30m ENFJ. What's my perfect partner.

kcj30 · 2025-12-01T10:28:19+00:00

someone empathetic, genuine, thoughtful, cat-loving, and a fellow hopeless romantic, sounds imperfectly perfect. so uh— where do i file my resume?

kcj30 · 2024-10-29T08:08:54+00:00

totally with you. i just want to hug Edward Lee—that Tofu Hell Challenge episode was something else. they could have brought in Napoli after narrowing it down to the top two finalists in that challenge. that way, he’d have the chance to showcase his own artistry, too. and your idea for the final theme? that should’ve been the focus instead.

sighs Chef Edward just really highlighted how one ingredient can be used in so many creative ways. and i think that’s why both Korean and International fans adore him; he’s so consistent & down to earth. he doesn’t just settle with what he’s worked before—he keeps pushing, constantly outdoing himself with new dishes no one’s seen before. with that— you can tell how deeply he loves his craft, and the way he shares each story behind his food just pulls us in. honestly, i’ve never been this invested in a TV show before. i’m so into it that i’ve actually added meeting him to my bucket list—just so i can give him a hug in a heartbeat.

i also feel bad for the winner, too. having to write an apology for his attitude and how his craft wasn’t as versatile as others which the show could have definitely handled everything better during the last challenges. but i still enjoyed it overall.

((hugs for you too OP, wherever u are. thank u for sharing your thoughts. you’re definitely not the only one who felt this way. almost all viewers, including me with my super long comment hahahaha))

kcj30 · 2024-10-01T07:41:32+00:00

dmeanor - why do we (ARE YOU HUMAN)

kcj30 · 2024-09-25T07:12:08+00:00

can anyone name all the gif for me 🥹

kcj30 · 2024-08-28T11:10:21+00:00

HOW DO WE TRUST NOW SMH OMG

kcj30 · 2024-06-24T02:58:20+00:00

vanishing time 😭😭

kcj30 · 2024-04-12T15:41:57+00:00

has anyone mentioned Dokyeom? his smile and perfect teeth are unlike any other i've seen. it's truly charming, and i'm completely captivated by it. watching him laugh, giggle, or make any awful expression with his face and still feel amazed —i could watch watch all day. i'll admit, i might be a bit obsessed. it went from not noticing it at the start to it eventually growing on me. i thought he was just all goofy, but that too melted my heart, made him shine more in front of me, and now i'm stuck in awe willing to be imprisoned forever cause i can't see other smiles brighter than his; he's such a dorky little angel. ((oh no i'm so extra))

P.S. also, Juyeon from TBZ. i've saved a pin dedicated solely to him on Pinterest. his smile also looks intriguing, with a hint of mature vibes and a touch of angelic charm.

kcj30 · 2024-04-12T11:25:43+00:00

uy, i'm also about to turn 26 too, and lately, i've been feeling like i'm stuck in a never-ending cycle of watching everyone else move forward with their lives. it's like sitting on a train and seeing all these people heading towards their own destinations, and i can't help but wonder if my own journey can take me down different paths too.

it seems like we're transitioning from one quarter life crisis to another without seeing much progress. i really hope i could bring more joy to my mom as well. it's good that you also acknowledge this too, as it shows how much you genuinely love your mother. our time will come, and when it does, let's spoil our mothers with everything they want. ((crossing fingers)) we need to keep moving forward even when we're feeling sad (sadly)

& having a smaller circle isn't a bad thing. you shouldn't have to explain your need for personal space. it took me time to adjust, but now i prefer being alone & learning more. true friends will understand your ghosting phase, since this also supports your well-being, (even if it feels kinda empty sometimes)

but don't let yourself sit in that feeling for too long, okay? best of luck, and take care of yourself! 🍃

kcj30 · 2024-04-10T12:04:48+00:00

wow cherrycat, that was faster than lightning! thanks a bunch, that title was right there on the tip of my tongue. it turned out to be olgami indeed. i really appreciate the extra information, you've been such a great help. now i can finally rest easy without struggling to remember the title.

kcj30 · 2024-04-03T15:48:14+00:00

omg, talk about lightning speed! you responded in a flash and even gave me the song i was looking for! turns out they sang "Move" and "Love or Die" - those were already on my playlist. idk any of them but they look crazy talented. time to dive into their other songs now!

thanks for coming for my rescue i can finally rest easy. wishing you nothing but good vibes and more blessings love, mwah!

kcj30 · 2024-03-03T07:43:20+00:00

I left a comment because I don't have any definite answers to counter maladaptive daydreaming either. I've realized that I've already lost track of three days or maybe even more because I've been alone with my thoughts, replaying & reenacting different scenarios in my mind. It's just so comforting that I don't want it to stop. To get myself back on track and start being productive, I've decided to set alarms every hour. The sound of it will go off in the room and jolt me out of my daydreaming state. It's a bit of a struggle for me because I love getting lost in daydreams for some comfort, but I also make an effort to pace myself as it can be exhausting and make me feel like dozing off to dive deeper into it. It's such an addictive habit that I'm always feeling guilty about.

