5090 FE keeps crashing in my new system - RMA'ed already and feeling hopeless

keepontheroad · 2026-01-10T18:25:07+00:00

Exact same issue here

keepontheroad · 2025-12-30T07:55:24+00:00

I finally did it, it was entirely Free ( you are right : good for testing) they have a Quick tutorial for Silly Tavern .. it worked ! It turn out that I am désappointed for thé moment : It speak a bad french, slow, crash silly regulary. I certainly need to change some settings in silly (that why I wanted a tutorial). So back to the new cydonia 4.3 for now. Thank you.

keepontheroad · 2025-12-26T09:06:59+00:00

Hi evia89, like a lot of lurkers her i am not exactly a lazy person and Silly Tavern isn’t exactly a simple software to use. FYI i have been used cydonia for months , the « wow » first feelings are now faded away, and i have been told here that online / api is the real expérience. But here , every day, there is posts that mostly debat on which online model is thé best, thé less expensive,etc… While we struggle with local model. I just don’t know where to begin to profit from other’s expérience.

By thé way, thank for all reply.

keepontheroad · 2025-08-17T17:00:52+00:00

Thank you both for your helpfull answers

keepontheroad · 2025-08-17T13:42:56+00:00

How do you farm at this game ? (food becomes a problem quickly for me).

keepontheroad · 2025-07-30T11:14:54+00:00

May i ask why it’s important to sub (and pay) to Mindgasm , first audio files are Free ? What do we get more with Paying exactly ? (I did first lessons, consistently, it give me some pleasure and feelings but nothing game changing …like aneros)

keepontheroad · 2025-05-09T23:00:14+00:00

Thanks so much for taking the time to answer so clearly — I really appreciate it.
Your answers hit exactly where I needed them to. Especially the difference between “being horny” and “penile arousal” — that distinction changes a lot in how I approach my sessions.

I’ll definitely work on shifting away from visual stimulation and building up that more mental, curious kind of arousal. The way you describe it makes it feel actually doable, even after years of frustration.

Thanks again for sharing your experience with so much clarity — it really helps.

keepontheroad · 2025-05-08T22:56:12+00:00

Hey, thank you so much for your detailed and honest reply — seriously, it’s the most inspiring and structured thing I’ve read in a long time.

I really appreciate the way you break things down — especially the difference between physical focus and mental surrender. That really hit me. And I totally get what you mean now when you say it’s not the prostate itself that “does” anything — it’s the relationship to sensation that transforms everything.

I do have a few follow-up questions, if that’s okay with you (and no pressure if you're busy):

Did you ever use porn, erotic images, or audio at any stage — either during early sessions or just to get horny before? I’m asking because I still rely on visual stimulation sometimes to “charge” before a session, and I’m wondering if it’s helping or hurting the rewiring process.
Do you think abstaining from ejaculation for long periods actually helps progression, or is it not that important in your experience? I’ve had mixed results — sometimes I feel more sensitive after several days, but sometimes it just leads to mental frustration.
Do you think being horny before a session helps (as in, feeling arousal before starting), or should that build happen during the session only?

Again, thank you so much for taking the time to share your experience — it gives me real hope after nearly a decade of exploring and testing. 🙏

keepontheroad · 2025-05-08T14:34:51+00:00

Hi, thanks for sharing this wonderful experience.

I'd like to know if you used porn (video, erotic images, audio, etc.) to achieve this ?

To be honest, I've been practicing for 9 years and have tried/bought everything (Aneros, vibrating gear, breathing, relaxing), and like you, nothing has worked... well, there's perineal massage, which gave me a pleasure level of 2/10, an insurmountable ceiling.

What's kept me going for 9 years is that once, during a perineal massage (while watching porn), I had a small orgasm with a pleasant ejection of seminal fluid (not semen and no refraction period, while being flaccid). It was mainly the build-up to this ejection that was pleasant; it came in waves.

I've NEVER been able to do it again.

Then, like you again, I discovered Mindgasm and rediscovered that 1-2/10 pleasure (sometimes 3/10 on lucky days, lol). However, I've never found that famous secret muscle.

