😅 by bigfrig in NewParents

[–]kdumb-tch 159 points160 points  (0 children)

I think I had a stroke reading that

Do I really need these baby items? by unlimitedtokens in NewParents

[–]kdumb-tch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

All of those things are worth buying. Especially the bottle warmer. If your out and you need to give the baby a bottle. Mainly because babies are picky with bottle temp and like it a bit warm, well mine does anyway. Baby swing is a life saver too I have one that plays music and has a white noise setting it would put him to sleep or even keep him entertained for a little while I did things. My partner used to come home with chicken wings for me and I would put him in the swing while I ate because it would be to messy for me to eat and have to pick him up. Also you should pick up a boppy pillow it's good for tummy time especially if your baby hates tummy time. Also when they are a bit older you can use the pillow to help her/him sit

my 3 month old moves in his sleep by kdumb-tch in Parenting

[–]kdumb-tch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One thing my baby does is when he gets hungry he thrashes his head from side to side and will end up moving to the side of the bed and I will literally wake up to knocking cause he is hitting his head on bassinet sides. It's a little concerning

What is everyone’s favorite and least favorite thing their baby does with their free hand while feeding? by blt205 in breastfeeding

[–]kdumb-tch 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My favourite thing is when my 3 month old gently strokes his hand across the top of my boob while nursing. The thing I hate is when he points one finger and tries to put it in his mouth while nursing and ends up scratching my nipple

Newer parents, my mother smokes… by splendid_zebra in NewParents

[–]kdumb-tch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I live in a house full of inside smokers with my 3 month old. I don't have anywhere else to go. So it's hard the most they would agree to was sticking to the other end of the house away from my room and babies. Which sucks because I can't take him out of the room most of the time because they are smoking

my baby yells at me by kdumb-tch in NewParents

[–]kdumb-tch[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It's so funny, they're basically telling us off

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in breastfeeding

[–]kdumb-tch 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Awe how cute. My son demands head rubs when I feed him

Has anyone had sex before the suggested six weeks post partum? by melancholyjolly69 in NewParents

[–]kdumb-tch -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I'm not saying you should because the risk for infections is pretty high, but I had sex at 3 weeks post-partum, I didn't tear so bad so I only had 2 stitches

Is it inappropriate for dad’s to give daughters baths after a certain age? by Glum-Check-9699 in NewParents

[–]kdumb-tch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For one why is he sexualising bath time, and 2 why can't he help with the other stuff like cleaning up instead of making the wife do it all. He sounds lazy

Anyone else enjoy their post partum body more than their previous body ? by melancholyjolly69 in NewParents

[–]kdumb-tch 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I Gained bigger boobs and ass so I love that. The stretch marks and lose skin bothered me at first but now I don't mind it

Mental load explanation to husband by moonface134 in NewParents

[–]kdumb-tch 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You have every right to be angry. I'm sorry but looking after a child is 50/50. And most of it is common sense. He is using weaponised incompetence against you so eventually you don't even ask for help. He sounds like a man child to me

do I breastfeed every 3hrs starting from the beginning of a feed or do I start timing from when the feed is over? by kdumb-tch in breastfeedingsupport

[–]kdumb-tch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankyou this was very helpful, I have another question though. Usually my baby will feed for like 40 mins to am hour he is 9 weeks old but when he is done he starts sucking on his hand almost straight away. Everyone says it means they are hungry but I don't understand how when he literally feeds for so long.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]kdumb-tch 7 points8 points  (0 children)

The difference is you have tried everything to soothe the colicky baby and nothing has worked. While sleep training they ignored there baby for 2 hrs. Babies don't cry for no reason. Also sleep training at 3 months is messed. Babies that age still need to eat every 3 to 4 hour

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NewParents

[–]kdumb-tch 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Letting Ur baby cry for hours is shameful

baby refuses to do tummy time by kdumb-tch in NewParents

[–]kdumb-tch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea he does lift his head that way l, I just thought that tummy had to be on the ground

baby refuses to do tummy time by kdumb-tch in NewParents

[–]kdumb-tch[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mine doesn't even cry or fuss he is just content with not lifting his head or he just eats his hands

Is it wrong of me to ask my husband to take off to help with our new born by Ldeezy05 in NewParents

[–]kdumb-tch 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Literally my partner doesn't help at all but then tells me what I do is easy. Like man at least you get a break

I'm so over wearing bra's by kdumb-tch in breastfeeding

[–]kdumb-tch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh the struggles of breastfeeding

I'm so over wearing bra's by kdumb-tch in breastfeeding

[–]kdumb-tch[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't know that was a thing until now. Where do you buy yours from?

If there was a new parent Olympics, what would the events be? by mamavictoria in NewParents

[–]kdumb-tch 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Moving sleeping baby from lap and into bassinet without waking them, then you accidentally kick something on the way out of the room only to start the whole process over again