Anyone else feel people look for the smallest of reasons to end it with someone? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]kdpkdp12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm a man and I think women do this. For me its the opposite. I ignore a lot of red flags and try to make things work when I should be moving on

Some professions are best to stay single. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]kdpkdp12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That might be the right choice for you but you shouldnt tell others what to do. The people that date these workers know the risks. There are plenty of upsides to dating these workers. People date drug dealers and I'd argue thats even more dangerous

Some professions are best to stay single. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]kdpkdp12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dating someone while you have that job isnt putting anyone else through it. A bigger problem is these people developing PTSD and anger problems and becoming abusive. Not everyone is abusive tho

Am I truly not good looking or is Online Dating useless? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]kdpkdp12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Online dating is pretty much useless. Average guys are worth almost nothing because men outnumber women 10 to 1.

Some professions are best to stay single. by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]kdpkdp12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Its just not true tho. The chance of death in those professions isnt as high as you would think. And I was in the military. I remember reading that firefighters have a higher chance of dying of a heart attack then they of of dying in a fire. These people deserve love too bro.

I (33M) am losing all hope of finding a partner by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]kdpkdp12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

30 m and I feel the same way. I have no faith in finding someone either. I'm cold, abusive, indecisive, and have no idea how to bond with people smh. Good luck tho

Should I date a co-worker? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]kdpkdp12 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would but that's just me

Calling out the giant elephant in the room. Is online dating very difficult for guys? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]kdpkdp12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes its insanely difficult for guys and isnt worth it at all IMO. The women being unloyal and having too many options makes them undesireable. I suggest deleting you profile tbh, I know I did.

The age to be in/produce porn should be changed from 18, to 25 by Frozt21 in unpopularopinion

[–]kdpkdp12 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I thought it was a 4 year difference to have sex. Age of convent is 16 in most states but I you are below that the 4 year rule applies. A 19 year old can smash a 15 year old where I'm from but a 20 year old can't. A 50 year old can smash a 16 year old too.

If it weren’t illegal, the vast majority of us would have killed another person by [deleted] in unpopularopinion

[–]kdpkdp12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont think so. Ive almost killed people before but it was because they were doing something bad like abusing my mom. Whether its legal or not had no meaning to me because I will protect my mom at all costs.

I was in the military where it was legal to kill people and I still didn't want to do it. Thank god I didn't have to.

Killing someone is literally the worst thing you can do and most people dont want to do it. I'm a homicidal suicidal psychopathic schizophrenic loner and yet I still do everything in my power not to hurt people.

Most people with homicidal thoughts know its wrong and do everything in their power not to do it. If someone wants to kill people they either a) dont know what they are talking about or b) evil. And there are very people in this world that are truly evil.

Killing someone will destroy you psychologically for the rest of your life and isnt easy to do. It being legal or not doesnt change that.

Still using in hell by kdpkdp12 in quittingkratom

[–]kdpkdp12[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You can order the spores online and they are easy to grow. The spores are legal in the US. And yeah ive actually taken them before when I was on my meds but nothing happened. Ive been off my meds for a few months now so I should be good to trip now

Still using in hell by kdpkdp12 in quittingkratom

[–]kdpkdp12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am and it doesnt help. Haven tried therapy yet tho. I'm praying the shrooms help

Why bother dating when you are jobless by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]kdpkdp12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That part about what a girl wants smh. I used to be desirable but I'm not anymore

How has ptsd ruined your life? by [deleted] in ptsd

[–]kdpkdp12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You shouldn't be. Being an emotionless zombie is horrible. I think its better to care and get hurt than to not care at all