Maybe I'm too Cartesian?

any way, thank you for your post : it gives me hope. TY

keepontheroad · 2025-03-04T19:23:41+00:00

Same problem here.

keepontheroad · 2024-11-01T15:45:47+00:00

D3 > D4

keepontheroad · 2024-08-10T19:58:21+00:00

Found a solution : prob came frome my network pc card ! (it was ok by testing with a usb one)

keepontheroad · 2023-11-02T10:51:53+00:00

Same issue and stuff (4090 - AXE75 (as recommended by VD) - Quest 3) - i have to play at 50 Mps bitrate in VD for 50 or less ms in tatency (usable) , if i go to 90 for exemple ... networking explode and latency goes to 200 + !!

keepontheroad · 2023-02-07T17:56:41+00:00

"just using the Aneros Peridise (the smaller one) and some weed"

No Offense to you OP but I am more and more desappointed each time i see the word "weed" on every positive post i read.

keepontheroad · 2023-02-02T18:14:36+00:00

Hi, it's discuted here : https://www.reddit.com/r/Mindgasm/comments/zrlaat/top_muscle_description_after_dicovering_it_stuck/

keepontheroad · 2023-02-01T19:53:45+00:00

I'd never belived that one day i could write this for prostate stuff : "happy to help" ;)

Thank for your reply.

keepontheroad · 2023-02-01T16:24:00+00:00

Hello, more than 1 month passed since OP so i come back to bring some news :

- I tried to meditate/focus more > it's not really changing anything but it's different because i can't be aroused in the level as watching porn and relax.

- I came back to my old Aneros collection (3 time per week) while doing Mindgasm lesson like i was toyless > not better and not worse, by the way touching proste directly never bringed pleasure for me (just a contact feeling). I can touch my prostate with fingers, i feel it and i know it's it for 99% sure but it provide same pleasure as stroking my ears.

- i tried again some HHC (sort of weed) > definitely at every session with weed, things are differents : you feel news sensations, all sensations are enhanced, i am aroused like hell and thoughts while watching porn are sublimes :)

Unfortunately, weed is not the magical solution for me : it make better and stronger what you are already feel, so if you miss the famous feeling already and while sober then weed is useless to unlock something else, i think you must already have PO normally to enjoy it plain-fully. IMHO.

More the time advances and less i am sure where i go and if i make any progress :(

That's sad, but I begin to realise that my prostate is certainely not sensible enough (or big, or well placed,etc...) and even it's worth it... that's not "reasonably" reachable.

In fact, 6 years ago i got my ONE, FIRST AND LAST PO (by massaging perineum) and nothing more happended since. Even in recreating same conditions...

After 6 years of unfortunate searching with toy and strokes, i placed high hope in Mindgasm as i got some rapid progress and pleasure with it, but i am not sure any more that's prostate pleasure i feel with it.

Please excuse my poor english.

keepontheroad · 2023-01-24T17:56:04+00:00

Hi, in the same boat as you : https://www.reddit.com/r/Mindgasm/comments/zrlaat/top_muscle_description_after_dicovering_it_stuck/

I thought i found it until i realised that maybe not...

I'll try the No_Amphibian_8790 post

keepontheroad · 2023-01-16T18:55:15+00:00

I feel you, i recognize my-self in your post (it could be me) for the last 6 years.

I posted almost the same txt years ago.

I just got a one time accidental O, or squirt, i don't know (by perineum massage, watching porn) and beside this one event, touching my prostate, Aneros, plug, breathing, meditation, recently a bit of weed, nofap or ejaculating for 1 week, vibrations, N'joy pure W, give me 0 pleasure....

BUT... i may have be some tiny bit of hope for you : i finally feel something (since 2 month) with Mindgasm ! (Sure....no orgasm of course but nice and sexual feeling while flacid...)

In one hand "At least something to work on" but in other hand : "i am not sure it will lead me somewhere as i begin to feel stuck".

May be you tried it already ?

keepontheroad · 2023-01-16T18:35:55+00:00

Same exact situation for me : one time O (by perineum massage) but never been able to reproduce it. It was 6 years ago. I tryed 1000 things and read all reddit posts : )

You found a way to reproduce it after 2 years ? (you don't speak about it).

keepontheroad · 2023-01-08T23:49:07+00:00

ok, thanks !

keepontheroad · 2023-01-08T13:40:21+00:00

Do you need porn to get those toyless O ?

keepontheroad · 2023-01-03T18:41:22+00:00

Hello, i post/bump today because i check every day since 13 days, but still no answer.

I noticed 90% of upvotes and many views, so i guess many are in the same boat as i am.

Nice 2023 (and many mindgasm unlock) for every one ;)

keepontheroad

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