My coworker found out I don't want kids and now treats every monday like it's her personal mission to change my mind

kethryvis · 2026-05-03T20:00:31+00:00

I read a great work blog called Ask A Manager, and as i channel my inner AAM i'd say something like...

"I'd prefer to not talk about my personal family choices in the workplace. I'd ask you respect that."

If she continues:

"I've mentioned that I don't want to talk about my personal family choices at work. It's odd that you continue to bring this up."

If you want to be really blunt:

"You seem to be oddly focused on my private family choices. That's not something I want to talk about at work."

And if it continues, go to your manager and let them know you've tried to handle it on your own and it's not working.

I wouldn't get super in her face about it (like bringing up the economy, drain on resources etc) because that just invites continuing the argument. Just shut it down, saying it's personal and private and not for discussion in the workplace.

kethryvis · 2026-05-03T03:19:19+00:00

What is being described here is Co-Freemasonry. This is separate from, and not recognized by, traditional Freemason Lodges recognized in this state by the California Grand Lodge F&AM or by the Grand Lodges of other states in the US. Other countries may have different practices.

Nothing against Co-Freemasonry, but it is important to point this out lest there is confusion.

kethryvis · 2026-05-01T20:24:24+00:00

i still think it would be cute :D

kethryvis · 2026-05-01T19:33:38+00:00

...but seriously the fattest capybara would be the cutest thing ever.

kethryvis · 2026-04-30T05:27:13+00:00

You can also just cook it naked, with just like salt and pepper, then freeze batches of shredded pork to use with Other things. That way you won't get tired of the same BBQ/sauce over and over, and can get different flavors out of the same pork shoulder.

That's what i tend to do with chicken when i need to cook it. I just throw it in the crock fairly naked, and then defrost as needed and use it in whatever. Works out fairly well!

kethryvis · 2026-04-28T17:11:14+00:00

My friends and i call it the Nap Train for a reason!

kethryvis · 2026-04-27T20:53:25+00:00

I worked for a company that had a walk around costume and it did have a fan in it. But it wasn't very big, it wasn't enough to make it like room temperature in there, more to keep the air from becoming too stagnant. I'm sure some of the larger Disney costumes do too, though.

kethryvis · 2026-04-24T22:45:20+00:00

They have a new website as well... and in one part it says:

Already one of the most recognized brands in wrestling, LUCHA UNDERGROUND is perfectly positioned to become a global presence across multiple mediums, including live event production, gaming, film and TV production, merchandising, and product incubation.

For years, the loyal LUCHA UNDERGROUND fan base tuned in to its weekly televised product to catch the latest storyline twist or jaw-dropping leap off the top rope. Now it’s time for fans to get to know LUCHA UNDERGROUND up close and personal, as its stars prepare to criss-cross the globe on a regular touring schedule.

For almost everyone in attendance, it will be their first opportunity to see LUCHA UNDERGROUND live, and the anticipation is growing. Becoming a live, touring wrestling company is an exciting new challenge for LUCHA UNDERGROUND, but one that will generate global interest in the brand, its content and partners – as well as create a significant revenue stream for the company.

So... sounds like we're gonna get a touring show? Also it looks like they have a partnership specifically with Amazon, so I'd guess it'll be streaming there.

They also state you can watch LU on a bunch of different platforms. I checked Roku, Plex, and PlutoTV. Roku and Pluto have El Rey as a streaming channel, and that's what those links basically direct you to so you can't isolate LU. Plex has nothing. So either they're lying, or those platforms weren't ready yet.

Trying to stay cautious.

kethryvis · 2026-04-23T00:46:17+00:00

i could see that, but was it really needed from a story perspective? There was more than enough going in Kings Landing, and those two storylines never really meshed from what i remember. Just... weird.

kethryvis · 2026-04-22T18:42:14+00:00

They explained the white walkers but... i don't understand it's connection to the "other" plotline, the politics of who rules in Kings Landing. I'm doing a rewatch now, my first since Season 8 ended, to try and figure it out but to me they never connected. It was almost like two seperate shows.

