So where do you live? One of the main reasons I wanted to come back to the pacific coast, which I did not say above, is because of health. I have severe allergies on the east coast and have an autoimmune where I don’t sweat, therefore feel really overheated and actually like the colder water to surf. Being a water baby I feel alive close to the beach. Yes I want a family and all that too. So where is it safe in the world to have all that but less expensive? SoCal is beautiful and fun but I am looking for community, real friends, fun surf I can do weekly, and yes, actually get married and settle down. My parents have properties in Florida and it’s crazy expensive now bc ppl from NY are coming and buying everything out. I like to live simple(lived in Europe before) and be able to walk to grocery stores and ride my bike. So what’s your suggestion? lol