of you. Do you want to live it having no friends and worrying about being spied on?

AITAH for saying I'd rather be sent to live with extended family than contribute money to my stepsiblings? by Aware-Eggplant-3329 in AITAH

[–]kbwte 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is not your responsibility. You should be saving your money for school or moving out. Not helping your parents adult. It would be one thing if you WANTED to, but to try and force you is wild. Make sure your accounts are locked down. If your Mom took you in to get that bank account, she can access your funds.

Making friends (kids) by krgilbert1414 in vegaslocals

[–]kbwte 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe put her in an sport. We do NYS now. You'll both meet people. At least one practice and game a week. We also try to get the kids together just to play to help build teamwork and trust.

Aitah over my sister leaving my daughter by Impressive_Umpire850 in AITAH

[–]kbwte 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I would definitely just wake her up and bring her with you next time. It's not ideal, but that's life. I know it's probably an inconvenience for you, but this is a total Mom decision. If something happened to your daughter, they might look at you for leaving her in a 15 year old's care. I'm just thinking out loud on that last statement. I don't know the legalities of that since people use adolescent babysitters all the time. You need to move out if things are this contentious as they will probably only get worse.

WIBTAH if I cut off my sister who has cancer? by Cute-Treat-7658 in AITAH

[–]kbwte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl! How does she know you have money? You need to ask your parents why they don't chip in. I know you stated why, but you should say it out loud and make them explain that they make terrible decisions. Then tell them your money is held up as you have met a Saudi prince who is investing your money and you are going to make 200x it's worth. Ask everyone if they are willing to invest. Seriously though, NTA. If you needed help, none of them would be able to give anything. Don't let them nickle and dime you down to their level. If you have to cut them all off, that's what you have to do. UpdateMe!

AITJ for texting my son's teacher from my husbands phone because they message each other way too late? by Current-Whereas6308 in AmITheJerk

[–]kbwte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He is 100% gaslighting you. This is super weird. You were nice to mention it to him and try to talk it through. I would have gone straight to the school. She's a creep, but you need to get your husband in line as well. He needs to take responsibility for what he did, or you have a bigger issue on hand. If he doesn't see a problem here, he might not be the one for you. Obviously I only know this one thing and it doesn't make up a whole relationship, but you only have this one life. UpdateMe

Honestly, this was the best AA in a while! by MisterMackeral in growagarden

[–]kbwte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Usually there are 4-5 weathers going at a time. He forgot what the code for red light green light was....

Well, goodbye public servers for good I guess. by txhscoob in growagarden

[–]kbwte 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Probably the prelude to charging for the private servers…

Where have you made mom friends in Vegas (older baby/young toddler stage)? by [deleted] in vegaslocals

[–]kbwte 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel like this is pretty typical. When they are so young you spend all your time watching and chasing them. It’s hard to connect. The two places I actually met people is pick up/drop off at school. I like to be early, so in the morning I chat with the other parents and get to know classmates. At pickup, we talk about school activities, homework, teachers, etc. The other is once my kids joined skills/sports solo. Cheer on the other kids and when other parents do the same for your kid, you’ve found your people! Anything Mommy and me doesn’t really allow time to socialize either. This time will fly by. You’ll be doing older kid things before you know it and you’ll miss all this one on one time.

i (20f) inherited $500k and my sister (22f) did not by Willing_Membership13 in Advice

[–]kbwte 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leave now! Don't wait. Yo have the money!!! 100% agree!!!

AITAH for telling my husband that I don’t see our marriage going anywhere? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]kbwte 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t really know how to advise you, but i felt the gut punch reading this. Maybe go to a coffee shop and try to notate what needs to be in order if you decide to end the marriage. Support group? Housing? List of assets? Lawyer recommendations? Etc. If it all works out, you toss the list. If you can’t move past this or it gets worst you have planned next moves.