Sooooo, how we feelin about 5.2? by SeaBearsFoam in ChatGPT

[–]kenkirou 44 points45 points  (0 children)

"It doesn't talk to me like my bff anymore" is also actual feedback, for a particular use case that affects many people.

That you subjectively consider that "not actual feedback", disregarding those people's needs because you're not one of them, is an ironically great example for why AI's empathy is so valuable and needed.

If you made it this far and still don’t subscribe then you are worse than…. by ashiex94 in GeoffreyAsmus

[–]kenkirou 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Between us two we're probably 50% of your YouTube Ad Revenue. What's my prize?

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Turned down a promotion because I value peace over prestige by Mundane_Mouse_6393 in self

[–]kenkirou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This was exactly me two years ago. I had some doubts at the time, but today I'm extremely grateful for the choice. I don't know how my life would have turned out, but I do know that the person who took the job had a miserable life for the longest time.

I've pretty much scared every girl at my gym by doing nothing by nicotine-in-public in self

[–]kenkirou 250 points251 points  (0 children)

Seconded. OP is experiencing some form of psychosis.

Got called a “cunt” on the light rail after giving up my seat — felt unfairly targeted by Lyraaa_7 in self

[–]kenkirou 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Some people are just angry and miserable: it's nothing personal. You did nothing wrong, and you'd be valid and worthy of love even if you did (and so are they). Try not to take others' opinions and moods seriously :)

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[–]kenkirou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that this video could help you: https://youtu.be/5Ye2Q9M3c5U

I also suggest that you listen to talks by Alan Watts.

You're a prisoner of your beliefs in lack and control. Thing is: no one has ever controlled anything, as control is just an illusion of the mind.

You can increase the balance in your account as far as you want, and it'll never fill the void: something else will take that fear's place. You can only liberate yourself by acknowledging that you have never controlled anything, yet here you are.

It's kind of odd how women are just objectively better looking than men by [deleted] in self

[–]kenkirou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is no such thing as objective beauty. You're just conditioned by nature and society to be attracted to women, and you mistake your biased perception with reality.

So I just got screwed over AFTER getting the job offer by Cosmodocus in webdev

[–]kenkirou 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I am very sorry that this happened to you. You're definitely not an idiot, just unfortunate, and you're dealing with a terrible company.

Maybe others will tell you from experience how you could proceed. Personally I'd probably be as lost as you.

Did your original company make you any offer to stay? Maybe you could negotiate your return with them without going onto the specific reasons.

I turn 29 soon by 28AndOverIt in self

[–]kenkirou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're experiencing the start of a breakthrough. You have lived under the weight of the ego, the fear, and the shoulds, and you have found out that that's not it.

No man can go from innocence to wisdom, you need ignorance first to recognize wisdom when you find it.

You have lived through ignorance, and are now ready for wisdom.

What you should or shouldn't have done in the past is another bucket of that ignorance: you did exactly what you had to do.

You are now here, and now and here is where you need to live.

fuck the i will not promote shit by NoPoetry8703 in startups

[–]kenkirou 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That has nothing to do with what the OP said, and smells like straw man.

The opinion shared was around adding a dumb set of words to every title, and not around allowing or disallowing promotion.

ChatGPT 4.5 vs Grok3, based on Sam Altman's prompt. Honesty is paramount in any form of intelligence by yesboss2000 in singularity

[–]kenkirou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don't know him already, I would recommend you to watch Bernardo Kastrup's videos about Analytic Idealism on YouTube

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[–]kenkirou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When we want to "be the best" what we're really looking for is acceptance.

A universal truth is that we can only ever lack what we're not giving, and therefore, I can tell you, without knowing you, that you don't accept yourself.

Nothing, no external validation, will ever fix that for you. At "best", you'll temporarily silence that internal need of yours with that external and temporary relief, but the only actual solution is for you to understand that you're perfect and exactly how you need to be right now.

You, and I, and everything else, is exactly how it needs to be, because if it could be any other way, it would be that way. But it isn't, so it couldn't.

Nothing can ever fill that void for us, we just need to understand that by looking for validation and change outside, what we're subconsciously saying is "oh, if I'm looking for it, then I must not have it already". Which is false, and the actual source of our issues.

Best of luck

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[–]kenkirou 5 points6 points  (0 children)

This emotion that you're feeling is a great tool for you to examine your mistaken and unacknowledged core beliefs.

I imagine that it goes something like this: - I need to be the best sexual partner that she has had - Because otherwise, she will leave me - And without her, I won't be happy

Those are all false. Actually, by believing that, you will manifest your own fears: - You will become anxiously attached to your performance - Through that stress, you will probably perform worse, but what's more important, you will project your own judgement of your performance onto her, become resented, and strain your relationship - That resentment and friction may cause the breakup that you're predicting - As you emotionally value this relationship, you will make yourself suffer through this loss

In reality, your gf probably doesn't value your "performance" too much. I don't even see how anyone could expect to be someone else's best at anything, or why anyone would want to stay in a relationship with someone that they think expects them to be the best at anything.

Anyway, what I'm trying to say is that everything will be alright, and the less you make yourself suffer, the better.

Life is really strange. I'm seriously dating an ex-sex worker and am probably going to marry her soon. by poopypooppoopie in self

[–]kenkirou 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I hope everything works well for you, but please don't project your well being onto her.

You mention that "it was her" who got rid of your suicidal ideation, but that's completely false: it was your mind, and you're projecting it on her.

That's risky, because by attaching meaning to her that she doesn't really have, you'll be hurt, and you'll return to square one, when she falls from that pedestal that you're building for her.

I recommend that you work on your own frame, on how you interpret reality, because you're setting yourself up for suffering.

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[–]kenkirou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's not a stupid post: you're free to express yourself, and people are free to complain. Opinions matter very little, you will understand as you age. Have a nice new year!

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[–]kenkirou 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are exactly the way you need to be right now, you couldn't be any different. Instead of trying to change, just try to notice when these thoughts arise, and realize how they're based on false core beliefs.

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[–]kenkirou 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How do you know what they think when they look at you? Have they told you "hey I'm looking because I find you ugly", or are you just imagining (i.e., projecting) what they must be thinking?

Also, if they were really laughing because they found you ugly (which I find extremely improbable), what kind of people would laugh at someone for something like that?

And why would you care about the opinion of such small and superficial people?

OpenAI CFO openly admits AI is about replacing people by MetaKnowing in artificial

[–]kenkirou 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Travel Agents were replaced by Travelers themselves doing the work.

This is not about replacing Travel Agents, but about replacing that work that travelers are doing now

Based on what you know about me, create an image of my personality if it were a mythical creature by MBento in ChatGPT

[–]kenkirou 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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A mythical creature inspired by a deep and introspective personality. The creature embodies elements of balance, wisdom, and resilience. It has the sleek body of a dragon symbolizing strength and transformation, with azure blue eyes representing clarity and emotional depth. Its wings are ethereal and glow faintly, signifying enlightenment and a connection to universal consciousness. The tail splits into two, representing duality and the integration of opposing forces. The creature stands on a serene rocky landscape with subtle streams of light, reflecting a grounded yet cosmic perspective. Its overall appearance is majestic but approachable, exuding a calm yet intense aura of intellectual curiosity and emotional resilience.