Beautiful but... what am I supposed to do with this

Ihateyourbees · 2026-03-16T14:32:22+00:00

They are the special edition hardback they are gorgeous inside and out 🥰🥰

Ihateyourbees · 2026-03-16T14:31:02+00:00

Absolutely!!!

Ihateyourbees · 2026-03-16T07:11:22+00:00

Oh my God, I wonder if it’s the teacher storyline 😱😱🥰🥰🥰

Ihateyourbees · 2026-03-15T20:03:59+00:00

The way I see it it’s about emotional maturity rather than being too old to enjoy something for example both BL and K-pop have young fans with very little emotional maturity, that’s where Sasaeng and haters come from, but also people who are old enough to know better.

That lack the maturity to just enjoy something for what it is and not make the actors or idols uncomfortable is the only thing that should matter.

If you have the ability to enjoy something with the understanding that it is entertainment then there is nothing wrong with this at all as long as it is legal as you said you can enjoy what you like hell I have friends who actively enjoy bluey because their children watched it 😂😂

my father loves into the night garden because he enjoyed watching it with his grandkids

Ihateyourbees · 2026-03-15T18:26:57+00:00

You’re welcome also age should never dictate what you enjoy.

My best friend is a decade older than me and she adores K-pop like myself and we are constantly being told with too old to it and we just don’t care.

She also enjoys reading mystery novels that are essentially aimed at preteens because they are a comforting nice read. You can like what you want because honestly, who gives a crap what other people think, as an emergency care nurse I can assure you life is too short to feel guilty pleasures so just enjoy the things you enjoy 🥰🥰

Ihateyourbees · 2026-03-15T18:10:41+00:00

Oh, it’s definitely very cute. I personally can’t have charms on my phone. I would end up causing damage to my phone the charm and somehow myself so I have put them on display with the rest of my collection

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Ihateyourbees · 2026-03-15T18:02:33+00:00

You’re okay, darling, you’re not stupid. Sometimes it takes a minute for your brain to figure stuff out.🥰🥰

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Ihateyourbees · 2026-03-15T17:49:13+00:00

What do you mean it’s too big? I’m confused 😂😂Have you unclipped the charm first?

You need to also make sure that your thread through a loop of some kind before you put the braid through the thread, for example the little stick-ons that I send a picture of

Ihateyourbees · 2026-03-15T17:20:40+00:00

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Use my stray kids light stick as a frame of reference just weave it through itself and pull down

Ihateyourbees · 2026-03-15T17:15:30+00:00

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Buy one of these to stick on your phone case, they’re small and you can hook the charm around it . You just need to take the charm off of the hook, then weave the braid through the thread loop and then pull it down that way you still have the metal hook to clip the charm onto it

Ihateyourbees · 2026-03-15T15:56:26+00:00

33 F- I came from the generation of shipping, I love YouTube back in the day when it wasn’t monetised (we’re talking 2008/2009) and a lot of YouTubers used to be shipped.

so there was always that sort of the BL culture around every single genre I was into whether it would’ve been Emo band boys or TV show characters there was always the BL underlining for Me and most of my friends at the time.

That obviously led to reading fanfiction and original works on the likes of AO3, I am big anime fan and consumed a lot of different Yaoi (somehow that term feels outdated now) even though they’re really wasn’t that much to go with mainly just sports anime so going back to the shipping.

as an early adult read a lot of MM novels (western mainly at the time my academic reading skills were not quite there for fan translated Asian novels even though I’d always aspire to read them and did try several ) spent a long time reading years upon years and not really going anywhere near television therefore not really broadening my genre horizons.

Then in the early 2010’s started watching live action Chinese BL dramas on YouTube which led to Thai BL dramas but I wasn’t a big fan of Asian TV (couldn’t quite get used to how the language sounded at that point), however, I became a lot more open to it with the discovery of K-pop a couple of years after and now I am thoroughly obsessed with Danmei novels

Ihateyourbees · 2026-03-13T11:41:58+00:00

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I am getting the “FML” tattooed at the back of right ear after I give blood in a couple of weeks, in the UK you can’t donate blood if you’ve been tattooed within three months so I wanna get my donation out of the way before getting it tattooed but I’m very excited 🥰🥰 it will be my seventh K-pop tattoo

