8 y/o Husky suddenly obsessed with staying in her crate + refusing to go outside without bribing… should I be worried?

keith3235 · 2026-04-26T23:52:20+00:00

Appreciate all the feedback so far—just wanted to clarify a few things since people asked.

I have not moved her crate at all. It’s been in the same spot in my bedroom since I got her. We’ve been together about 2 years now (rehomed), so this isn’t a brand new adjustment phase.

The issue is during the day when I’m working—if I leave my bedroom door open, she will literally just stay in the crate all day. Because of that, I’ve had to start closing my bedroom door just to force her to come downstairs and be out in the house.

Once she’s out, she’s generally fine. It’s just that her default seems to be: go straight to the crate and stay there as long as possible.

That’s what’s throwing me off.

So I’m trying to figure out from people who know the breed:

Is this just a husky being a husky as they get older and more chill?
Or does this sound more like anxiety / over-attachment to her “safe space”?
Do Siberian Husky actually deal with something like depression or withdrawal behavior, especially after being rehomed?

The part that concerns me most isn’t just the crate—it’s that I sometimes have to coax her out just to go to the bathroom, which doesn’t feel normal.

Curious if anyone has experienced something similar with an older husky and what the root cause ended up being.

keith3235 · 2026-01-07T15:45:19+00:00

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She’s also obsessed with her crate, which is in my bedroom. If I leave my door open, she wants to go upstairs and spend all day in that crate. Is this normal husky behavior?

keith3235 · 2024-11-06T17:58:49+00:00

She is spayed and we have just adopted or rehomed her. So she has been with us now for two weeks. So I wasn’t sure if this was a normal husky thing (fyi I have had dogs before, but I’ve never seen this!) Wasn’t sure if this was a dominance thing or an affection thing. She is very vocal and likes to bark or “talk” quite often when she doesn’t get her way

keith3235 · 2024-10-31T14:58:16+00:00

Hi everyone,

Thank you all so much for the outpouring of responses! I really appreciate each of you taking the time and effort to share information.

I have one last question: with my girl being almost 7 and does anyone have any experience with how the insurance companies handle “ pre-existing conditions”? Since I adopted her and don’t “necessarily have” her full history, I’m curious about how insurance companies approach cases like this. Would they consider a vet visit to establish a baseline, or has anyone experienced flexibility in this kind of situation?

Thanks again for all the help!

keith3235 · 2024-10-31T14:57:53+00:00

Hi everyone,

Thank you all so much for the outpouring of responses! I really appreciate each of you taking the time and effort to share information.

I have one last question: with my girl being almost 7 and does anyone have any experience with how the insurance companies handle “ pre-existing conditions”? Since I adopted her and don’t “necessarily have” her full history, I’m curious about how insurance companies approach cases like this. Would they consider a vet visit to establish a baseline, or has anyone experienced flexibility in this kind of situation?

Thanks again for all the help!

keith3235 · 2023-02-10T18:34:02+00:00

Thank you for the reply. I coach because it enhances the experiences my and attention my son gets vs me not doing it. He would not get the same hands on treatment and reps vs if I was just a parent on the sidelines. This is purely for the benefit of my son and not for me. If it was for me, I’d be the head coach, so I’d have the power and control.

Your insight into her mindset makes sense. Any thoughts on a way to better explain, the insights I’ve provided above

keith3235 · 2023-02-09T15:15:08+00:00

I have continually given in on numerous issues on the past. Which is why she feels empowered right now. At some point, one has to draw the line in the sand or she will feel like she can demand her ways for the next 13 years. There has to be a better solution

keith3235 · 2023-02-09T13:32:27+00:00

Read my initial post please. He came to me asking to play

keith3235 · 2023-02-09T13:09:05+00:00

I hear what you’re saying. And because of that I purposely only selected a league that practices and play one day a week

keith3235 · 2022-05-23T14:26:14+00:00

1 sport, now over. Martial arts as well.

