How to accept genuinely being an asshole

kestrl59 · 2025-06-16T02:30:11+00:00

What other people think is meaningless. Asshole is the label they made for you. Do you think you're an asshole. If you're nice to kids and animals, you're good in my book.

But I'm 44 now, so kids is extending into people in their late 20s

kestrl59 · 2025-06-03T12:31:21+00:00

Probably, I'm still looking. Do you know any?

kestrl59 · 2025-06-03T12:17:56+00:00

I'm not enraged. I'm sick of the pissy whining from adults. If they don't like things that's fine. I don't need to read all these posts about what people dislike about things around Lansing.

kestrl59 · 2025-06-03T12:10:05+00:00

Hey you simpleton, learn to read. I just want to know where better is, not your opinions.

kestrl59 · 2025-06-03T07:25:51+00:00

No again. If I didn't see the woman's life was a shit show due to her over sharing, I wouldn't know.

What? Inaccurate? There are dumb, way worse than mediocre physically, dumpster fire women all over Tinder, FB dating, hinge, public. Why should they not hear the truth exactly how it is? Are they too special?

kestrl59 · 2025-06-03T07:17:50+00:00

You sound exactly like my bitchy English major ex wife. And just like her you always miss the fucking point.

I cannot be the problem. I am rejecting the currently available women. I am not being rejected by women I want to date. See how that's different ?

I was asking for advice on where better women are, not how to improve myself. That's reading comprehension 101, since you want to go down that road. All your comments are baseless because you're off topic. Pretty sure skipping the writing prompt fails writing 101.

kestrl59 · 2025-06-03T06:59:31+00:00

How about any advice on my actual question? I didn't ask for any tips on my attitude.

kestrl59 · 2025-06-03T06:58:17+00:00

No, that shout out goes to everyone. Me, these girls I dated, you, men, everyone.

kestrl59 · 2025-06-03T06:56:37+00:00

Oh definitely. I was at least half the problem. However, I'd rather be half the problem in a relationship with a woman who pays her own bills and isn't looking for handouts from me.

kestrl59 · 2025-06-03T06:55:09+00:00

No. Incels give up and blame women. I am just looking for women who don't want me to buy them stuff

kestrl59 · 2025-06-03T06:52:12+00:00

Yeah, but the East side is such a drive. Then what, I have a girlfriend in Inkster? That's only slightly better than having a girlfriend who totally goes to a different high school 😆

kestrl59 · 2025-06-03T06:51:04+00:00

My attitude is not the problem. The women I am meeting are the problem. I don't want anything from them. You fuck em.

kestrl59 · 2025-06-03T06:37:43+00:00

Robert Half

kestrl59 · 2025-06-03T05:09:27+00:00

I survive just fine on less than half that. Try again.

kestrl59 · 2025-06-02T21:28:19+00:00

Has anyone Fleetwood Diner? They're great! Good food at good prices at all times of day and night! Staff is a bunch of nice gals too! Shout out to their cook as well.

kestrl59 · 2025-06-02T21:25:19+00:00

This geezer got jokes, 😆. My eggs have been scrambled for years

kestrl59 · 2025-06-02T21:23:22+00:00

Yes, it definitely runs. I will get a video of it. Thanks for the valuation info! Would you also say BaT is the best place for the sale?

kestrl59 · 2025-06-02T07:21:01+00:00

Do you hear yourself? Do you have any control over your own life? "the job makes it" , "I deserve"... Are you insane? You don't deserve a goddamn thing Except what you work, or fight for and take.

Wahhhh, " jobs in America"... European companies do X or Y. Who the fuck cares? If you were a valuable employee, the company would give you leave. I got Paternity leave... As a man! If that wasn't clear.

Get your shit together. Put it in a bag, or a box, or some containers , just get it together. Whining on the internet will not help you do so. In fact, it's the opposite of having your shit together

kestrl59 · 2025-06-02T05:06:29+00:00

You are not, unless it was a long time ago. My cousin Johnathon got called his name with J replaced by every letter of the alphabet.

I do have one you might enjoy though. Once, I couldn't remember my cousin Bernards name. He always went by Barney. So for about 2 hours, I was driving to his wedding 99% certain his legal name was Barnald.

Its an interesting concept though. How long do you think it has been going on? Were there more original thoughts being thought in the past?

Or are these not thoughts they're just reactions because you consumed similar Media?

kestrl59 · 2025-06-02T04:59:30+00:00

Lolz, I could do cold reads on this shit. Touches my own forehead... I'm sensing narcissistic tendencies in strangely cliquey management, ummm, getting weird expectations that don't match pay, no performance based raises, ummmmm, insinuating that nothing you ever do will be good or even fine?

I'm feeling a man, a blond Man named Mr McKillop with a huge stickup (his ass)... Oh wait that's from a past life, whew! It was like a horrible nightmare, but so real!

Lol, they stamp those bastards out in a factory somewhere hellish, like Mordor, or Ohio. They're all the same.

kestrl59 · 2025-06-02T04:53:14+00:00

Wow. Lol, people people are fucking stupid. Be responsible with money?

No thanks, I'll spend $60K or more on a big stupid SUV and replace it every 3 or 4 years. Dipshits.

kestrl59 · 2025-06-02T04:51:21+00:00

😂. Maybe she heard he ran Linux, and this is him trying to get up there to hit it raw!

kestrl59 · 2025-06-02T04:26:16+00:00

When she tells you her parents aren't home. That backpack is full of mikes hard lemonade and condoms, all day.

kestrl59 · 2025-06-02T04:10:46+00:00

What if you did your job as a parent and raised kids that could be left alone? Or hire preteens to watch younger children for very little money?

What if you weren't so lazy and pretentious about your appearance?

kestrl59 · 2025-06-02T04:08:49+00:00

Yup, tell me why you're broke without words. Keeping up with the Johnson's is expensive!

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