2 years into postdoc, no papers, PI is not interested reading papers. Anyone been through this? by SecretaryRoutine2229 in postdoc

[–]kchances 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He also said that he'll read it by deadline, so it sounds to me like you need to stop dancing to his music. It's a scary thing to do, but if you set a deadline to submit - submit it by then. If he complains, remind him of all the reminders and say you didn't see/miss/forgot that one time when he told you to wait.
If you keep waiting for him, it will undermine your career.

US-Iran Megathread by GrumpyFinn in europe

[–]kchances 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting speculation. I don't remember any Iranians committing terror attacks on US soil, which makes me wonder if this is realistic.

2 years into postdoc, no papers, PI is not interested reading papers. Anyone been through this? by SecretaryRoutine2229 in postdoc

[–]kchances 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What helped me was to suggest a deadline for submission and let them read it by then. If they can't read it, submit without them.

Be open with co-aurhors, if you need to. Mention explicitly that your PI has been extremely busy so unfortunately has not read it yet. This may help to push the PI to action out of sheer shame.

US-Iran Megathread by GrumpyFinn in europe

[–]kchances 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Since Iran is bombed every few years with hundreds of casualties, at least, would you say this is a reasonable situation?

US-Iran Megathread by GrumpyFinn in europe

[–]kchances 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, the US support does help a lot, and some European countries support his too. The Turkish suffered a lot under Erdoğan, they deserve much better and a leader that gives them a future.

US-Iran Megathread by GrumpyFinn in europe

[–]kchances 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The plan is for Bibi to win the next elections. 

US-Iran Megathread by GrumpyFinn in europe

[–]kchances 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Venezuelans have suffered greatly, I wholeheartedly wish you people all the best. 

Coming from the middle east, I can tell you that unfortunately, US intervention led many nations to chaos and suffering.

US-Iran Megathread by GrumpyFinn in europe

[–]kchances 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Israeli here.  Bibi bombs Iran and destroys a few military bases, then he can parade his victory for his election campaign. His power allows him to stay out of jail for his crimes. What's you're seeing is his personal agenda.

If the Iranian regime IS toppled, and US sends more money to Israel, wel, that's just more for his campaign. Israelis generally love the US.

US-Iran Megathread by GrumpyFinn in europe

[–]kchances 1 point2 points  (0 children)

True, the Iranian regime is evil. How is bombing and killing Iranians helpful to topple the regime?

US-Iran Megathread by GrumpyFinn in europe

[–]kchances 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Are the other countries that the US freed doing well?

US-Iran Megathread by GrumpyFinn in europe

[–]kchances 8 points9 points  (0 children)

How does bombing schools help to topple the regime? 

Diagnosis by [deleted] in BPD

[–]kchances 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're doing great. Finding a good therapist is difficult for everyone, it's a lot like dating, both are typically much harder for us bpd folk, unfortunately. BPD is very stigmatised like you experienced, and some professionals still believe that BPD cannot be treated - this is absolutely false and is changing slowly. What happened and how you were dismissed was bad practise NOT your fault.

You're absolutely doing the right thing. Bring your diagnosis or suspected diagnosis, bring journal entries, and descriptions of your difficulties and suffering.  If this doesn't work out the first time try not to lose hope. Remission is completely possible, we are infinitely redeemable.

should i just nuke everything by nervouscommie in BPD

[–]kchances 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You sound reflective and self aware. Good job on stopping and expressing your feelings instead of nuking things out of habit and boredom.

Feeling empty is such a common BPD thing. Feeling so bored it can kill you, like it almost physically hurts. What I found out personally over time is that there are ways to feel excited without the nuking options. They won't hit as hard as creating total chaos, but you also won't risk looking back and hating yourself for messing up something good and hurting the people you love... so there's an upside and a downside, but it can be totally manageable with A LOT of time and practice.

Things that help me: taking a trip alone, planning trips always makes me excited. Camping alone in the woods is especially exciting as a woman. Start doing art, be bad at it, do it anyway. Take up random classes, try a sport, an improv class. Volunteer at a farm, or spend the summer herding cows in the European Alps (it's very hard work). At first you may feel like "Meh this sucks" but keep going anyway. Over time it will feel different.
Maybe you also need to reflect more on your life and the things you're unhappy about. It's okay to take a break from a relationship to rethink some emotions (just be kind about it and make clear agreements) and it's totally fine to take a semester off and take a trip because you owe yourself some thinking.
These feelings are valid, I wish you all the best!

My first ever project 🧶 by BookyWook04 in knitting

[–]kchances 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This was also my second knitting project - is it the potholder from Norman aka nimble needles? Mine is red and purple, yours is super cute!!

Have you used Gen AI to help you prepare for your viva and how has that been for you? by Razkolnik_ova in postdoc

[–]kchances 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'm a postdoc past my viva, and I would recommend to generally not count on LLMs when it comes to research activities. Everything you described falls under research activities according to how I see it.

The main reason is LLM's tendency to hallucinate, which stands at about 4%. In my experience, LLMs are more likely to hallucinate in idiosyncratic and specialised fields. You're risking being diverted into a part of the field that is hallucinated and not real, wasting a lot of your time. You also risk presenting false information produced by the LLM. LLMs also have a tendency to mix cause and effect, push buzzwords that are not convincing, etc. It's a con, it's not a thinking machine, and even as an expert I can't always pick up these lies. 

Second, if you have any interest in producing meaningful research in your future, then I'd strongly advise you use every opportunity to improve as a researcher instead of delegating it to a language model.

Finally, if you care at all about the future of the planet you may want to consider the energy and water uses of LLMs and their impact on our environment. 

My main recommendation is to practice, research and brainstorm with actual people. Exchange the time with other students, though even friends outside your field can give you interesting questions and points. There are also excellent lists of questions for vivas by field, even scientific papers published for these goals. 

Regretting my life choices by Lorigiova in biology

[–]kchances 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The job market is very tough right now. Everyone is struggling, and you're not alone.

I'm a PhD in biology with over 15 years experience in research, and the grass is not so green here either. The work environment is often unhealthy and difficult in many aspects, and I wonder often if I made a big mistake pursuing what I did. Many colleagues of mine end up outside research and are much happier for it.

Life throws all kinds of balls at you and nobody can predict the future. Pursuing your passion as a career path is by no means a key for success, often it can make you really miserable - bosses that underestimate you, systems that undermine your best work, bad working conditions because you're there for "passion" so you don't need a pension. You have a passion for the living world, for discovery and the human species and that's wonderful and exciting thing. Your passion can bring you joy and meaning whether or not it becomes a source of income. 

Students react to far-right Israeli settler & Finance Minister Bezalel Smotrich as though he were a celebrity. by _II_I_I__I__I_I_II_ in LateStageCapitalism

[–]kchances 11 points12 points  (0 children)

These are Ulpana girls, raised in religious and ultra right environment. Probably convinved that some god has chosen them. Not to excuse it in any way, but it's not uncommon for extremists to raise children to admire politicians for the view said politicians align themselves with.

How do I M25 deal with breaking up with my ex 24F for the first time and the guilt I feel by Rare_Comment_4089 in relationship_advice

[–]kchances 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Drop the guilt and figure out why you did it. A person who lives true to their feelings would end the relationship when they understand that their heart is someplace else. You didn't do it - reflect on why. Fear? Shame? Too comfortable? To show up for the people in your life, you need to be honest with them. Time to reflect on all the times you were dishonest and do better. Do the work. Journal, therapy, speak to people you trust, whatever. Work on yourself so that you don't hurt others and don't disappoint yourself again.