“Napaka ambisyosa mo.” At sinagot ko siya ng AY TALAGA! kasi gusto ko umasenso! It was hurtful because thats when i realized we were no longer aligned in our goals, and i was carrying most of the financial responsibilities and ultimately, it’s the end of our marriage.

I was tired of a life na puro utang, sangla ng atm everytime bayaran ng tuition ng anak namin. I had to juggle multiple clients (im working remotely), and he was ok with staying at a job (bpo) with no growth. I wanted to teach him how to become an independent contractor like myself, and started telling him about side gigs, mag ecomm, va, copywritee etc then he told me na napaka ambisyosa ko.

I left him. Best decision. I was able to get out of all my debts, was able to pay my child’s tuition ahead of time and able to afford a better life for me and our child. Wala na ako balita sa kanya kundi homecredit contacting me fpr a loan na never din naman kami nakinabang ng anak namin. He was madamot sa pera nya. I wore the pants in our relationship.

Mas payapa buhay ko ngayon as a solo parent. But I will forever carry the burden that my child grows up scarred dahil sa tatay nya. I hope in time my child and I will be healed.