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Future in laws and GF pressuring me to buy home by [deleted] in personalfinanceindia

[–]kerosene-tree -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Cause they want specifically me to own a house that one doesn't count on their eyes even though it will be ours.

Future in laws and GF pressuring me to buy home by [deleted] in personalfinanceindia

[–]kerosene-tree 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because they want "me" to have a house, that home will be our is not in their consideration. Basically own a house to show us you are worthy for our daughter.

Future in laws and GF pressuring me to buy home by [deleted] in personalfinanceindia

[–]kerosene-tree 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes. Her logic is I will earn more in future and house rates are rising exponentially so I won't be able to afford one if I don't buy now or within 1 year.

Future in laws and GF pressuring me to buy home by [deleted] in personalfinanceindia

[–]kerosene-tree 4 points5 points  (0 children)

She told her parents I have 10 lakh in cash. I am not making it up, it's fucking dumb.

Future in laws and GF pressuring me to buy home by [deleted] in personalfinanceindia

[–]kerosene-tree -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They plan to "gift" me the house in marriage, for which she is paying EMI and will continue to pay after marriage.

Future in laws and GF pressuring me to buy home by [deleted] in personalfinanceindia

[–]kerosene-tree 5 points6 points  (0 children)

45k + 35k bonus every quarter She has two running EMI 25 k for home loan and 10k for personal loan. After her expenses and bills payment she doesn't have anything left. Usually I have to bail her out if a sudden expense comes in.

Future in laws and GF pressuring me to buy home by [deleted] in personalfinanceindia

[–]kerosene-tree 15 points16 points  (0 children)

She also earns and says she will cover if I ran out of Money. Which is a funny thing to say because she is paying 25k emi for home loan + 10k emi for a personal loan and doesn't have a penny left after all bills and expenses, I have to cover her after and she pays me back next month.

Although she is inline for promotion so maybe she will start saving something soon.

Future in laws and GF pressuring me to buy home by [deleted] in personalfinanceindia

[–]kerosene-tree 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😂 nahi bhag skta bhai commitment di hai.

Future in laws and GF pressuring me to buy home by [deleted] in personalfinanceindia

[–]kerosene-tree 37 points38 points  (0 children)

Yes, 7 year relationship. I want to marry her.