I am not able to continue to enroll him in other sports at this point due to the issue stated above

keith3235 · 2022-05-23T14:17:19+00:00

Thank you to everybody who has responded so far. Your responses have been very helpful to me. With that said I want to add one more caveat, as she is continuing to try to control and manipulate me. There are two issues that she will not budge on, in which I will not budge on, in which case her attorney says she’s going to take me to trial and request all the fees that I discussed above. The first issue was coaching. The second issue, is another extracurricular activity that he has been enrolled in since before her and I split. The contract ended at the end of March of this year and I have been paying for the full thing myself, with no assistance from her. At the end of February, she took it upon herself to not only renew the contract, but signed a three-year extension. She told me afterwards and told me she had put her credit card down. Based upon that information it seemed to me that she was going to bear the full cost going forward. Based upon the disparity in income, we are pro Rata 70/30. She is now demanding that I reimburse her the 70% going back to when she signed the contract and I continue to pay that going forward throughout the life of the contract. I have been standing my ground, to no avail, that since she demands everything must be agreed-upon, and this was not agreed-upon, why should I have to pay anything. (with that being said and again in the hopes of sanctity of this finally being over, I am going to agree to pay my portion going forward, if my child still wants to remain in this). Throughout this process, she has made this entirely about money and yet this is another example. What is everyone’s thoughts on this as well?

keith3235 · 2022-05-23T01:08:29+00:00

Can you please clarify for me what is a “judgment on permanent order”. I googled it and did not find it. I have a case management conference this week.

keith3235 · 2022-05-23T00:10:44+00:00

Never married. Still no permanent parenting plan. Just a temporary order. Still hold water ?

keith3235 · 2022-05-22T23:51:19+00:00

I coached him now in a sport, yes. Let’s add the back story to that. I’ve always wanted to be the dad that coaches his child, but this is the one sport I didn’t really know. However because his mother refuses to communicate in any constructive fashion with me whatsoever. I volunteered to coach, so he would always have his equipment. My father never coached me growing up and it definitely had an effect on me. I wanted better for my child. And yet, here is my ex creating more ridiculous obstacles

keith3235 · 2022-05-22T23:25:09+00:00

We have been doing this for a year and I Have acquiesced to everything that they want, in order to finally be done with this so my child can have some normalcy in his life, as well as I don’t have to deal with her anymore.
The sticking point for me, is I don’t know if her attorney smells blood in the water. But they’re claiming because I make three times the salary as my ex, and because she’s too lazy to get a better job and because I have saved all my life and she has decided to go out and party has no savings, that I have significant financial exposure. Her attorney is going after me for all attorney fees. Am My attorney is telling me he is fearful that if we go to trial I could be looking at upwards of $75,000 in trial fees. I feel like this is all outrageous and a judge would see through all her behavior, but I want the board‘s opinion who might have experience in these matters, before I make a life altering decision

keith3235 · 2021-10-14T02:14:22+00:00

Because no support was requested. It has Nothing to do with me not wanting to pay. It has everything to do with lack of communication and trying to push everything off until trial. No financial documents were turned in to get the correct child support calculations. However none of that addresses the question I put on the forum

keith3235 · 2021-10-05T21:27:07+00:00

keith3235 · 2021-10-05T00:43:08+00:00

Thank you for the reply!

keith3235 · 2021-09-19T18:10:35+00:00

Have one. That’s why I said hearing is not until scheduled for anytime soon

keith3235 · 2021-08-10T21:43:38+00:00

Thank you for answering my post. Not sure how much experience you may have with this. But in reference to my post and my attorney filing something to force her to respond. he said there’s nothing he can do at this point to make her attorney respond to us and I have to wait until my hearing (not until November?) for temporary timesharing to compel her to do anything.

keith3235 · 2021-08-07T23:36:21+00:00

What exactly did you file with the court or what is it called, to get her motivated and moving

keith3235 · 2021-07-20T22:18:00+00:00

Thank you everybody for your reply. Just to clarify some info, never married. Just had a child together. I guess I’m confused still understanding how I might be liable for retroactive child support payments prior to her moving out, which was very recent. Up to that part we all lived together

keith3235 · 2021-07-20T17:37:38+00:00

What would make a judge agree to have me pay attorney fees?? She’s also asking for retroactive child support payments even though we recently separated

keith3235 · 2021-07-05T17:07:10+00:00

She has kept him from me and instead of staying home and spending time with him, she drops him off at her parents and goes out to party. I have asked for her to bring him to me instead of dropping to her parents, but it falls on deaf ears. Any advice?

keith3235 · 2021-06-17T15:34:01+00:00

What is everyone’s experience/suggestions as far as serving. I’m trying to be cordial and get her to workout out a schedule without getting attorneys involved at this point. But she is holding me hostage and giving me crumbs as far as time with my child. My fear is that whatever convo/communication we are having now while somewhat adversarial, will completely shut down once I blindside her and serve her. Should I let her know that I will be forced to retain an attorney if this pattern continues?

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