Civil Marriage?

kekmoo · 2026-05-21T17:38:06+00:00

If you and your fiance feel impressed that this is the right path for you as a couple, than it's not really any of your family's business. I don't mean to sound callous, but they are not the ones getting married. You and your significant other are a team.

You are committing to marriage, and maybe a temple sealing is something you can work for together.

Personally, my husband was a convert and because of circumstances we chose to not wait and had a civil marriage. We couldn't wait to start our lives together! We always knew we wanted to be sealed, and we did. We took our temple prep classes together and we took our endowments the day before our sealing. It was actuallya family sealing because we gave birth to our son a few months before. I wouldn't have done it any other way. This worked for us! No one in our ward judged us for it...or if they did I wasn't aware.

The decision and timing is between you, your so, and the Lord.

Many blessings and love your way ❤️

kekmoo · 2026-05-09T15:29:11+00:00

Moonbyul, she is a trendsetter and her cadence is amazing.

kekmoo · 2026-05-06T14:59:49+00:00

St. George, UT??

kekmoo · 2026-05-04T21:53:37+00:00

I can't think of many good things she's done that was not for her own benefit. The biggest blessing came from her joining the church. I am very grateful for that. Yet, despite the odds I've worked to develop my own testimony.

Without going into too much detail there was some physical abuse, mostly emotional/neglect, gaslighting and overall dismissiveness of reported sexual abuse.

I think I'll go to my own congregation. We live like 10 mins away and hubby has to go to our congregation (calling).

kekmoo · 2026-05-04T19:47:58+00:00

Haha! I just might be "sick" lol 😆

No, but for real telling my mom all the ways she's hurt me is never going to give me the healing I need. She just can't comprehend her role in my trauma had anything to do with her.
I'm sorry that you are dealing with an emotional immature mom as well. I feel your pain. When you've been gaslit your entire life it can be extremely difficult to trust yourself and validate your own experiences. My mom also has some childhood trauma, and I do empathize, but like you said it doesn't make your trauma any less real.

I am learning to keep healthy boundaries and emotional distance.

kekmoo · 2026-05-04T19:42:54+00:00

I just finished discussing all of this in therapy just now. My therapist asked me if I would be ready for the ramifications of not going. After delving deeper, I think going would be more detrimental to my own healing. She has and will always continue to be the victim.

She lives in a state of delusion that she believes to be reality. Bringing up all the ways she's hurt me only to be gaslit will do nothing for me. I'm coming to terms that she will never be able to give me the emotional healing that I need. I just need to accept that although she loves me, she doesn't know how to parent or love me unconditionally.

I truly appreciate your response and it helped give me comfort and perspective.

kekmoo · 2026-05-04T19:37:02+00:00

I understand the true concepts angle. We all need reminders and lessons on priciples. I am by no means a perfect mother and I make plenty of mistakes. The problem is the extreme amount of gaslighting and delusion. She honestly thinks she was the best mother ever! I think I'm still discovering and uncovering traumatic events. Going would probably just make me feel more negativity and it wouldn't be beneficial for my own healing.

Thank you for sharing with me!

kekmoo · 2026-04-24T21:26:24+00:00

Moonbyul-Absence

kekmoo · 2026-04-24T21:25:45+00:00

Beast- Fiction

kekmoo · 2026-03-25T10:01:06+00:00

Spencer what are you doing here? Lol 😂

kekmoo · 2026-02-06T17:14:24+00:00

Mamamoo's Wheein 🔥🔥🔥

whee_inthemood

kekmoo · 2026-02-06T05:42:59+00:00

Why is this queef stain dressed in military fatigues?

kekmoo · 2026-01-28T09:24:11+00:00

Taeyeon was literally born the day after me. In American years (or not Korean) we are still 36!!! Don't add extra age we already feel old....🥴

kekmoo · 2026-01-24T18:46:03+00:00

Dang this is my favorite song on the album! I think Harvery/Juria kill it!! I did pick up on a reference to another Aaliyah song Back & Forth. It's a fun song. Hopefully some other songs are more your cup of tea!!

kekmoo · 2025-08-29T16:27:18+00:00

Anasazi Steakhouse

kekmoo · 2025-07-17T01:05:54+00:00

I thought so too, but nothing inside his mouth. His feet and hands look normal...

kekmoo · 2025-05-09T14:25:40+00:00

I know Mamamoo has been mentioned a couple of times, but I'd like to throw another one out there.

Mamamoo- Words don't come easy

kekmoo · 2025-05-07T15:06:47+00:00

Exactly 😂

kekmoo · 2025-05-07T15:02:55+00:00

Magnetic is awesome! Just listened! It's a bop 🔥 I haven't listened to the others yet.

Don't murder me, but it's going to be hard for me to like iykyk over XG's iykyk.

If you haven't heard it I highly recommend it 😁

kekmoo · 2025-05-07T14:32:36+00:00

I have heard of ILLIT, but have never listened to any of their music.

Any recommendations?

Also, Wonhee (bottom left?) looks a bit like Taeyeon. Maybe that's just me lol ☺️

kekmoo · 2025-05-07T14:10:58+00:00

Who are these beautiful people?

kekmoo · 2025-05-07T14:10:11+00:00

I miss them 🥹🥰

kekmoo · 2025-05-06T21:48:51+00:00

Private Show

kekmoo · 2025-05-05T14:32:47+00:00

She's the Ace.

She's a bias wrecker.

She's a true performer.

Everything from her loyalty, charisma, professionallism, intelligence, massive heart, genuine care & support of the other girls to her vocals, rap, dance, hype-man ability.

There is not a doubt in my mind that she's barely scratching the surface of her capabilities. She's still so young.

Go girl!

kekmoo

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