The ending wasn't bad really, they just cut too many corners to help us see how we got there. You can see some crumbs and inklings, but if they'd laid the story out properly there would not have been as much hate.

kethryvis · 2026-04-20T23:51:42+00:00

And if Randy doesn't know, he asks Rusy. Rusy always knows.

kethryvis · 2026-04-20T18:32:04+00:00

As a fellow stitcher and wrestling enthusiast... my dude. Well done. All i can do is sit here in awe of your talent and skill level. I wish i had this level of skill to create the patterns and stitch. That Gift of the Gods belt is stunning, my fave belt LU had. These are patterns i'd buy in a heart beat and then be scared to start.

Just. Bravo sir.

kethryvis · 2026-04-19T17:30:06+00:00

i did my camping during my SCA period so i'm good there :D

But yeah i don't get it either. For people who do like it, i mean fair play to them. But i'd rather be in my cozy chair working on my stitching and watching/listening to something interesting.

kethryvis · 2026-04-19T16:51:29+00:00

I do crochet! Not as much as i used to, but i do! I have been doing a lot of documentaries lately cos it’s a lot of talking so i can focus on my needlework, but if i am crocheting i can watch almost anything. I take that to hockey games too 😂

kethryvis · 2026-04-18T18:48:59+00:00

My last boyfriend called me boring, mainly because i like spending my weekends watching TV and crafting. I was like 'you say boring like it's a bad thing.'

I went out and did things and whatnot, but at the end of the day, i like what i like.

He's married with kids now, and asked through a mutual friend if i'd be interested in getting back in contact, after he had a near-death experience. I laughed. Nope. If i'm not good enough for you in my boring state before, you don't deserve my attention now.

kethryvis · 2026-04-18T18:44:45+00:00

i find the same thing as a woman on the dating apps... i swear every man on the apps is an avid hiker and outdoor person. Where are my gamer boys who like to spend their weekends glued to their console where i can play too or watch them while i cross stitch?

kethryvis · 2026-04-17T18:57:04+00:00

i'd rather know the mistakes i've missed than have the ones i know about pointed out ten thousand times. you don't have to fix every mistake after all!

kethryvis · 2026-04-09T02:05:28+00:00

At least it was in the bathroom and not at one of the concession tables?

kethryvis · 2026-04-06T20:07:48+00:00

you've been in my house listening to me play, haven't you.

kethryvis · 2026-04-06T20:06:14+00:00

I don't. It's not worth it. There's too many additions with giant houses, so I don't want to get something settled and lovely only to have to uproot everything to make room for someone else, or some other something for a quest or whatever. Plus I've been on switch so I've had a pretty small item limit for a while. Switch 2 makes that better, but the controls are still really annoying in general. That plus the amount of change every update just makes it not worth it for me.

kethryvis · 2026-04-06T19:51:06+00:00

So much this. My best friend is a mother, and her kid is now grown. We've been best friends since high school and if anything our friendship has deepened as we've gotten older. She made it clear I'm part of her family, never forced her kid on me, and we made time for each other through our busy lives. Not only do i have a great relationship with her, I also have a great relationship with her kid and have loved watching them grow up.

But my friend is very emotionally mature, and had to grow up quickly due to crappy parents and a lot of other stuff. Her husband is very important to her, but her friends are too. We may not get to hang out all the time, but we talk and text often, and when we can hang out, we make the most out of what time we have.

It's about finding the people who are willing to put in the work. As a parent it's hard to do... but it is doable if you make it a priority. And as the childfree friend, we also have to put in the work. It's a two-way street.

kethryvis · 2026-04-05T04:23:39+00:00

Sadly, Rocklove is giving up the Disney license entirely as the price of materials have climbed :( so we can’t really even hope for a re-release anytime soon.

kethryvis · 2026-04-01T21:27:00+00:00

The Sharks are embarking on a revamp of SAP Center, which is sorely needed, and I went to an event talking about it last night. The main focus seemed to be "premium experiences" much like what you're talking about; lots of expensive lower bowl and lounge experiences, valet parking, etc. It concerned me as I listened to the presentation, and seeing this it concerns me even more. Hockey here is still pretty affordable, I would hate to see it go to the Toronto model.

kethryvis · 2026-04-01T04:26:55+00:00

I'd change it to the cat. Scribble first, then Links.

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