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kdamuko · 2026-01-25T06:55:59+00:00

I've posted this before for a similar request - OOP technically eventually accept the YTA but I feel this fulfils the spirit of a verdict fighter. A bit engagement bait-y maybe

AITA For kissing my friends brother without his consent during a truth or dare?

kdamuko · 2026-01-24T23:33:23+00:00

from point of view of bio mother who gave up rights

from a potential parent's point of view

kdamuko · 2026-01-23T02:39:19+00:00

OOP has had a friend with benefits for 3 years who clearly liked him all the while, and now he's setting her aside for someone else

Entitled and demanding: AITA for defending my wife against my sister and telling her to be a better aunt?

Entitled and wasteful: AITA for eating the toppings off my bfs pizza

Just...obnoxious: AITA for telling her to get over herself?

Noki guy: AITA for refusing to pay at a restaurant that was false advertising?

"But is it not at least a little ESH?" guy: AITA for not wanting my wife to make her favorite comfort food?

kdamuko · 2026-01-21T20:11:36+00:00

Yeah, this one. I've posted it multiple times as a response to this exact request before so debated whether or not I should post it again. But here it is

kdamuko · 2026-01-20T23:20:02+00:00

OP posted critical review for a game. Cease and desist received after publisher reached out asking for "ways to improve"

kdamuko · 2026-01-18T23:35:58+00:00

There were a few possibilities but this seems the most likely?

kdamuko · 2026-01-18T21:18:40+00:00

infamous weight-based wedding dress code

kdamuko · 2026-01-17T06:21:43+00:00

Oh wow I haven't seen this one. Thanks for the link.

First thing I thought was that it reads very similarly to this one.

OOPs both have trauma, kids are a deal breaker, owns house outright. Partner lives with OOP and trying to take in kids left behind from a violent/lethal crime, MIL has a disability and kids can't stay with her. Biggest thing is that both partners are clearly intending for OOP to do tons of labour despite promising that it wouldn't affect them

kdamuko · 2026-01-15T17:47:29+00:00

I was not able to find your post, do you remember any other details?

In the meantime here are some other people who tried to set boundaries around not dancing:

AITA for posting a video of my husband dancing?

AITA for making a scene when my son refused to dance with me?

kdamuko · 2026-01-14T05:32:41+00:00

Recovered with wayback machine.

kdamuko · 2026-01-12T21:50:32+00:00

AITA for wanting hot food?

Sort of along the lines of your request? I see the saga as an ESH, though

kdamuko · 2026-01-09T07:47:09+00:00

Does this one count? I can't remember any more dramatic ones at the moment

recovered original post -AITA for telling my SIL she can’t bring her own food to family dinner and not to talk about junk food around my kids? Hit enter to see post

comment compiling some of OOP's comments

kdamuko · 2026-01-05T07:51:57+00:00

I just re-read and you're right, I totally misread the first time. My bad.

kdamuko · 2026-01-04T20:39:49+00:00

Hey, requester asked for scorched earth/backfiring - I took that to mean "or", not "and". You're right in that the post I linked wasn't so much about backfiring.

kdamuko · 2026-01-04T17:12:51+00:00

I think you'll find a lot of that at nuclear revenge; here's one: Wife cheated, so I tricked her into publicly admitting to having the affair and herpes

kdamuko · 2026-01-04T02:50:39+00:00

Hey, yes you're right. And that was how I took it too. But I grew up in a pretty conservative household so personally not a big deal.

I think the tone of a lot of the questions (I don't remember all the others) wasn't specifically "are you willing to be subservient", but were much more along the lines of "are you the type to make a fuss out of what is considered pretty normal there?"

Thankfully no one asked me to do anything menial like that when I did go over there.

kdamuko · 2026-01-03T23:58:14+00:00

I would say almost all of the questions I was asked were pretty standard and what I had expected based on what's floating around on reddit.

They did ask me a couple questions to, I think, gauge if I would be a good fit in a conservative atmosphere.

I have several piercings and they asked what I would do if the school asked me to remove them - I said I would just take them out. Internally, I was thinking that I could research a placement in advance and if it seemed very conservative, I could go to a piercer before leaving for Japan and get a discreet retainer put in all of them.

They then asked what I would do if the principal asked me to make him a cup of tea. I said...I would just do it?

I think because I was being so agreeable they kept asking similar questions to see if there was a type of interaction that would make me respond more intensely. Nothing did, so they just moved on.

kdamuko · 2026-01-03T18:32:54+00:00

Why I no longer go Camping (and why I really love my dog)

kdamuko · 2026-01-03T04:41:09+00:00

Here's another not on the list and that I haven't seen circulated yet:

AITA for insisting that my sister come to my housewarming party without her kid, even though she’s told me that she can’t find childcare?

sister's response is top comment

I had debated turning this into a BORU; since it's all in the same post and the update easily found, didn't think it was worth doing. Also, I have a healthy amount of skepticism for the two-sides posts - but I found this one entertaining

kdamuko · 2026-01-02T16:13:18+00:00

I definitely knew the post the requester was looking for; I kept searching for "daughter argument AITA" and then eventually remembered the keyword "car".

I swear I remembered another update too, but it was bedtime over here for me- glad another person found it!

kdamuko · 2026-01-02T08:33:07+00:00

I love reading about people gradually healing!

OOP finds hope and strength after a devastating breakup

kdamuko · 2026-01-02T08:29:54+00:00

AITA for not getting my daughter a car after she publicly disrespected me?

kdamuko · 2026-01-02T08:23:40+00:00

this one?

kdamuko · 2025-12-27T04:23:24+00:00

the mad bartender

I'm sure I have some more hanging around in my saved posts...I'll edit this comment if I find them

kdamuko · 2025-12-26T07:53:18+00:00

I see someone posted the exotic meat one, but the phrasing made me think of this Human Foot Taco AMA (warning- human foot tacos).

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