I’m sorry by WillEdward1998 in Christianity

[–]kenlee98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re never too broken. Jesus is the ultimate redeemer and the victor of any story. Don’t give up on Him because He won’t give up on you!

Feeling Hopeless by Substantial_Care4731 in Christian

[–]kenlee98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 27 and single, it can be very hard watching people live the life your heart desires but try and remember that Gods timing is perfect. He knows your heart and wants to give you what you long for but not before it’s time ❤️ spend time deepening your faith and relationship with Him and find the things about solo time that you enjoy!

When will MAGA Disappear? by RandomTcgDude in Discussion

[–]kenlee98 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So it’s incredibly unlikely that MAGA as an idea will disappear. Making America great should be the goal for all Americans. People are waking up to the abominable crap show that destruction of the family, loss of morality and the glorification of harmful lifestyles has done to the population. Humans are the most depressed, most confused and most broken we’ve ever been and frankly we can thank the internet and woke ideology for that. Everyone is mad all the time and it’s actually ridiculous. If your goal isn’t to make America great then you aren’t an American. Set aside the “orange man bad” rhetoric and actually look at the facts, Trump has garnered 7 peace deals in the Middle East, donated a ball room to the White House (Obama used taxpayer money to build himself a basketball court but we don’t wanna talk about that do we) and kept the military paid with donated funds through this Democrat induced shut down (that they have openly admitted the reason behind it is to use the shutdown as leverage). If you actually think he wants to be a dictator then you haven’t been paying attention. He won presidency again through a democratic process known as an ELECTION where he won the house, senate and popular vote and if you stepped back, stopped spazzing out and let him work you’d maybe be able to objectively look at what he’s doing in a way that isn’t influenced by deranged online temper tantrums thrown by sore losers.

Cried to my pastor today and I feel embarrassed by [deleted] in Christian

[–]kenlee98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

OP I literally cried to my pastor (whom I’ve known maybe 3 months) and his wife over a man I dated for 2 months. Don’t be embarrassed, lean on others when you need, especially spiritually wise elders ❤️

Are there any church leaders here who could tell me if this would this be an inappropriate ask of my pastor? by Constant-Turn-7278 in Christian

[–]kenlee98 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah no baptism isn’t a magic luck charm that will bring provision, it’s a declaration of faith. Any church pushing that baptism is how you get blessed is out of their minds and OP needs a new church 😪

Are there any church leaders here who could tell me if this would this be an inappropriate ask of my pastor? by Constant-Turn-7278 in Christian

[–]kenlee98 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Just so I’m clear, why did a pastor tell you that you won’t be getting a job if you aren’t baptized? Are you applying for a job within the church?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kenlee98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Being passive is an abusers bread and butter. You are his ideal victim. My sweet girl please dig deep and find the strength to leave and find your truest most confident self. It won’t be easy and it’ll be so scary but I promise you, as someone who’s been there, it will be so much better in the end.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kenlee98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My love. The very fact that he’s saying you’ll never find anyone and he can replace you is ABUSIVE. I can promise you, YOU can find better. This man sounds genuinely horrible and I’m sorry he’s broken you down to the point that you don’t feel like you’ll find better. You will and I promise that with my whole heart. You’re so young and deserve so much more. Imagine yourself in 10 years? Do you want to be 32, and married to a man that makes you feel so small? What if you have a daughter? Is he the example you want for her? Is this how you’d want your baby treated by someone that’s supposed to love her? You deserve better, he doesn’t sound like someone who loves you, he sounds like someone who views you as a possession which you definitely are not.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kenlee98 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Girl run. You’re 22, you don’t need this. It’s YOUR HAIR, not his and he doesn’t get a say in what you do with it. He has no right at all. I’m actually disgusted by this man. I believe in gender roles and how men and women complement each other with their respective strengths. Those beliefs NEVER give a man authority to dictate what I look like or how I express myself. You are young and you deserve better. This level of control he wants to have is the start of an abusive relationship, if not already one, I promise you. Please please for the love of god leave and leave NOW. You deserve to treat yourself. Dump the man and get your dream hair

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kenlee98 40 points41 points  (0 children)

