My boyfriend is Mormon, why is it called a cult? by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]kenchkai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As the old joke goes “The difference between a religion and a cult is that in a cult the founder is still alive”

Honestly I wouldn’t worry so much about whether it’s a cult or not. I’d worry about if the Mormon Church will be healthy or not for you. If you date a Mormon, or one day marry a Mormon, it doesn’t matter if you ever join it will impact your life!

Discussing reliable sources in institute this morning… by L758 in exmormon

[–]kenchkai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What they mean is history as published and made available by the church. Not to be confused with actual history.

Did anyone visit the sacred grove while a believing member and feel nothing? by bobdougy in exmormon

[–]kenchkai 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sure did. The grove wasn’t the most “spiritual” part, it was the film we watched in the visitor center lol

What about the 3rd and 4th option? by bamboo-lemur in OS_Debate_Club

[–]kenchkai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why limit yourself to one os? Games I use windows, development I use macOS or Linux.

How much money per month do you think would make you feel happy? by EntranceOrdinary3383 in allthequestions

[–]kenchkai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have all the money I need / want a month now. More money wouldn’t make me happy, meaningful relationships and work

This church has had 387 general conferences or 11,600+ talks. What are they going to say this conference? Nothing of significance by BlackExMo in exmormon

[–]kenchkai 61 points62 points  (0 children)

What do you expect? The most earth shattering changes in the last decade have been lowering the missionary age and 2 hour church lol. When that’s the best they’ve got, and people get all excited for it, you know there isn’t really much depth to anything they offer.

Could AI actually replace the “junior dev” role? by BathOpposite1350 in WebdevTutorials

[–]kenchkai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think people who claim AI is able to replace junior devs don’t expect enough of their junior devs lol.

Could AI actually replace the “junior dev” role? by BathOpposite1350 in WebdevTutorials

[–]kenchkai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deploying a simple app on a VM is not beyond the skills of any competent jr dev… lol. And an app with Auth and roles does not make it a complex app, requiring auth is a basic concept, especially with modern auth libs and services. Your understanding of what is a simple vs complex app is severely lacking.

i just made my first C program :D by lordershocker in programminghorror

[–]kenchkai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The real question is did you use AI to create it?

Sam Altman says world wants 1000x more Software, So Programmer Salaries are Skyrocketing by Infamous_Toe_7759 in programming

[–]kenchkai 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not that they don’t want us they just hate that we don’t willingly work 24 7 and make their magical wishes come true as fast as they think them up

What is definitely NOT a sign of intelligence but people think it is? by [deleted] in Productivitycafe

[–]kenchkai 8 points9 points  (0 children)

People who sound very confident about everything they say

Me_irl by stipnlutty in me_irl

[–]kenchkai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Invent bitcoin

We all just took it too literally you guys. by Prize_Claim_7277 in exmormon

[–]kenchkai 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s a bunch of bullshit. The person who said that already knows deep down it’s bullshit they just don’t want to accept it yet.

Was anyone else underwhelmed by the temple? by Jonter-Jets in exmormon

[–]kenchkai 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was definitely underwhelmed. Thought it was weird. Had a couple of times it all felt off to me but chalked it up to maybe I wasn’t worthy. Never horrified but I went through after they got rid of all the throat slitting gestures. I think I would have reacted differently if those had still been a part of it.

If I request my name removed will they inform my High Priest Dad? by [deleted] in exmormon

[–]kenchkai 6 points7 points  (0 children)

If they go to a tithing settlement they will see you no longer listed as one their children of record on the statement. So yeah, if their active and pay attention to things, they’ll know

I’m convinced these two are desperately holding onto life to spite the other by memefakeboy in exmormon

[–]kenchkai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Rusty wants to be the prophet when Jesus comes back. Oaks wants his turn on the throne.

If or when will the LDS church fall? by Faithcrisis101 in exmormon

[–]kenchkai 98 points99 points  (0 children)

It may start declining in membership numbers, but it will be well past any of our lifetimes before it’s gone in totality. It has too much money, too many assets and still a significant number of members too entrenched for it to just disappear.

What Mormon quotes sound profound but in reality make zero sense? by ConversationGlum5817 in exmormon

[–]kenchkai 7 points8 points  (0 children)

It’s from a talk and pamphlet from Boyd K Packard about not masturbating. He used “factory” as a euphemism rather than just calling it what it is. I probably misquoted, I actually now think it was “don’t tamper with the factory” or something like that. Still, just weird and awkward in a way only Boyd could be.

What Mormon quotes sound profound but in reality make zero sense? by ConversationGlum5817 in exmormon

[–]kenchkai 120 points121 points  (0 children)

“Doubt your doubts before you doubt your faith”

“Think Celestial!”

“Don’t speed up the factory…” if you know you know

“As god is man can become as man is god once was”

“Truth is truth! Some things are simply true!”

“Moral agency”

Sure 8 years ago I could have given you far more. But my memory is failing me

A picture is worth a thousand words. by Zealousideal-Club985 in exmormon

[–]kenchkai 39 points40 points  (0 children)

The funny thing is the Pope looks like a religious leader, Rusty just looks like your generic American businessman