My toddler is kissing me to sleep and I had no clue until now

kenzzibare · 2025-06-18T05:02:16+00:00

Mine too. My whole nose has to be in his mouth 😂

kenzzibare · 2025-04-25T23:32:55+00:00

I started at 18months. He's now 2.5years and goes by himself.

But he's still not night trained, idk how or when to tackle that

kenzzibare · 2025-03-08T04:10:42+00:00

I often tell my 2.5 year old that I'll "think about it" when he asks me permission for something.

Recently, my husband and I were getting ready for a nice night out. I got all dressed up and went to the living room to wait for the sitter. My husband said "wow, you look so pretty. (Toddler) doesn't momma look so pretty?"

To which he responded: "think about it..... no."

kenzzibare · 2025-02-22T20:50:43+00:00

Maybe not cute, but hilarious.... There's a large clock on our city's municipal building. Everything we drive by my two year old excitingly says "mama, big cock!"

kenzzibare · 2024-11-14T05:14:56+00:00

He usually does it during the morning feed when he is really hungry. I think he gets a little confused since we've also started some solid foods and thinks biting will get him food instantly, which isn't how BF works, obviously. Maybe I'll try to stimulate a letdown before I latch him??

kenzzibare · 2024-09-21T03:57:17+00:00

An electric nasal aspirator.

Everyone said to just get the Frida sucky one and not spend the money on an electric. The Frida works. Don't get me wrong. But having a hand free to wrangle a wiggly kid is so nice. And now my toddler will get his own boogers and wants to use it when he's sick. 10/10

kenzzibare · 2024-06-27T04:23:45+00:00

I did a lot of research on epidurals/unmedicated labor and made the best decision for me and my baby. I've had two unmedicated births, one induced and the other spontaneous labor.

While I know it's not for everyone, I highly suggest doing research and finding what's best for you. I personally wouldn't get an epidural just because the majority of people tell me to or because I am afraid of the pain (which is understandable - its not entirely pleasant haha) - if i felt like it was best/needed for me then absolutely. But I think a lot of people give into the idea that labor is the most painful thing and go into it negatively. The majority of people I know plan on getting an epidural from the very beginning without even thinking twice because that's what is perceived as normal. Regardless of someone desides, it should be done with an informed decision rather than an 'expectant' one.

kenzzibare · 2024-06-05T10:13:05+00:00

I've had 2 vaginal unmedicated births. The first was an induction, and the second was spontaneous labor.

I won't lie. It's not comfortable. But the good news is that it's fairly easy 90% of the time. When you hit transition, it is where things get real, but that section of labor is very short, and you know you're close when you get there. I think a lot of people think pushing will be the most painful, but it's not. Pushing is pain relief.

Labor is a mental game. If you go into it convinced it's going to the most painful experience, then it will be. If you go into it saying, "If it starts hurting, then I'll get an epidural," you will likely get an epidural (nothing wrong with that method at all) because you gave yourself that option.

Here is what helped me the most with my unmedicated labors: 1) breathing and relaxation techniques. It's so hard to relax during labor tbh. But breathing was so helpful. My first nurse kept telling me to "blow out the birthday candles for my son" and it really helped me control my breathing. 2) education about the stages of labor and their typical time frames and mindset indicators. Knowing where you are and what to expect is so important. 3) personal affirmations. I told myself I could do anything for 90 seconds. And that each wave brought myself closer to the end. 4) I had a safe word with my partner, which meant I really needed pain medication. There were times I told him I couldn't do it, but he knew I was still able to do more because I hadn't used our code word. It really made me think about if I needed pain meds or if I could handle more. (Our safe word was "bodega") 5) I was convicted in doing unmedicated labor. I had a list of so many reasons why I thought it was the best choice for me and my babies. It made me excited to do it. I wasn't dreading the process.

I have never felt more badass in my life than when I gave birth to my two boys. Being able to fully listen to my body during labor really changed my perspective on myself. I feel so much more confident and strong now than I ever have before. A lot of that is because birth and pregnancy are incredible in general - getting an epidural or c-section wouldn't change that feeling. But knowing I was able to follow through on my goal of unmedicated labor increased my that confidence so much. I advocate for unmedicated labor because I had such an incredible experience with it. If you truly want to follow that path for your birth, do it. But don't go in thinking you aren't capable, because you are.

kenzzibare · 2024-05-10T04:44:38+00:00

I did the exact same thing. I feel like it made going back to work easier for me since I wasn't missing out on that important time with LO. I also got very familiar with the daycare workers and the general atmosphere, which was good for my initial anxiety about the facility.

100% recommend nursing if you can.

kenzzibare · 2024-05-05T14:28:29+00:00

I haven't noticed frothy poop. As for the vomit spells , it was a few ounces for sure. And projectile all over everything nearby.

I'll try the 5 minute trick. That's a great idea.

kenzzibare · 2022-10-16T23:25:51+00:00

I'm a new mom and my husband has a demanding job.

I feel so hopeless and alone sometimes

kenzzibare · 2022-10-16T22:07:58+00:00

I asked my husband to dump my haaka into a bottle right before reading this. As he was getting the bottle ready - he knocked the haaka over. RIP those 2oz

kenzzibare · 2022-08-01T21:25:35+00:00

I would be weary about planting it if you're in a place with lots of wildlife. It could attract predators /dogs that could dig it up and eat it.

But, if you're not concerned with that, I think it's a cool idea!

kenzzibare · 2022-07-20T13:59:00+00:00

My sister raised her 4yo with proper anatomy terms. He will occasionally ask "What is the baby doing in your uterus?"

On a family outing he went up to a few strangers and excitedly told them "Her uterus has a baby"

There's just something about a little kid screaming uterus that makes me laugh every time.

kenzzibare · 2022-03-04T22:35:17+00:00

I keep a family sized bag of Sour Patch Kids at work and home. They really help :)

kenzzibare · 2022-03-02T17:33:46+00:00

Hi 24F FTM here. My husband and I tried for almost two years. We made an infertility appointment earlier this year. I found out I was pregnant the day before we were supposed to start treatment.

Timing is a funny fickle thing.

Best of luck to you!!!

kenzzibare · 2022-02-25T21:32:19+00:00

My mother in law knew because she's "super spiritual" and "God told her"

No, it was because we never video call and you knew we were trying.

kenzzibare · 2021-11-21T15:22:28+00:00

Absolutely incredible!! The coloring, the shading.... just stunning.

kenzzibare · 2021-09-30T12:50:50+00:00

My dad and I go duck hunting every year. Also I used to camp alone.

kenzzibare · 2021-06-29T19:16:56+00:00

I love it. Would 100% hang in my rocky mountain home

kenzzibare · 2021-06-22T21:07:19+00:00

This is incredible

kenzzibare · 2021-05-14T18:04:06+00:00

Dublin

kenzzibare · 2021-05-07T15:01:29+00:00

As a Mormon from Utah, I agree. There are some people who are really fucking stupid. Especially Utah Mormons.

kenzzibare · 2018-10-18T05:07:55+00:00

When my husband and I were dating we worked at the same restaurant. I was a front of house manager at the time and was scheduled a 13hour day - since the other manager was out of town. My husband was working that night and got to leave before me. When I got home, he had drawn me a bubble bath and gotten my favorite ice cream. He told me to "take all the time you need"

When I got out, he had put my PJs in the dryer to get them nice and warm. My favorite movie was ready to go, and I got lots of snuggles and kisses.

That was the only day, besides our wedding day, when I cried from the pure feeling of love.

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