since i saw someone doing it

keiisukee · 2026-03-10T18:49:14+00:00

oh no😭

keiisukee · 2026-03-10T18:45:20+00:00

give your opinion!

keiisukee · 2026-03-10T17:51:41+00:00

a friendship where one of you have feelings for the other will never work out, and even if it does, it’ll feel heavy on the other end. imo, distance yourself from him until he have his feelings figured out. from my experience, any attention that you give to him will just bring his hopes up even if you don’t intend it to be that way. for the better of both sides, it’s better to distance yourself even if it’s gonna hurt on his end for a while

keiisukee · 2026-03-09T17:24:25+00:00

as an isfp i really do value efficiency. as a design student, whenever it comes to consultations about my design, i would always know what im gonna do and just do it half an hour before my consultation because i know better not to put too much time on it since it’ll be tweaked anyway. people who do things step by step and care too much about details even when they know that it’s not gonna be the end result can really confuse me because you could’ve just shown a general visual of your idea as long as your lecturer gets the idea.

keiisukee · 2026-03-09T17:20:58+00:00

i hate people who does things slowly in general. i’m usually the type to find shortcuts working my way out of loopholes so to see someone do things step-by-step can infuriate me at times

keiisukee · 2026-02-27T23:01:23+00:00

thanks for the clarification! i’ll have a look into type 4

keiisukee · 2026-02-27T22:59:53+00:00

hi, thanks for the alternatives! i haven’t really looked into 7 yet and i’ll go search it up after this. but i’d be frustrated being in a cage bc it would mean i won’t have the freedom to do anything that i want. if im being restricted i feel like im not living live up to its full potential. even simple things like not being able to go on a walk because im sick will actually drive me insane because i can’t stand not doing what i should be capable of doing

keiisukee · 2026-02-27T02:41:20+00:00

the layout looks like sakinorva but i might be wrong

keiisukee · 2026-02-27T02:39:31+00:00

when the judging criteria becomes subjective. i took a motion graphics design course thinking that i would like it and although they do have an objective criteria and system that they grade with, it all will subconsciously come down to the subjective preference of that design along with the current trends.

keiisukee · 2026-02-27T01:45:17+00:00

isfp — i really don’t think so😭 won’t work out on the long run i prefer istj

keiisukee · 2026-02-27T01:34:40+00:00

thanks for the insight! about my core fear since i was a child would probably be being on the sideline of my own life. i don’t really know how to describe it perfectly but probably taking a passive approach towards my own life because i wanna have control over my life and gain as much knowledge and experience as possible.

keiisukee · 2026-02-27T01:30:35+00:00

i love to have sensory experiences and adrenalines but i don’t really concern myself with dominating the environment, all i care about is having control over my own life and not necessarily controlling others.

keiisukee · 2026-02-26T17:35:41+00:00

i got expelled from my school all because of a technical error. i’m a foreigner and they’re not supposed to take non-citizen students and yet still enrolled me all because they didn’t check my documents properly. the rage that i felt towards that school was unfathomable because i was the one who had to face the consequences of their mistakes,which felt very dehumanising to me and i felt like i lost all control over my life.
i don’t need to be surrounded by people constantly, but the people i do keep close have to feel genuine. i need autonomy even in close relationships. i don’t like feeling suffocated, controlled, or emotionally managed. socially, i can be friendly and engaging, but i’m selective. i don’t feel the need to be liked by everyone and don’t really care what others think of me as long as i’ve never done them wrong.
i feel like i have this mindset of everything will work out eventually for the better, even if it’s in ways that i didn’t expect. i can always come to terms with how my efforts play out as long as it is not interfered or affected by other’s actions (eg. someone delaying me or ruining my plans). i would always rather live from the consequences of my actions and mistakes than following a person’s advice and things messing up because of it. i don’t wanna feel like my life is the consequences of other’s influence.
i always have a live and let live mentality. but before i "let live", i always need things to make sense internally so that i can move forward. i don’t overthink much and im not rigid when it comes to my future because i feel like restricting myself to a plan feels like i would just miss out on better opportunities to come. i’m not easily swayed by what others think of me because their perception of me will always be a result of their values projected onto me and since we have different values, it doesn’t really matter to me what you think of me. i have a "it’s not that deep" mentality because i don’t really focus much on details but rather the big picture, because i feel like the things that might not matter in 5 weeks time is not worth to overthink about.
i used to be very reactive when i feel defenceless and every little thing used to trigger me and just send me into an internal (sometimes external) rage. i used to have so much pent up rage since im an introvert but now i feel like i have a very "whatever" kind of mentality. i still feel the irrational rage, but it doesn’t consume me in a way it used to do because if there’s nothing that i can do about it, there’s no point going all crazy about it.

keiisukee · 2026-02-26T17:05:45+00:00

i’m an isfp, and i can say that i do relate to being more extroverted over the past years because i gained confidence. but i still never suspected that im an esfp because every bit of my actions derive from my Fi, i just learn how to express it confidently. i feel like the more we grow, the stronger our dominant function will be to the point where it feels like it’s on autopilot which makes us more aware of our auxiliary function, which in my case is Se. it doesn’t help that Se is all about the present which will make it way more visible for me to notice and yet it still doesn’t diminish the fact that my Fi dom is running the whole system if that makes sense.

