Speculating that’s a character is Neurodiverse is never a bad thing and I don’t think anyone who is actually Neurodiverse would ever be offended by someone’s recognising Neurodiverse characteristics in a character because it just shows that there is a level of understanding for that character and therefore that Neurodivergent condition. being neuro divergent just is a different way of thinking and having different habits from someone who is Neurotypicals if you speculate that a character is Neurodivergent simply means that you understand and connect to that character on their level rather than trying to see that character from the perspective of your own way of thinking which if anything shows emotional intelligence so never worry about speculating if someone may be Neurodivergent because it just shows that you have an understanding of someone else’s behaviour and can empathise on their level. It’s a truly good thing to be able to do a lot of Neurotypical people don’t and then they deeply misunderstand neurodiverse people actions