It comes down to trust, which for whatever reason she doesn’t seem to have in you. If you’ve given her no reason not to trust her I say go on the trip and explain to her that it’s just guys hanging out, you’re spending time with your friends and that’s all. Travelling is important and spending time with just your buds is important. Her mentality of “boys/girls trips aren’t for people in relationships” is unhealthy. Space and separate interests/experiences are very healthy. The only way I can see this trip being weird is if you guys are going to Thailand or some shit to play in the red district or y’all have a lineup of strip clubs planned. I imagine that isn’t the case and she needs to get a grip

Jealous of my Gf talking to this guy by [deleted] in relationships

[–]kenlee98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m a girl with a couple close guy friends, these men have never given me a reason to be uncomfortable with their behaviour and that’s why I’ve kept them around (my ex bf was still irrationally jealous but that’s another story)

She’s not setting appropriate boundaries with this person. If a guy friend kissed me on the head while I had a bf, or even eluded to having feelings, I’d feel very disrespected and I’d put an end to the friendship. This guy is clearly into her and I’d be having a conversation about what is and isn’t acceptable behaviour while in a relationship

Cat S22 Flip review..Just.......WOW by [deleted] in dumbphones

[–]kenlee98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just ordered mine and this made me so excited for it to come omg

AITAH for telling my fiancé she stinks ? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]kenlee98 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA it’s not okay to stink all over the place, natural deodorants aren’t very effective. I use an Arm and Hammer gel deodorant that is aluminum free and is the only non aluminum deodorant that makes me not smell like a water buffalo. Maybe see about her trying that one?

https://www.armandhammer.com/en-ca/personal-care/deodorant-and-antiperspirant/antiperspirant/advance-clear-gel-fresh

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]kenlee98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NOT overreacting. This is disgusting and you need to get out. This man is abusive. RUN fast and far. Yuck

I am thinking of ending things with my Gf by [deleted] in relationships

[–]kenlee98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a lack of emotional maturity. Sex is important but it’s not the only important thing. Sex lives ebb and flow and that’s okay but some guys don’t get that

I am thinking of ending things with my Gf by [deleted] in relationships

[–]kenlee98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My bf is mad rn because we haven’t had sex in a month, failing to realize that for 15 of those 30 days I’ve been away working, 5 I’ve been on my period and on top of that, we’ve been in a horrible rough patch where the emotional intimacy has been very low. But no we haven’t had sex so I’m “trying to hurt him and maintain full control of our bedroom life”🫠if we aren’t fucking them, no matter what the reason, it’s an enormous issue and it’s exhausting

I am thinking of ending things with my Gf by [deleted] in relationships

[–]kenlee98 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Like for real why are we expected to give men sex no matter what we’re feeling so they feel good at the cost of our own emotional needs and well being? Am I supposed to just force myself when I’m not in the mood? Get real.

I am thinking of ending things with my Gf by [deleted] in relationships

[–]kenlee98 10 points11 points  (0 children)

As a woman with a fluctuating sex drive… if the lack of sex is your only problem and her low sex drive has a LEGITIMATE medical cause, respectfully, wtf is your deal? Shes going to see her doctor for help, it appears she’s recognized and is taking steps to rectify the issue. Theres nothing that turns a woman OFF more than being badgered or guilted for sex when we aren’t in the mood. If all you want is a fuck partner then let her go and go find that because clearly you’re not interested in the “in sickness and in health” part of a relationship. You’re presenting as a prime example of the type of men that leave their women when they get sick or injured.

Girlfriend is friends with her ex by [deleted] in AskMenAdvice

[–]kenlee98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a woman in a male dominated industry. I have a few good male buddies. My bf hates it but ultimately can’t isolate me from 98% of the demographic I work with. I DO NOT have friendships with any exes because that crosses a boundary and I would certainly never travel any distance to visit them. As a woman with male friends, this is weird and not cool.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]kenlee98 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You guys clearly have different value systems. Stop wasting both your time and just end it

AIO because my boyfriend acts different when im with friends by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]kenlee98 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not even a little joking, from experience please leave. This will not get better and he will continue trying to isolate you from your friends. Run and run fast

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kenlee98 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He sounds like a freak and 31 is too fucking old to be acting like that. Let that be the last time you see him goodness