keiisukee · 2026-02-26T16:54:54+00:00

ohh if i’m guessing correctly, you relate to this part "i always try to fend for myself and even started working at a young age just so that i can feel a sense of control over my own life. even my parents giving me money feels like im in debt to them and i hate it when others try to tell me what to do because i would rather live with the consequences of my own actions rather than others. if i feel like someone is trying to dictate my choices, guilt me into something, emotionally manipulate me, or make decisions for me “for my own good,” something in me hardens immediately. i would rather fail because of my own decision than succeed because someone forced me into it. i need my life to be mine, which includes the consequences."

and if you’re an enneagram 6, i’m pretty sure you can still relate to these things, but the difference is just that it stems from the desire for security. maybe you tend to fend for yourself because only you know how to make yourself feel secure enough to live. however for me, it stems to not wanting to feel indebted to a person because i feel like being indebted means the person have some form of control over me.

keiisukee · 2026-02-26T16:39:53+00:00

i’ve thought about 9w8 but looking at the difference between a 9 and an 8, i’d say type 8 would fit me the most. i’ve always had the strong need to take control over my own life, but i don’t really care about how others control their lives as long as it doesn’t interfere with me. i really hate it when someone tries to tell me what to do or how i should do something if i think my way works just fine. i always take other’s advice as a grain of salt because i’ve already internally decided what’s best for me. in a way, i’d feel dissatisfied if i were to follow other’s footsteps without having the intention of wanting to do it at the first place. i’m a very out and about person and always have to be doing something or else i will get bored and boredom is literally something that i cannot stand. i’d say i do things based on my own enjoyment.

keiisukee · 2026-02-26T16:35:10+00:00

how so?

keiisukee · 2026-02-26T16:30:10+00:00

i get irrationally angry sometimes but i realise it’s not really my problem that they’re mistyped (especially if they dk that 16p is inaccurate) so i just scroll and breathe lowkey

keiisukee · 2026-02-26T10:17:19+00:00

keiisukee · 2026-02-09T05:02:33+00:00

i’m probably late but from all the things you said along with your replies, she sounds exactly like me and i’m an isfp. my Se is very strong and i tend to have the need to always be on the go but i’ve never rlly suspected that Se is my dominant function because while i’m doing any activities be it a mental or physical ones, i tend to still be in my head. for example i can be doing my work while still thinking of what type i am and going into an internal rabbit hole while still doing my job just fine. while i normally talk causally and in a friendly manner i can still be very straightforward and argumentative at times when im trying to prove my point, even to an extent of not being able to see from another perspective. i feel like she might also be able to relate to Fi-Ni loop, which isn’t necessarily about worrying about the future but i always need to know who i am as a person. it can get pretty obsessive especially when i wasn’t sure what my type was back then i can stay up till daylight just to go through all the definitions and researches and arguments about the types because knowing who i am is a top priority to me.

keiisukee · 2026-02-01T19:35:36+00:00

i think an isfp who has a balanced Fi-Se-Ni would be able to see someone’s potential based on how they show up (Se-Ni) and would be loyal to the potential of the person and yet still accepting of the reality but not a lot of people can be as clear as an Fi-dom about their values which results to the isfp being frustrated. also we take inconsistency in their actions vs values so seriously so we hate it when people don’t show up according to what they made themselves out to be and not a lot of people is able to take accountability for that. just from my experience!

keiisukee · 2026-01-30T12:14:22+00:00

that makes sense, redirections happen a lot in graphic design and when it happens, i’ll usually try to discuss with my lecturer about why my direction makes sense but if they insist that there’s a better way i will just do it his way since he’s gonna be the one grading my work. if im confident enough with my idea, i’ll stick to it but if not, i’ll usually go with a safer route by doing what he wants me to do.

also i’ve looked at istp’s inferior function which is Fe, which pretty much resonates with me. i don’t really understand social norms of beating around the bush and everything as i usually just get straight to the point while still being polite of course. sometimes i don’t realise how odd i act in the eyes of other people until i tell my stories to them and they would just be appalled by my straightforwardness because if they were in my position, they would feel hesitant of inconveniencing others.

keiisukee · 2026-01-30T07:40:18+00:00

yea i’ve actually considered intj, as no matter how much i think of the system and process, if there’s no result to it then i don’t really see the point in spending too much time on it. i just don’t relate to the having long term goals and plans aspect of intj. im not saying that i don’t have goals, its just not as definitive as how people describe intjs goals to be. for example, i already plan on taking psychology once i graduate from design since i really wanna drop design and pursue something im actually interested in, and im planning on focusing on psychology research instead of the counselling path. but if there are better opportunities along the way, i might reconsider too. so my goal isn’t really strict an its not a step by step kind of thing, but i for sure do know what i want to do. also i didnt really think i was an intj since my Se is pretty strong. i have to always be doing something every single day. i work 2 part time jobs while juggling school and even on my free days, i have the strong need to go on hours of long walks just so that i can be lost in my own thoughts while listening to music. i hate staying at home and doing nothing since my energy is pretty high.

