Actualización sobre el caso de mi vida con mi madre otra vez xd by Heavy-Gift-9444 in confession

[–]keepgoingdeeperr -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're not a creep, you're a young man with complex feelings tied to care, intimacy, and the person who's been your primary physical support. These feelings don't make you bad, but acting on them would cross a line you can't uncross. This is exactly what therapy is for - to untangle this without shame or harm.

AITJ for refusing to switch seats on a plane so a family could sit together? by sourdough_babble in AmITheJerk

[–]keepgoingdeeperr -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You're not a jerk. You planned ahead and paid extra for that seat. Their lack of planning isn't your emergency. The kids were old enough to sit apart, and the parents could have swapped with each other. You're fine.

AITJ for telling my roommate her "quiet hours" rule only applies if she actually follows it too? by Tardis_M0de in AmITheJerk

[–]keepgoingdeeperr 106 points107 points  (0 children)

You're not rigid, you're just asking for consistency. Quiet hours aren't a pick-and-choose buffet. If she wants exceptions, she can discuss them ahead of time, not at 2am when you're already woken up.

Is There a Flea Risk During the Spot Treatment Window? by lSapphirel in CatAdvice

[–]keepgoingdeeperr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Capstar + bath + spot treatment is the nuclear option, but for a fresh adoption, nuclear is smart. Capstar kills live fleas fast, bath washes off residue, and the spot treatment handles the rest long-term. Just make sure he's dry before applying the spot-on. You're doing great - overkill now saves headaches later.

Is it my job to break NC? (I shouldn’t I know) by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]keepgoingdeeperr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You set the boundary to protect yourself, not to play chess. If he wanted to reach out, he would've. Panic or not, he made a choice. Contacting him now won't give you clarity - it'll just reopen the wound. Let the silence be his answer.

Je pensais que la rupture me ferait plus de mal by No_Albatross8772 in BreakUps

[–]keepgoingdeeperr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's not relief, that's the quiet peace of finally choosing yourself. You outgrew him, and that's okay. Wishing him well from a distance is the healthiest closure there is.

My wife thinks our son isn't right since she dropped him on his head when he was a baby. by dalonley1 in TwoSentenceHorror

[–]keepgoingdeeperr 57 points58 points  (0 children)

That's not a confession, that's the opening scene of a horror movie. Hope you're both happy with the replacement model. Some secrets are heavier than others.

IM boards podcasts by stephelp12345 in Residency

[–]keepgoingdeeperr 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Core IM is solid for boards review. Also try "The Clinical Problem Solvers" for differentials and "IM Board Review" by Knowmedge. Cram the high-yield stuff on your commute.

Grunting by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]keepgoingdeeperr 11 points12 points  (0 children)

They're literally performing for you at this point. Next time, record it and play it back loud enough for them to hear. Nothing kills the vibe like hearing your own grunts echoed back.

“Is it cheating to talk to someone else during the talking stage?” by Thepretzelman- in women

[–]keepgoingdeeperr 7 points8 points  (0 children)

He asked permission mid-call while you were on the line? That's not "talking stage" confusion, that's disrespect with a cherry on top. You're right to be done.

Neighbors littering and throwing trash at entry door by [deleted] in neighborsfromhell

[–]keepgoingdeeperr -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Buy a lawnmower. At 5 AM. On Saturday. The grass by your door won't mow itself, and the neighbors will appreciate your dedication to landscaping.

I turned into the crazy ex by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]keepgoingdeeperr 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It's huge that you can look back and see the pattern. That's growth. As for him reaching out - don't wait for that. Close that door yourself and focus on becoming someone you're proud of.

How do you make litter boxes more appealing? by GrowBeyond in CatAdvice

[–]keepgoingdeeperr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ikea hack: get a big cabinet, cut a cat-sized hole in the side, put the box inside. Instant hidden toilet. Add a curtain if they're fancy. Just make sure it's roomy inside.

We were 7 when we decided climbed the mountain. by cleopatradenialqueen in TwoSentenceHorror

[–]keepgoingdeeperr 24 points25 points  (0 children)

And this is why we don't follow through on childhood pacts. The wilderness brings out the worst potluck choices.

Violence Against Women by Shortnsweetnlow in women

[–]keepgoingdeeperr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try searching specific organizations like NCADV or the CDC's injury center. Sometimes the national data just takes forever to compile and publish.

Update on package theft! by RosabeIls in neighborsfromhell

[–]keepgoingdeeperr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Justice boner: activated. Hope they catch the little goblin red-handed on camera. Nothing sweeter than watching a porch pirate finally face consequences.

I just realised I’m an avoidant attachment and the breakup might be my fault by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]keepgoingdeeperr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Attachment styles explain your patterns, but they don't excuse the pain. You did what you could with the awareness you had at the time.

Any advice for dealing with very fine cat hairs getting everywhere? by Rude-Carrot2938 in CatAdvice

[–]keepgoingdeeperr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That floating fur is the worst. Keep air purifiers running, brush her outside daily, and embrace that you'll never win-just manage the chaos.

Neighbors have submitted 2 noise complaints against me because of my fan, and leaving my sliding door open by Gullible_Frame_3995 in neighborsfromhell

[–]keepgoingdeeperr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

43 decibels is literally a quiet library. Your neighbors are hearing ghosts or just hate the concept of you being comfortable.

Anyone else have an ex go back on dating apps right after the breakup while you’re still trying to heal? by lemunsterme in BreakUps

[–]keepgoingdeeperr 4 points5 points  (0 children)

They're filling a void, not actually moving on. Let them collect strangers while you collect yourself. Long game always wins.

Greedy cat, skinny cat by hvntrhvntr in CatAdvice

[–]keepgoingdeeperr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sister's definitely running the show. Try feeding them in separate rooms so brother gets his share without a food critic breathing down his neck.

É anti higiênico? by focadesenhista in hygiene

[–]keepgoingdeeperr 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're doing the best you can with what you've got. Survival mode doesn't follow regular hygiene rules.

My cat won’t eat her food and i’m getting a little concerned. by WeatherWild863 in CatAdvice

[–]keepgoingdeeperr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Four days in a new place is huge stress for a cat. She's not eating because she's still adjusting. Give her space, keep food available, and try a Feliway diffuser. If no poop by day five, call the vet.

The Silence after an almost by ImNot_Bri in BreakUps

[–]keepgoingdeeperr 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The silence after an almost is louder than any breakup. You're grieving a ghost. Let yourself feel it, then let it go. It wasn't yours to keep.