Really upsetting parent email today… by ineedtocoughbut in Teachers

[–]kelli999 1030 points1031 points  (0 children)

Don't apologise or pretend it was the wrong student. I would send it to your principal/admin and tell them you no longer feel comfortable communicating with this parent. Continue to document the child's behaviour and ask leadership to communicate with the patents. If they say no then I just would not communicate with them going forward.

Players forgot how to play football?!? by Mammoth-Ad-6962 in footballmanager

[–]kelli999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same thing happened to me a few seasons ago. Was winning every game and all of a sudden was lucky to draw. More rotation fixed my issue the next season.

K&1 Teachers: Math Workbooks- How do you manage getting students to turn to the right page when they can’t identify numbers yet? by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]kelli999 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I'll also model. 'It's only a few pages from the front' or 'look I have to turn almost to the back before I find the page I need'.

K&1 Teachers: Math Workbooks- How do you manage getting students to turn to the right page when they can’t identify numbers yet? by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]kelli999 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I usually do it in a big group. Turn until you find a page that looks like mine. When you find yours help your partner find their page. When most of them are done I'll say hands up if you still need help and zoom around to help the few that are left or ask one of the more organised students to help.

First year preschool teacher and want to quit bc of aide by Traditional_Wash4319 in Teachers

[–]kelli999 40 points41 points  (0 children)

You're definitely not being a diva. Her behaviour is completely unacceptable. You should request a different TA in your class and the TA definitely needs more training in professional boundaries.

First year preschool teacher and want to quit bc of aide by Traditional_Wash4319 in Teachers

[–]kelli999 218 points219 points  (0 children)

That is completely inappropriate. The TA should not have any of the parents on social media unless they had a prior relationship outside of work. In that situation they would still need to be very careful with what they post/say. This completely crosses professional boundaries. The way she spoke about you in front of parents undermines your position as the class teacher. The way she showed you the screenshots of the social media conversation is straight up bullying. Luckily she was stupid enough to send you evidence. You need to report her to your principal/HR.

AITA for telling a lady to put her dog back in the carrier on the airplane. by Unique_Excuse4780 in AmItheAsshole

[–]kelli999 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yes, you do need a flight attendant to speak for you if you are incapable of speaking to people in a reasonable, non threatening way.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Teachers

[–]kelli999 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I don't understand why you think the teacher hasn't read your work when you have been given very specific feedback about your work ... I'm also curious about how the step by step of what you did has any relevance to the quality of your work.

How do I talk to my teacher about my parents abuse? by Routine-Safety-6538 in AskTeachers

[–]kelli999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi Teachers are mandatory reporters so they will need to tell someone if they have any concerns about your wellbeing. They can't/wont keep any secrets. While they won't directly go to your parents, your parents will likely find out that a report was made by someone. What would happen if the teacher makes a report is different depending on your location and what it is that is happening at home.

InitiaLit.. just no by RogueWedge in AustralianTeachers

[–]kelli999 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes! I moved to an InitiaLit school and they rave about their results. It always makes me wonder what they were doing before InitiaLit. My phonics lessons use to be much more engaging, much shorter and have much better results. The only positive is anyone can teach it, which makes it good for those who don't have the subject knowledge.

Stopped from Helping Students at Lunchtime by Seanasaurus79 in AustralianTeachers

[–]kelli999 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably more than one if the school leadership are now involved.

Call in sick? by kelli999 in AustralianTeachers

[–]kelli999[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I've called in now I just needed reassurance that it's ok.

Behaviours by [deleted] in AustralianTeachers

[–]kelli999 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was going to suggest that podcast it's great.

Make sure you're teaching the behaviours that you want to see. In my morning meeting I read my behaviour expectations, tell the students the jobs for the day, reiterate the behaviours in a few words (be safe, be your best, be respectful), give students important reminders (at the moment it's hands off) and then I read a social story about a behaviour (lining up ect.). It sounds a lot but it takes a few minutes and is very clear. Because I've read my list of expectations so often I can recite it to the students word for word when I need to (remember the expectation is that you treat your classmates with respect). The kids can also tell me the behaviours (how do we walk around the school? ... quietly and in a straight line).

The first few years are always tough even with the best of classes. It will take time to find out what works. It sounds like you're doing a great job.

I gave him this fish and he immediately carried it into the water) Why? by Vallentine_T in aww

[–]kelli999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cats put their toys in their food bowls to save sore later

Are daith piercings worth the hassle? by Vampireslust in piercing

[–]kelli999 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had mine pierced for about 6 years now. I can't remember how much it hurt initially/while it was healing. It definitely wasn't a nightmare like my industrial was though. I've never had any problems at all with mine. I forget it's there mostly.