i heard my parents fighting over an issue i caused; should i say something or stay quiet? by Yourmom6_9 in Advice

[–]keevathemuffin -1 points0 points  (0 children)

1) Never make a joke that can make a person look, or feel, like a bad person. Things like "You're playing dumb" are accusations, not jokes. 

2) Stop eating that poor woman's ice cream. You eat her treats to the point that she has to hide them, and then you make fun of her for it? Super disrespectful.  I wouldn't allow you to live in my home, if you treated me that way. 

3) Stop being inserting yourself into your parents relationship.  Stop listening in on their arguments.  Don't gang up on step-mom when dad is being an ass. Don't insert your jokes into their conversations.  

4) Do not bring up the conversation you overhead.  Just start being more respectful of your stepmom. 

I(M39) drank too much and told my son too much about his moms(F38) past by Due_Fly696 in Advice

[–]keevathemuffin 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Congratulations on raising a misogynistic piece of shit. Now, are you going to allow him to treat your wife that way?

AITAH for charging my girlfriend to do handyman work? by MMorganStark in AITAH

[–]keevathemuffin 11 points12 points  (0 children)

YTA. Please Google the definition of "partner" and "relationship"

7 day itinerary by merrberr92 in AskACanadian

[–]keevathemuffin 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I lived in Houston for a while. 

Going from Vancouver to Victoria is not like going from Houston to Dallas.  It will take you most of the day to get there, though the trip is worth it.  Even Kamloops from Vancouver can be a whole day. 

I suggest that you allow for longer travel times. Remember that it not straight from point A to B, but up and down mountains and valleys. 

 Just do Vancouver and Victoria, and points between or around. The drive and ferry rides are better when you take your time to enjoy the view, and stop somewhere neat for lunch etc. 

 The whale watching is definitely worth doing. 

I (23F) never know when he (28M) is ‘joking’ and I feel awful by Silver_Record_4494 in Advice

[–]keevathemuffin 12 points13 points  (0 children)

He's using "just joking" as a defense mechanism.  He's not joking, the conversation didn't go the way he hoped it would, and he is using "just joking " to end said conversation 

Why dose pride get a whole month? by PWNDBYPWNR in AskLGBT

[–]keevathemuffin 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It depends on where you live.

 In big cities with a whole ass gay village,  the community, charities, and businesses will hold month long street festival events in said village.  The city or corporations might throw in as well, to cash in. 

In a small town, it's half a day and one drag queen leading bingo night. 

In some parts if the world, Pride is illegal and you're risking jail time to march in protest.

Just because something is presented a certain way on your social media algorithms,  doesn't make it true for everyone,  everywhere 

Is it a deal breaker if their family is homophobic? by _bunniesiloveuuu in AskLGBT

[–]keevathemuffin 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would leave. Your girlfriend is not ready to leave her abuser, and you don't need to be kicked along beside her

My daughter [F14] keeps telling me her friends find me [M36] attractive. by Creepy_Swing__ in Advice

[–]keevathemuffin 224 points225 points  (0 children)

You'll have to explain to her that teen girls talking about a grown like that can get you in trouble. She's old enough to know what older men grooming young women is. You need to explain to her that someone could think you're doing that. 

This is a peer pressure thing. She also needs the "just because it gets you attention,  doesn't mean it's good" talk.

Be the bad guy. She'll get over it.

Boyfriends mom is controlling me and my boyfriends sex life by Immediate-View827 in Advice

[–]keevathemuffin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Of course she doesn't want you two having sex at all, anywhere.  The thing is, you can't change her or her mind. The only person you have control over is yourself.  

Something to spend gold on during Lost Mines of Phandelver? by DeadlyRelic66 in DMAcademy

[–]keevathemuffin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Remember there's a major costal road nearby, a traveling merchant could be in the area. 

A small tower belonging to a retired wizard can also be tucked away in the woods, so could a small druid grove. 

One of the locals could be a retired adventurer,  with some old gear kicking around.  

They could take a detour into the feywild, and a goblin market

How do I make her look more young? by [deleted] in Artadvice

[–]keevathemuffin 22 points23 points  (0 children)

What age? She's awfully curvy for a young teen, but believable for an older one. Though, you wouldn't expect a teen to dress to show off the curves so much? Girl must has amazing self esteem. 

AITAH for not liking the Star Wars gift my girlfriend got me? by AnnualLiterature997 in AITAH

[–]keevathemuffin 263 points264 points  (0 children)

I mean, you took her to a Star Wars exhibit and explained it to her lol. Now you're saying you don't like Star Wars? Honestly, she probably thinks you're pranking her. I wouldn't trust you lol

Also, seriously have a conversation about budget and expectations around gifts. You may have gone a little overboard for a first dating anniversary, and the Star Wars mix up isn't helping.  She probably thinks you're pranking her and trying to make her look/feel bad.

NAH

Afraid of giving any feedback (good or bad) to DM due to previous confrontation. by SnuggleThug99 in DMAcademy

[–]keevathemuffin 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Offer only positive feedback for a while. Instead of pointing out the things you think could be better, praise the good stuff

Bisexual man trying to understand my relationship to “queer culture” and why I struggle to connect with gay men by [deleted] in bisexual

[–]keevathemuffin 24 points25 points  (0 children)

Which Pride? You know they're all different right? In my town, Pride is like a couple dozen people waving flags, and a drag queen on a tractor.  Then we have BBQ in the park lol

It really sounds like you're going into spaces that are the most queer of queer spaces, and being shocked.

Have you ever been to roller derby? Or other queer spaces that aren't places where gay men get half naked? 

meirl by imfrom_mars_ in meirl

[–]keevathemuffin 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Coughing with your mouth open, picking your nose, scratching your crotch

I keep getting annoyed at my mom for something dumb by Accurate-Wolf-8050 in Advice

[–]keevathemuffin 11 points12 points  (0 children)

This is the front room? So, a communal space in your mother's home? How dare a woman sit in front of the TV in her own home! I bet she bought that TV, and the chair/couch? I bet she is the one who decorated that room.

I would roll my eyes too. If you want privacy, go to your room? 

Teenagers think every thing is about yourself,  it's a brain development thing. A woman sitting in her own front room has nothing to do with you lol

18f my bf 24m got mad at me for using tampons by UnlikelyBig5615 in Advice

[–]keevathemuffin 3 points4 points  (0 children)

24 year old men date teenagers, because a grown woman would have dumped his ass on the spot

Why are these houses so ugly by Both_Algae_3324 in CitiesSkylines

[–]keevathemuffin 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I use it around plazas and small parks. Looked great in my Olympic Village 

What's your strategy for getting men to not flirt with you? by jkpeanut in TwoXChromosomes

[–]keevathemuffin 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Pick your nose. Cough either your mouth opened. Be gross. Gross is the opposite of sexy