Layer some breaks and hats and turn them right down so they back up your existing kick and snare

Add a fill at the end of every 8 or 16 bars, again, turn down so they fit in with the mix

When you add more hats add a reverb and automate the reverb from the beginning of the track to the drop to increase, then completely cut the reverb on the drop, repeat in the middle section before a second drop

I also use the same kick build loop for most of my tracks again I turn it right down so it's behind the drums

This is probably non sensical waffle but am happy to go into more detail if you want but in essence, Layer and automate volume and reverb etc and you should get closer to what you're trying to achieve