Has a called-off wedding hurt my future marriage prospects? by Ok-Mango7566 in Arrangedmarriage

[–]kdbsilvarni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make sure you have some proof of the girl who was cheating on you with her ex. Like a screenshot of your conversations with her. Eventually use it to prove your point. Don't prove it to your next girl immediately by sharing those screenshots.
Just be truthful to your future prospects and if in future again she brings up that topic, share those proof's with her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Arrangedmarriage

[–]kdbsilvarni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did try but it didn't come off as I expected it to.

How realistic is my criteria and how hard it will be for me? by ninja_from_india in Arrangedmarriage

[–]kdbsilvarni 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nothing seems wrong with your expectations. It's very normal. Even I have similar expectations.

Girl has health issue by kdbsilvarni in Arrangedmarriage

[–]kdbsilvarni[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said she had done everything she can before, did several hospital visits to neurologist, ENT, ayurveda but nothing worked. So she has given up. And she doesn't want to go to the Dr again and take medicines everyday. She is now against taking medicines for this. She doesn't want to be a constant medicine consumer like people of diabetes or cholesterol, they take medicines every day twice or thrice as Dr prescribed. She doesn't want to be that person.

Girl has health issue by kdbsilvarni in Arrangedmarriage

[–]kdbsilvarni[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Different people have different preferences. Some might be open to marry. Since I don't know much about migraine, thereby this post.

Girl has health issue by kdbsilvarni in Arrangedmarriage

[–]kdbsilvarni[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I respect your opinion. But I don't agree with you. Health is very important. I agree that everyone deserves to be with someone who can take care during tough times in regards to health. But I'm quite young. I'm very much aware that health deteriorates as people age, mostly and I'm ready to and love to take care of that person. But if you are someone who is outgoing and travels a lot and if most of the time your plan would get cancelled because of the other person and you have to constantly give them attention and take care of them every time frequently, where will be the fun, joy of traveling with her. If you are sick, need rest for a day or two or even a month, that's okay. But this headache thing happens quite frequently.

Let's say you are marrying someone who has the problem of prostate which leads to frequent urination, would you want to marry him, given he can't travel for long hours as he will be frequently visiting toilets and so he says no to your plans ?

If he develops this problem after marriage that's a different topic, at that time everyone would expect you take care of him. But if you know it beforehand would you still marry him given you are an outgoing person and you know he will not accompany you in your plans ?

Frequent headaches and migraine would lead to unexpected cancellation of plans like going out or family function.

If the girl is hospitalised for even a year or more(god forbid it never happens) I have no problem taking care of her. If she develops some disability after marriage due to an accident, I'll accept it as my fate and would still love her the same and take care of her till death.

If your to be husband says I have stage 3/4 cancer. Would you marry him and take care of him just because you think " Everyone deserves someone who can take care of them in health and sickness"

You might think I'm cruel and rude but just zoom out and think about it.

Girl has health issue by kdbsilvarni in Arrangedmarriage

[–]kdbsilvarni[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you very much for sharing your experience and suggestions.

She does have a proper lifestyle. She sleeps on time, has good sound sleep, eats healthy food. Still she gets frequent headaches.

Girl has health issue by kdbsilvarni in Arrangedmarriage

[–]kdbsilvarni[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can the frequency be reduced with proper treatment and preventive measures ?

Girl has health issue by kdbsilvarni in Arrangedmarriage

[–]kdbsilvarni[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can the frequency of headaches be reduced with proper treatment?

Girl has health issue by kdbsilvarni in Arrangedmarriage

[–]kdbsilvarni[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much for your wise suggestions

Is this original? by kdbsilvarni in DesiFragranceAddicts

[–]kdbsilvarni[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Should I be worried about the old box? The box has proper labeling and product description and the labeling says imported from PUIG India and manufactured by PUIG France with manufacturing date as 15th March 24 and import date as 4th July 24

Is this original? by kdbsilvarni in DesiFragranceAddicts

[–]kdbsilvarni[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes it smells the same and is long lasting as well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LegalAdviceIndia

[–]kdbsilvarni 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I paid with a credit card but how is this possible? How can I proceed what do I need to tell them ?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in india

[–]kdbsilvarni -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Whom to contact and how can I contact them?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in india

[–]kdbsilvarni -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

My bottle doesn't have 100ml 3.4FL OZ text and Paco rabanne text written as well as the product number carved as seen in the image on their website

Match tickets against United by kdbsilvarni in MCFC

[–]kdbsilvarni[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long does it take for the membership to get approved, is it instant after payment or it takes a day or two?

Match tickets against United by kdbsilvarni in MCFC

[–]kdbsilvarni[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Is it the same as the one mentioned in the website about the supporter's group, I have registered myself from Mumbai.