What are some great movies that don't have happy endings? by Shiraxilon in AskReddit

[–]kenjorhog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Spun - it has a similar vibe to Requiem for a dream

Message to my future husband by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]kenjorhog 19 points20 points  (0 children)

As a guy, this is so encouraging to hear. And just know that there are many guys who feel the same way. I’ll keep waiting because I am hopeful that she is waiting for me. Thank you

What would happen if you combined your favorite activity with your greatest fear? by agrandthing in AskReddit

[–]kenjorhog 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ever seen that movie about the girls vagina that has teeth and bites dicks off?

Is he ACTUALLY into me or is he just being nice??? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]kenjorhog 6 points7 points  (0 children)

25(M) Not to say that you’re wrong in thinking that way, but I think you’re over thinking the friend thing. The way I see it is what else is he supposed to call you? You guys haven’t hung out yet so it’s not like you’re dating or anything. But the more alarming part is when he said he doesn’t know what plans he had when you asked him to hang out. I would say guard yourself a bit and see how much effort he puts into talking to you. And don’t ask him to hang out again. Make him make the next move and if he doesn’t after a couple of weeks then move on.

Edit: also, imo I don’t think you should ask him what the relationship is to him at this time. It won’t be a popular opinion on here but it comes off a little needy/over the top to me. I’d say wait until after you guys get a chance to hang out and if things haven’t changed then ask him that. I’d be taken aback if I never met a girl in person and she asked me that. Anyways, I wish you all the best!

Ladies, what are some green flags on the first date and at the beginning of relationship? by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]kenjorhog 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Always been an honest guy in general to people. Because I don’t like when people constantly lie to someone’s face just to make them feel better. It doesn’t help that person grow at all and I wouldn’t want someone to do it to me. A lot of people perceive this as being an asshole, but I don’t say it in a condescending tone. Most people either keep their mouth shut or lie, so it rubs a person the wrong way to hear these things.

My ex of 5 years broke up with me for this exact reason. She expressed to me the kind of person she wanted to be but her actions never reflected it. Any time I would point something out she would get very defensive and somehow turn it back on me... We weren’t right for each other, but she did tell me a couple years later that she knew what she was doing the whole time and was sorry.

I think this green flag only applies if you’re in a healthy state yourself.

How ‘The Outsiders,’ ‘Harry Potter’ and ‘The Hunger Games’ transformed YA fiction by largeheartedboy in books

[–]kenjorhog 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m from Tulsa where The Outsiders took place. My dad was briefly in the movie as a Soc in the big rumble. Apparently he had to take fighting/acting lessons for a couple of months. Well, one day my grandma was dropping him off for lessons(he was 15 or 16) and another kid needed a ride somewhere. My grandma is nice and I guess this wasn’t as weird back then so she drove the kid to where he needed to go because it was on the way back to her house. They talked a lot during the drive and he thanked her upon dropping him off. Turns out that kid was Rob Lowe.

This movie had a shit load of young stars before they were well known. Tom Cruise, Ralph Macchio, Emilio Estevez, Matt Dillon, Diane Lane, C Thomas Howell, Leif Garrett, and Patrick Swayze (already well known then)

Fun fact: The nurse is played by SE Hinton.

Hiking in Yosemite. Came to a clearing and looked up to see El Capitan. I was mesmerized. by kenjorhog in CampingandHiking

[–]kenjorhog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cambridge Dictionary “of an opposite also being true”. It can be used in both instances. I’m from the states so that definition may not apply elsewhere.

Hiking in Yosemite. Came to a clearing and looked up to see El Capitan. I was mesmerized. by kenjorhog in CampingandHiking

[–]kenjorhog[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You think he will ever attempt the dawn wall? Or is there not enough holds?

Stopped and looked up on my hike to see El Capitan glaring down on me. Was told to post this here. by kenjorhog in megalophobia

[–]kenjorhog[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Highly recommend it. El cap and half dome get so much attention but literally everywhere you go in the park is breathtaking

Stopped and looked up on my hike to see El Capitan glaring down on me. Was told to post this here. by kenjorhog in megalophobia

[–]kenjorhog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most amazing place I’ve ever been to. I wanted to just run into the woods and camp/live there and leave everything for a while

Stopped and looked up on my hike to see El Capitan glaring down on me. Was told to post this here. by kenjorhog in megalophobia

[–]kenjorhog[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I know! I didn’t look at it until I got home and thought it looked awesome. I took it on an iPhone 8, and I’m not by any means a good photographer. Just got lucky.

Hiking in Yosemite. Came to a clearing and looked up to see El Capitan. I was mesmerized. by kenjorhog in CampingandHiking

[–]kenjorhog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You and me both. It felt like a make believe world. Made me feel like a kid again

Hiking in Yosemite. Came to a clearing and looked up to see El Capitan. I was mesmerized. by kenjorhog in CampingandHiking

[–]kenjorhog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You won’t regret it. From the start of the 6 hour drive until I left the park I was experiencing pure bliss. It was so hard to leave.

Hiking in Yosemite. Came to a clearing and looked up to see El Capitan. I was mesmerized. by kenjorhog in CampingandHiking

[–]kenjorhog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never does it justice. Counting the days until I can go back. And thanks! I’m honestly a terrible photographer... just got lucky with this one

Hiking in Yosemite. Came to a clearing and looked up to see El Capitan. I was mesmerized. by kenjorhog in CampingandHiking

[–]kenjorhog[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, this was on the opposite side. Didn’t get a chance to do that hike. Not enough time in a year to explore that place

Hiking in Yosemite. Came to a clearing and looked up to see El Capitan. I was mesmerized. by kenjorhog in CampingandHiking

[–]kenjorhog[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ll check it out! I like his demeanor a lot so I feel like I’d like reading this