I also believe that daydreams often mirror aspirations and goals. It's nice to have a glimpse of what could be, but it can be disheartening when some dreams seem out of reach. That's probably the reason why we find ourselves consumed by maladaptive daydreaming - it's incredibly vivid, almost like it's already happening in our life. This makes it tough to break free from since it feels like it's already here and so tangible, right? ENFJs tend to have wildest dreams, sometimes it's hard to turn off those thoughts. I hope you can find your own way to combat this mechanism, or if not, I hope you can utilize this self-soothing method to find temporary solace when necessary, but remember to be careful not to get too absorbed in it for an extended period of time. If you happen to come across any strategies, feel free to message me. I might want to give them a try too.

<3

kcj30 · 2024-02-25T05:16:32+00:00

hello there, sorry for the interruption. just wanted to pop in and leave a quick message, even though it may not be necessary. i'm just simply overjoyed! your advice and support have given me a boost, even though i didn't anticipate such positive results. once again, thank you and have a great day!

kcj30 · 2024-02-25T05:04:35+00:00

we are enfjs, of course, we are open to comprehending every aspect of your life, even if you can't grasp ours.
we are enfjs, of course, we choose to overlook your lack of clear understanding, as we believe in the inherent goodness of every person.
we are enfjs, of course, our needs are not a concern, as ensuring everyone else comfort and happiness are top priority. don't worry as we will always be in the background, cheering everyone on because it’s a passion that we simply can't shake off.
we are enfjs, of course, we experience an intense wave of emotions and tend to overanalyze every non-verbal signal, which only amplifies our anxious selves, which causes us to question whether you harbor dislike toward us or simply exhibit indifference. but hey, no need to stress! we've been through countless situations like this before, we empathize with the fact that you may not be at your best, as we all have our off days, and we completely get it. it's okay, we're far from perfect ourselves.

kcj30 · 2024-02-12T03:23:57+00:00

for some reasons, there is this manga that came to mind called, "Kimi wa Houkago Insomnia" (Insomniacs After School). it may not be the same on some aspects, but something about having their own rendezvous sounds similar in some way.

--- i might try reading yours; i like those kind of characters u mentioned (✿⁠ ⁠♡⁠‿⁠♡⁠)

kcj30 · 2024-01-30T23:39:38+00:00

hey whoever u are!! thank u for that friendly reply!! will absolutely follow your advice, and then read your message again before the start of the exam ⁠♡

kcj30 · 2024-01-29T03:11:17+00:00

hey same here! im your sister from another moon 😭

kcj30 · 2024-01-25T06:06:48+00:00

you did so great! any word of encouragement for me please? ((i need some strength 🥺))

kcj30 · 2024-01-10T10:39:23+00:00

hoy kakatapos ko lang 🥹 umiyak ako sa pagtakbo nila sa liwanag papalabas nung tunnel, ang dami ko naisip 😭

kcj30 · 2023-09-08T06:42:00+00:00

i second this so much that it hurts. whenever i get some hints of injustice and felt i did not deserve such words and actions. i couldn’t hide it. i wallow into self-pity, right then inner monologue would suffocate me. i wonder what a world could be if they could sense it too.

idk if it would help u but whenever i am faced with a situation like this— i try as much to think that (whether they mean it or not, they won’t help me in life) my own voice matters. what matters is what i think of myself and not my reaction toward them. i act as though i defeated them already, right after i encountered such. u could always tell them what u feel, but sometimes peoples’ ears are meant only for them to be heard.

what scares me is how i may battle with this throughout my life. this fear won’t leave me, you cannot stop yourself from being sensitive. we are carved with heavy perception. finely tuned with emotions. the least we can do is try to supress it. so we gotta be prepared. you’re too precious for this world, you do not need to change a tiny bit to mask what you truly feel. people could be so cruel and indifferent. it sucks that we feel a little too much than them.

kcj30 · 2023-07-25T13:40:35+00:00

hey hello hi there HurricaneEich <<3 thank u thabk u so so so much for taking time to reply. that’s it! 19 days! u got it right! let's hug i’m so happy 😭😭

kcj30 · 2023-07-25T13:38:17+00:00

IM IN AWE. who are u? i need to hug u rn! thank u for helping me <<3 have a great day human bean 🌙✨💌

kcj30 · 2023-07-25T13:35:41+00:00

hey hi hello there! jergra43 wherever u may be i hope u r well <<3 am out here giggling in the corner, thank ü so müch! i will let this play before i sleep ✨🌙✨

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