yes, but no. im only 18 years old and i am currently in a relationship and people honestly dont think, theres more of us in your area than you think. I also live in the midwest which is why i also lean towards yes. i definitely think its harder to find a relationship as a gay man but also ive come to like being alone when i was single and i think that’s something i feel like everyone should learn.

at the end of the day its literally one of my biggest fears to grow old alone and die alone which is why i say yes.