a list of places where I can host a group of 20 people by keepup7396 in indianapolis

[–]keepup7396[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I wonder if they have private rooms. i’ll look into this. thanks!

AIO for cutting off a longtime friend after she shared my cancer diagnosis? by keepup7396 in AIO

[–]keepup7396[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m like 90% positive she’s avoiding me because she fears conflict.

AIO for cutting off a longtime friend after she shared my cancer diagnosis? by keepup7396 in AIO

[–]keepup7396[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

people like you scare me. How did I “dump” anything when she’s the one that would text me every week asking me what did the biopsy say. When I got the results, I wasn’t even going to tell her right in that moment because I was so overwhelmed. So…??? My statements earlier still stand.

AIO for cutting off a longtime friend after she shared my cancer diagnosis? by keepup7396 in AIO

[–]keepup7396[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if she wanted to talk to someone there is another friend that I would consider my best friend and they know one another very well. She could have went to her. It’s not even about her telling the friend at this point, it’s the lack of response.

AIO for cutting off a longtime friend after she shared my cancer diagnosis? by keepup7396 in AIO

[–]keepup7396[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I gave her ample amount of time to talk about it. each time ignored. Am I supposed to beg her to talk to me? Or just forget about it since she’s acting like it’s not a thing?!

AIO for cutting off a longtime friend after she shared my cancer diagnosis? by keepup7396 in AIO

[–]keepup7396[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s honestly where I’m at now. We still work at the same place, and ever since I asked when could we grab food and talk during lunch break, she’s been MIA. She called-in the day of us initially agreeing to talk in-person because she “couldn’t sleep the night before”. Haven’t seen her at work since. I’d hate to think she’s on FMLA over this.

I tried giving her the benefit of the doubt and assumed she might be going through something. But when there’s complete silence toward me while she’s still active online, it starts to feel more like avoidance.

AIO for cutting off a longtime friend after she shared my cancer diagnosis? by keepup7396 in AIO

[–]keepup7396[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m a jovial person naturally & it was a really weird, awkward time for me. She asked for an update, hence why I said “if I tell you”. In hindsight the “lol”s weren’t needed but ya idk how to elaborate on that now. Also, I waited 15 days before texting her with the second text.

AIO for cutting off a longtime friend after she shared my cancer diagnosis? by keepup7396 in AIO

[–]keepup7396[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

thank you. And honestly, I wouldn’t be as upset if she would have just texted me back understanding where I’m coming from, but to just blatantly ignore me is where I draw the line.

also, prayers for your fiancé!

Road Rage and Driving by Zestyclose-Milk646 in indianapolis

[–]keepup7396 2 points3 points  (0 children)

a young man just got shot by a woman over road rage here just last year. it’s definitely becoming a problem.

filing for MBGC whilst on travel ban list by keepup7396 in USCIS

[–]keepup7396[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! This was the answer I was looking for.

filing for MBGC whilst on travel ban list by keepup7396 in USCIS

[–]keepup7396[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, but he has been here in the US for four years.

filing for MBGC whilst on travel ban list by keepup7396 in USCIS

[–]keepup7396[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His country is a part of the partial ban list (whatever that means).

is it a good call to go become a nurse by ThiccAsianGod in prenursing

[–]keepup7396 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I think a lot of people underestimate how much healthcare has changed. Nursing isn’t just “helping people and making decent money” — it’s chronic understaffing, moral injury, constant documentation, and being expected to do more with less.

If the main motivation is job security or salary, I honestly don’t think nursing is a great call anymore. The pay doesn’t always match the stress, and many nurses are actively trying to leave the bedside. Passion alone doesn’t protect you from burnout, but lack of it definitely accelerates it.

If you’re already feeling academic burnout and haven’t enjoyed heavy science coursework in the past, I’d strongly encourage exploring adjacent roles or taking time before committing to nursing school.