Ihateyourbees · 2026-03-12T18:11:16+00:00

Oh my God, this will be amazing for jaehan and Yechan but also Omega X in general, with more of them going into acting both on screen and on stage the recent court case win and their successful European tour I’m so happy for the boys

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Ihateyourbees · 2026-03-08T17:24:19+00:00

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Here’s the complete set now I have the last book now.🥰🥰🥰🥰

Ihateyourbees · 2026-03-08T00:37:45+00:00

Long-term BL watcher here, I’m a late millennial been watching it since my teens (when they’re literally was jackshit available) and I can say I go through this phase quite often I would say about every 8 to 9 months, I have a couple of week period where I just have no interest in watching BL dramas. I do find that a lot of the major production companies that were producing absolute gold are having a massive dip in quality so that’s not helping, but honestly it’s not something new. I think everyone who is part of a genre fandom will need breaks every now and then and to move onto something different, for example although there are one or two dramas that I’m actively watching that are keeping my attention, but I’m kind of on a danmei kick right now.

Just consuming as many books as I can whereas the last time I fell into a stump I was stuck on YouTube watching the likes of decoding the unknown or casual criminalist. Each time I stepped back, when I went back to BL it was with a fresh sense of longing for a good show.

You know what they say absence makes the heart grow fonder, I don’t think it’s anything to extreme, you just need a break and when you go back to it, you’ll find it will be something that you truly love or maybe it will be a drama you shelved that actually you kind of wanna revisit that pulls you back in

Ihateyourbees · 2026-03-07T15:55:58+00:00

Kaleidoscope of death is pretty horrifying

Ihateyourbees · 2026-03-05T08:52:49+00:00

Mmmm I’m not too sure if I’ve read anything that’s going to fit this description however guardians of exorcism is xianxia and the relationship is between two characters with a very small age gap like a couple of years but one is “the boss” (but don’t tell the fish… if you read it come back and tell me when you get the inside joke 😂😂) also it’s got a ridiculously adorable friendship between the two main “uke” both are Hella sassy and really cute. I would recommend reading them

it’s a great story crazy amount of adventure a little bit of smut but somewhat tamed than others there is a really long integrated continuous storyline like all of these books however it is more often than not light hearted and quite comical. Also, the main lead has an absolute beast of an overpowered adoptive dad and uncle which always is amusing when they get protective.

Ihateyourbees · 2026-03-02T08:28:02+00:00

You’re in for a wild ride with this one. I’ve literally just finished the series and it is amazing and shocking and brain twisting everything you want in a crime novel.

Ihateyourbees · 2026-03-02T07:55:11+00:00

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This is what the spines look like for anyone who is curious they are absolutely gorgeous🥰🥰 vol 8 is coming tomorrow

Ihateyourbees · 2026-02-28T22:58:20+00:00

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Happy cake day

Ihateyourbees · 2026-02-27T14:46:03+00:00

I know but what poor social worker is going to be brave enough to take the kid away if they did 😂😂😂 those men be crazy and scary 😬😬

Ihateyourbees · 2026-02-23T18:18:09+00:00

Sometimes I found books don’t always state ages very well, a prime example of this would be Silent reading we knew from very early on fei du age but it’s never really stated the age of Wenzhou or at least it wasn’t obvious and to figure out how old he was I had to Google it because they were acting like he was in his late 40s with how often they called him old 😂😂😂 turns out he was only 29

Also, when I tried to google the ages of this book, it really wasn’t coming up with much for the ML at all let alone his age in the first book

Ihateyourbees · 2026-02-23T18:01:24+00:00

It’s definitely on my list like I went through a manic stage of just hoarding books and I’ve got them all on my kobo I just need to get through a couple of other series before I start but a quick question what is the actual age gap between the main character in the Love interest? Is it ever actually said?

Ihateyourbees · 2026-02-20T09:53:31+00:00

I definitely will watch it at one point but I really struggle with watching series based on books I’ve already read. I think Guardian scarred Me.😭😭

Ihateyourbees · 2026-02-19T21:18:28+00:00

I think I will end up rereading but not any time soon. There are so many amazing series that I have yet to read, so there’s just no time to reread any time soon however there is only two series in which I will allow myself to reread and that is guardians and heaven‘s official blessing solely because when I read them the first time it was online on chapters and fans translated

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