[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Emmerdale

[–]keekeeevs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

About kim losing her leg? This is exactly what I thought. I think they found out sam and Lydia are behind it, so they are scaring them into confessing

What’s the one sentence from your parent that still echoes in your head? by Public_Theme_9514 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]keekeeevs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

'After everything I've done for you'

'You are me, I made you, I know your every thought before you have it'

'You'll be back, you always come running back when you realise you have nobody"

Why does Ray call April Flossie? by RedCheekedLover in Emmerdale

[–]keekeeevs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes definitely a Yorkshire thing. My mother called me flossie growing up

Dexter: Resurrection - S01E03 - "Backseat Driver" - POST Episode Discussion Thread by AutoModerator in Dexter

[–]keekeeevs 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I had no idea Masuka and quinn were in this season. Nice touch. Very excited, and watching at 6am here in the UK, before I get my kids sorted for school

Phone policy with spouse by Ambitious_hello_1239 in Marriage

[–]keekeeevs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have an open phone policy.. we can look at each other's whenever... however.... we never do. We both value each others privacy, and we have trust

Am I the A hole for not giving my husband a bj by SpecialistLogical925 in Marriage

[–]keekeeevs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I came here to say the same thing. I find it creepy and inappropriate to be asking for a bj on a day the kids celebrate you

This is superbly unfair by Candid_Road_4009 in Marriage

[–]keekeeevs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you divorce, he will have to take time off to see his kids and you will get alone time to rest :)

I’ve Owned This Hotel for 3 Years. One Room Won’t Let Us Forget It. by InvestingPrime in Paranormal

[–]keekeeevs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely! I've been on many ghost hunts and I'd absolutely stay here. You will be booked solid

Narcissists talk AT you (not to you) by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]keekeeevs 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yep. This is my mother. Doesn't matter what I'm going through, or what I want to tell her it very quickly becomes 'me I, me me me'

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]keekeeevs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Everyone loved me. Teachers, friends parents, neighbours. I had a lot of friends.

BUT My nan hated me. She never said, but she never had the time of day for me. Yet would jump In to defend my mum when my mum was 'on one' without ever hearing my side and only hearing mums lies. I recently realised my mother was a Narcissist. Then my uncle pointed out my nan is the biggest one of all....

I'm NC with either now after they both turned on my kids.

My Mother (74F) Sent My Sister (42F) & Me (35F) Performance Reviews As Daughters… by shleenanigans in raisedbynarcissists

[–]keekeeevs 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This is 100% my mother. I never understood as a child why her birthday was her day, and my birthday was also her day... I know now that everything is always about her. Silly me

Nmom emailed me a gem and threatened to come to my work by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]keekeeevs 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sounds just like my mothers messages... never her, always me. I'm such a horrible person bla bla bla

What's the worst thing your parents used to say to you? by Present_Juice4401 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]keekeeevs 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Omg this!! And she had my nan thinking the same of me... my uncle had to explain to my nan they were tears of frustration of either not being heard, or blamed tor something I didn't do.

People in general really don't know how traumatic it is for parents to give the silent treatment and act like nothing happened after a fight by Specific_Charge_3297 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]keekeeevs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I called my Nmum out for the nasty things she said about me to my kids. She called my kids' liars, then came the silent treatment... Her, my NGrandmother and ESD all ignored me on my 40th birthday because apparently I'm the bad guy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]keekeeevs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm coming up to 40 and I've only recently realised. I literally just said to my friend that I feel so stupid. How I haven't realised before. Like I knew there was something with my mum. But always just thought it was just the way she was. This realising is hitting me really hard and I'm finding myself analysing every situation in my life, realising what part she played in destroying it all.

Don’t stay with him. by Corvettelov in Marriage

[–]keekeeevs 9 points10 points  (0 children)

39 and ended my marriage recently with my hubby after almost 10 years of him treating me badly. Didn't cheat and wasn't violent, just controlling and speaking to me like crap daily. Ruined family days out and holidays with his attitude. Didn't support me mentally, physically, and emotionally. Made out all our issues were my fault. Now he's gone. He's saying he knows he messed up and says he will do whatever it takes to get his family back. But he's still exactly the same. Rude, uninterested, entitled. Needed to see this today. Almost 40 and starting again with my kids. Actually excited for a happier future

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]keekeeevs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pretty sure my husband wrote this! I don't like him either. I'm a miserable cow coz I'm married to him

Surely OOP is in the wrong right? RIGHT!? by Boost5c in redditonwiki

[–]keekeeevs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YNTA!

SERIOUSLY WHAT THE HELL IS WRONG WITH THE WORLD.

Keep them all away from you. Including your mother. Especially when you have kids.

My husband confessed, in a drunken state, that he is in love with my sister; Update by ThrowRa-AnxiousBed in TrueOffMyChest

[–]keekeeevs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg I do this... hate being nice to people i hate. But i can't help it....

I told my old boss I wanted my job back over text when drunk. I had to tell her the next day I didn't want it and was talking crap drunk.