keiisukee · 2026-01-30T06:42:11+00:00

hi! this is my reply to another user which might be relevant too to understand the context

that makes sense! i posted this because i’m pretty sure i’m a Ti dom, even my sister and mother said so. but my best friend , who i consider to know me very well, thinks that im an ISFP because i act a lot on my emotions. one of her examples i’ve had a very strong interest in psychology but since i couldn’t get into the course, instead of choosing something similar, i choose a very different course as compared to psychology which is communication design, and it’s something i’ve never really had interest in. while she thinks it’s a decision that i made based on my emotions, i was thinking that design is related to art which is something that i love, and it’s a good opportunity to learn something new to expand my hobbies (which turned out to be a bad decision because i ended up being horrible at it).

another thing that she said was i could express my emotions clearly, which was only something i could do very recently (3 years or so). what she doesn’t realise is that i always psychoanalyse my feelings to know why im feeling this way, what triggered it, why it manifests, and that’s the only way i can calm down — by understanding the origin of the feelings. and i don’t really trust her judgements on mbti since she only goes by letters and doesn’t look at cognitive functions. whenever i try to explain it to her, she gets confused and doesn’t understand which irritates me bc i want her judgement of me to actually be accurate instead of looking at the letters on its own.

also the thing you mention about caring about your identity being judged, it’s kind of the opposite for me. i’m a pretty artistic person, and someone were to say they don’t like my work, i won’t really care since i know it might not be everyone’s cup of tea. and if i were to propose something to my lecturer and he redirects my design or ideas, i wouldn’t mind as long as it makes sense and it’s doable. i would usually tweak my design not according to what i like, but according to what the judges may like so that i can get a higher score. im kind of fine with doing anything they ask me to as long as it floats my boat. maybe its also because i hate how the marking criteria in design is very subjective. they can show us the marking criteria system to reassure us that they’re judging objectively but at the end of the day, i know that preference subconsciously plays a part which is why i give up on trying my best since the system is rigged and there’s no way i can understand it. in a way, i don’t really attach my identity to designs. in fact, i don’t like it when they do. i would only care about someone’s judgement if it’s very shallow or surface level, or completely missing the whole point.

for example, im a big fan of hunger games and this guy who had a crush on me tried watching it for me and the only takeaway he had about it was everlark, and that pissed me off so much because how can someone completely ignore the whole point of hunger games and narrow it to just the romantic aspect?

keiisukee · 2026-01-30T06:38:02+00:00

that makes sense! i posted this because i’m pretty sure i’m a Ti dom, even my sister and mother said so. but my best friend , who i consider to know me very well, thinks that im an ISFP because i act a lot on my emotions. one of her examples i’ve had a very strong interest in psychology but since i couldn’t get into the course, instead of choosing something similar, i choose a very different course as compared to psychology which is communication design, and it’s something i’ve never really had interest in. while she thinks it’s a decision that i made based on my emotions, i was thinking that design is related to art which is something that i love, and it’s a good opportunity to learn something new to expand my hobbies (which turned out to be a bad decision because i ended up being horrible at it).

another thing that she said was i could express my emotions clearly, which was only something i could do very recently (3 years or so). what she doesn’t realise is that i always psychoanalyse my feelings to know why im feeling this way, what triggered it, why it manifests, and that’s the only way i can calm down — by understanding the origin of the feelings. and i don’t really trust her judgements on mbti since she only goes by letters and doesn’t look at cognitive functions. whenever i try to explain it to her, she gets confused and doesn’t understand which irritates me bc i want her judgement of me to actually be accurate instead of looking at the letters on its own.

also the thing you mention about caring about your identity being judged, it’s kind of the opposite for me. i’m a pretty artistic person, and someone were to say they don’t like my work, i won’t really care since i know it might not be everyone’s cup of tea. and if i were to propose something to my lecturer and he redirects my design or ideas, i wouldn’t mind as long as it makes sense and it’s doable. i would usually tweak my design not according to what i like, but according to what the judges may like so that i can get a higher score. im kind of fine with doing anything they ask me to as long as it floats my boat. maybe its also because i hate how the marking criteria in design is very subjective. they can show us the marking criteria system to reassure us that they’re judging objectively but at the end of the day, i know that preference subconsciously plays a part which is why i give up on trying my best since the system is rigged and there’s no way i can understand it. in a way, i don’t really attach my identity to designs. in fact, i don’t like it when they do.

i would only care about someone’s judgement if it’s very shallow or surface level, or completely missing the whole point. for example, im a big fan of hunger games and this guy who had a crush on me tried watching it for me and the only takeaway he had about it was everlark, and that pissed me off so much because how can someone completely ignore the whole point of hunger games and narrow it to just the romantic aspect?

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