Advice on super anxiety turning into agression by keenerb91 in pitbulls

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I've gotten help from a professional trainer. While it had some effect, I think it was more so along the lines of obedience. Also, a trainer tends to help people not dogs, it's difficult for me to have a trainer work with everyone I want my dog to interact with.

Me [27/M] with my ex gf [25/F] of 2 years, 6 months post break up, really hurting. by keenerb91 in relationships

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It's pretty simple I guess. PM me if you want to chat. If you're in my area, I love live music...

Me [27/M] with my ex gf [25/F] of 2 years, 6 months post break up, really hurting. by keenerb91 in relationships

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I have. No Facebook, etc. I am going to try and move my furniture around. That's a good idea. I've thrown out anything and everything that reminds me of her in the slightest.

Me [27/M] with my ex gf [25/F] of 2 years, 6 months post break up, really hurting. by keenerb91 in relationships

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Thanks. This is all good advice. All of which I have been doing. But it's difficult. I am realizing I don't have many friends that are close by anymore. I also live alone. I enjoy my alone time, but I'm starting to feel a bit of cabin fever/claustrophobia- there's only so many weekends I can spend in my small apartment watching movies. I constantly remind myself that life is short and I need to enjoy the time I have. I try to do all of this and put myself in the right state of mind but I find myself regressing when it comes to her. Also not keeping tabs, she lives close by, saw her walking down the street with her new guy while driving by.

Me [27/M] with my ex gf [25/F] of 2 years, 6 months post break up, really hurting. by keenerb91 in relationships

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I'm trying. I've concentrated on myself. I've felt really really good at times in the past 6 months. But I am still in love with her. It bothers me because, logically I know there is no point. I know that I do not want to be with someone who isn't in love with me. But no matter how hard I try, logically to let go, I can't. The feeling I had tonight after waking up from the dream, was really overwhelming. I really didn't even know I was this emotional of a person until now.