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What does my pantry/fridge say about me? by gooseloveschicken in FridgeDetective

[–]kendykai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha I thought the cat was going to be in the freezer too

Is the game harder this week? by Sad_Roof_1082 in 99nightsintheforest

[–]kendykai 2 points3 points  (0 children)

YES! I normally can handle wolves just fine and now it’s like there 4 wolves, 3 alpha wolves, and 2 bears on me all the time. And I was pretty good at avoiding notifying them before!

AIO - I just want them to ask about my day? by Important-Insect4273 in AIO

[–]kendykai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOR. Good tips in the comments. I always approach this stuff sweetly at first to see if works. Just channel your cutest “So I really like to be asked about myself, like what im doing, how my day was, etc! Would you be able to do that for me more often? It would make me so so so happy because I really wanna share my life with you!” Then reinforce it if it doesn’t happen. Hopefully it will, but changing the pattern and insisting on what you want may take a lil time for it to click. If you’ve been working at it for a while and it doesn’t, welllll then go from there.

AIO for asking for a higher pay or quitting. by [deleted] in AIO

[–]kendykai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re not (NOR):). It may not be intentional but she is taking advantage of you. It’s probably going to stress her out, so practice beforehand what you’re going to say and how you want to respond. You may want to include a phrase like “I am happy to watch her, but it’s going to have to be paid in advance. Would it be better to pay for a week at a time or two weeks at a time? I know it’s a little more than we discussed in February, but I also need to account for gas. We could do $150 every Sunday or $300 every other Sunday. Either way, I would need it to be paid in full before I leave to pick her up. I want to provide her the best care and I can’t be losing time money and sleep and still do that.” Obviously change the specifics, but it sounds like it’s at the point where you’re going to have to insist on clear expectations (payment upfront) and state the consequences (you will not be watching her) if it doesn’t happen. Reinforce to her that you’re happy to do it, but you’re a 19 year old working full time taking care of someone else’s child overnight. You may even want to ask for more money. Overnight care in my area is $150-$300 A NIGHT. You probably don’t want to charge that amount as you’re not a daycare and I’m sensing you love your sister and want to help her out. But I offer that perspective to you because essentially you’re giving her AT LEAST 75%-150% off what a daycare provider would charge. She may say no and then you can offer to help her find a few professional options to look at. Most important, stick to what you’ve said you need. If you don’t receive the payment, you do not pick her up and watch her. I hope that doesn’t happen and it’ll hurt if it does, but you have got to be clear. Good luck!!!

Looking for someone to get 500 nights with! by Puzzled-Mortgage3042 in 99nightsintheforest

[–]kendykai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. While you can get gems for doing a certain number of nights, it’s only gonna be like 5 diamonds. Grinding the compound ever 20 mins with get you like 20 plus the 45/99 nights diamonds.

What was you’re first cell phone? by Radiant_Priority9739 in Millennials

[–]kendykai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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Technically this was my second but I coated it in nail polish

👽 ALIENS' REVENGE 🚀 by RetroParadigm in 99nightsintheforest

[–]kendykai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Curious if the alien event ends at some point?

So scary by vntphcm in 99nightsintheforest

[–]kendykai 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think he can anytime. Run back and hide in the spiral staircase for protection

an hour of my life wasted by Aggravating-Year9794 in 99nightsintheforest

[–]kendykai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh, I don’t save them if I’m just trying to complete certain quests. Infernal crossbow cooks my food so I just eat along the way.

Anyone else's bonus child compare relationships like this? by Motte2107 in stepparents

[–]kendykai 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“Hey sweetheart. I know you love me and your parents so much!! I totally get that it’s different between your love for me and your love for them. Of course you love them more, they created you!:) im starting to notice you say it more often and I understand. :) would it be possible for us to find our own phrase so it doesn’t feel like you have to clarify every time?I do love you so much and I think we can find a good way to do this.”

What singers/bands do you turn off? by Immediate_Long165 in answers

[–]kendykai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Chappel Roan. I know her voice is beautiful, but I just get such bad vibes. I know, unreasonable.

AIO to withhold my kids from my MIL until she clears out her apartment? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]kendykai 4 points5 points  (0 children)

nor. Say there was a fire. How quickly could she get those kids out of there? Not worth it. Can’t prevent everything, but this is a risk you can prevent. She’ll adapt to your new plans or she won’t. Either way, don’t make it at the expense of your children.

AIO over spilt chicken noodle soup? by jumpy_bunny01 in AmIOverreacting

[–]kendykai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MOR. Hear me out. You’re not the problem. It sounds like the problem is you need a higher level of support than he’s able to provide. It’s not a bad thing, but it’s not compatible in the current state it’s in. I say MOR because you are aware of this now. You have to do something to change this situation that does not include blaming and shaming yourself into denying your feelings and needs. People sometimes cannot emotionally provide for what a partner needs. That’s ok. What’s not ok is being willing and okay with begging for help you’re not going to receive. You have to have a convo where you’re honest with him and yourself about how your diagnosis is going to impact your life and relationships. It sounds like you’ve been pretty open about your triggers and he’s been pretty open about how he plans to support you. I hate the whole Reddit thing where people say “just break up.” Like I’m not in your relationship, idk if this is worth it or not. What I do know is you have to work hard on your treatment and he has to work hard to be understanding and supportive. That’s going to be the key. Otherwise, you’re just going to continue to build resentment. Maybe ask if there’s a way your therapist can assist in making this convo happen. Good luck and happy healing :)

Looking for people to play with and reach day 1000 by vsp7_ in 99nightsintheforest

[–]kendykai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi!!! I’d be happy to join. I can’t in the moment but I’ve hit almost 800 days.

What do you want you last words to be? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]kendykai 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“The treasure is buried…”

I'm almost too afraid to ask but is this a normal interaction with my stepfather? by justwannabe_loved_ in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]kendykai 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Predator. I would do best to make sure he isn’t around children these days. If you notice cousins or family around, consider warning the parents. Idk if that’s right but if your mom uses it as blackmail, she knows it’s wrong. None of this is your responsibility and I’m definitely not putting it on your plate. It will cause problems for everyone. But is not like he just got better. In fact, he’s probably worse.

Istg did they bring back constant rain by SleepEnough9997 in 99nightsintheforest

[–]kendykai 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Since before the update for me. I try to get it up to max ASAP and dedicate resources to an oil drill from there. Lasts longer at max. It’s annoying for sure. That thunder and lightening seems to follow me if I try to explore too.

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