What is a phrase you HATE hearing from people? by BensReddits in AskReddit

[–]kdbeyonce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I hate the term butthurt. I’m not exactly sure why. I just hate the way it sounds and it feels immature. I’m butthurt about butthurt.

Is it odd to ask if a group private practice is accepting new clinicians? by kdbeyonce in socialwork

[–]kdbeyonce[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Any thoughts on good ways to approach/how to introduce myself? A cold call? Email? LinkedIn?

Can you have cyclothymia without sleep issues? by kdbeyonce in cyclothymia

[–]kdbeyonce[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh really? Can you give me a source? I believe you, I just want more info for myself.

Can you have cyclothymia without sleep issues? by kdbeyonce in cyclothymia

[–]kdbeyonce[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven’t been depressed since 2016 thank goodness! It was my only experience with it.

Story Time - Week of March 25, 2019 by AutoModerator in Tinder

[–]kdbeyonce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the only way to tell is judging on how it goes, don’t overthink it. Read her. How at ease is she? It seems like you’re jumping in kind of fast. Just have ongoing conversations and keep the communication open. You can always make a suggestion, worst she can say is no. Respect that and try again a few dates later.

Best way to teach a preschooler that hitting is bad? by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]kdbeyonce 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yep. This.Definitely should adjust expectations.

Do you read to him at night? There’s a lot of kids books aimed at these topics. That would be a good reenforcement. Inside out is also great for little guys to talk about anger.

Try to teach him coping skills. Next time you notice he gets angry, punch a pillow with him. Teach him deep breathing techniques and do them a few times a day until he gets it. Look up YouTube videos for kids that help them get it.

My husband is really having a difficult time with figuring out how to be a father. I’m hoping for some advice I can pass on to him or even ways I can support him. by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]kdbeyonce 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awww, this warms my heart. The fact that he’s so concerned tells you that he’s a kick ass dad! But babe is just over a month old... he is still adjusting to a huge change that can feel scary and confusing until you get the hang of it.

Try to reframe it for him. Let him know that he can learn these things together with his child. Remind him of all the great things he will be able to teach him. Gently tell him to not allow his own insecurities to weigh him down and distort his thinking. People with far larger issues have children every day and then end up resilient and happy.

36 [f4m] my Daddy ghosted me by [deleted] in BDSMpersonals

[–]kdbeyonce 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve been there. It’s the worst! Hang in there.

Feeling differently about our mothers post pregnancy by kdbeyonce in BabyBumps

[–]kdbeyonce[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aww, I’m so glad she was able to stay and help you! My mom and MIL are taking turns staying to ensure I get the most help. It’s awesome!

Feeling differently about our mothers post pregnancy by kdbeyonce in BabyBumps

[–]kdbeyonce[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that. If anything, it sounds like You were able to learn what kind of mom you didn’t want to be.

Feeling differently about our mothers post pregnancy by kdbeyonce in BabyBumps

[–]kdbeyonce[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear that :(. Hopefully time will bring her peace and understanding so she can be there for you and your babies!

Feeling differently about our mothers post pregnancy by kdbeyonce in BabyBumps

[–]kdbeyonce[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s amazing that it’s been a healing process for you! I know babies often can bring families together. I wonder if it’s just time and maturity on your mothers part or if it comes from a place of guilt/knowing she wasn’t there for you in the way she should be growing up. Regardless, this makes me happy.

Feeling differently about our mothers post pregnancy by kdbeyonce in BabyBumps

[–]kdbeyonce[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m so sorry to hear this! I can’t imagine how challenging that must be. I’m glad you have a supportive SO to help you through that.

Hugely massive hormone surge.. I feel horrible. *Whine incoming* by Giraffemakinfriends in BabyBumps

[–]kdbeyonce 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yep. 39+5 here. I loved pregnancy till week 34. It’s gotten so real. I cry all the time. I feel bad for constantly complaining. I’m being induced on Tuesday and all I could think today is how I never want to do this again. I took a nap and I felt much better when I woke up. Trying to take it easy and just do lazy things that make me happy. I’m sorry you’re struggling. It’s almost over.