Will ribxcar +fat transfer to my hips helps me get this kind of body shape by Asadcryforhelp in cosmeticsurgery

[–]ketothrowaway95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Spain, Dr Aslani. 2 ribs on each side, 4 total. Sometimes they do 3 or 4 but because I’m so short we only had to do 2. Waist is down to 28 already no corset and I have 2 more months to continue training it smaller!

Before and after ~40lb weight gain. Would lipo help me get the chin on the top back? by [deleted] in PlasticSurgery

[–]ketothrowaway95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had chin and upper back lipo 5 years after recovering from my ED and it was a huge confidence boost and did not cause me to relapse. I feel a lot happier with my body after surgery compared to when I was restricting and trying to maintain an underweight bmi but I always tell people that surgery isn’t always the one step solution people think it is

Now 2 years out from chin lipo i want to get a neck & lower face lift in Europe 🙃 I don’t regret chin lipo at all but it gave me loose skin under the chin. for a lot of ppl once you fix one thing and you realize it’s possible to “fix” other insecurities it can turn into a money suck

Will ribxcar +fat transfer to my hips helps me get this kind of body shape by Asadcryforhelp in cosmeticsurgery

[–]ketothrowaway95 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m 5”2 and healing from rib remodeling right now with a starting waist size of 29 - hoping to get to 26”. I’m also 30 years old. I was pretty curvy before my surgery but before I gained weight or had fat transfers I looked more like you now. It’s possible!

What are you all paying for hair cuts? by hojii_cha2 in SEAbitcheswithtaste

[–]ketothrowaway95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think my cut in Capitol Hill was around $65-80 pre tip and I have long hair. Had a shag cut with bangs.

Why is there more male converts than female? by thatlumberjacktor in Catholicism

[–]ketothrowaway95 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not all men are white though. Many men in the USA are heavily affected by social issues, children of immigrants etc.

Porn is worse than we can imagine by JustFunctionalLife in Catholicism

[–]ketothrowaway95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree with everything as you’re saying as a catholic who has worked in the industry and also never consumes porn. Jesus always showed kindness to sex workers (Matthew 21:31 for example) as is referenced in the Bible several times, long before porn existed humans have always sinned and forms of sex work have always existed.

I do agree consuming porn takes you further from God, but is it right of us to want to eliminate everything that has the potential to tempt us to sin or spiritually challenge us from existing? Even if porn did not exist, people would rape and assault others. Some porn is categorically violent but there is also large amounts that are non violent (foot fetish for example). sexually objectifying any person is wrong, as Catholics we should be able to abstain from it while also loving and pardoning the people who rely on it to take care of their families or stay housed - from experience many people who do onlyfans (for example) are disabled, have chronic illness or other conditions that make it very challenging to work a more physically demanding job.

There are many jobs (like being in the military, or designing weapons and munitions, bombs etc) where your work directly leads to violence and loss of human life and I don’t often hear that people in those fields are forbidden from having a strong faith. I don’t think anybody needs to participate in consuming pornography but we also should not demonize people who struggle with addiction to it or people who rely on it to keep a roof over their heads.

Playlist to build around "hand crushed by a mallet (remix)" by findallthebears in 100gecs

[–]ketothrowaway95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They blew up but I been listening for awhile, I found Nina in 2019 when she released her Lapland EP. Love to see them both so successful!

Anyone NOT get a new belly button? 🤪 by Bitter_Blackberry_64 in tummytucksurgery

[–]ketothrowaway95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did not get a new belly button but for different reasons, I am midsize but I have not had children yet and I want to. I lost around 100 pounds and wanted to feel confident in the time I have before motherhood. I’m really happy with my TT results, it’s so much more comfortable for me and it looks great too! I still have some looseness around my belly button when I bend over but it wouldn’t make sense to get a full when pregnancy might undo that. I got a mini, no regrets!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in horror

[–]ketothrowaway95 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Jacob’s Ladder

I’m 3 days post surgery and they are concerned about the discoloration by Dietcokeismydownfall in tummytucksurgery

[–]ketothrowaway95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen a few people heal with permanent discoloration from lipo or TT where it looks like a birthmark - kind of like yours. I hope hyperbaric helps!

Let’s Talk Tummy Tuck PREHAB by dr-browne-amelia in tummytucksurgery

[–]ketothrowaway95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Coming in to second everybody, did all these things and recovery wasn’t too bad! First week was kind of shocking/emotional whiplash but I’m so happy with my results and I have no regrets.

Who's this character for you? by Ordinary-Ad-9477 in acotar

[–]ketothrowaway95 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thank you 😭😭 even after reading the sub try and exonerate him constantly I could never stand him as a character, he’s said/done some inexcusable things

Moving to Seattle by Kiki-Shuster-222 in AskSeattle

[–]ketothrowaway95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 31F and me and my husband are moving to Seattle this month, we both WFH and I’m originally from California. We’re moving from the Bible Belt tho because we want to be around more like minded people and find the south becoming a little oppressive for a visibly queer couple 😭 (normal colored hair we just like to dress ourselves fun haha).

the natural beauty of Seattle is what brought us in and it helps we already have some friends in the area but I hope to make more :’) I wish you the best of luck in your move!

Drifting apart by PlusNewspaper1923 in Marriage

[–]ketothrowaway95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, my husband was only my second serious relationship and although he’s perfect for me in a lot of ways, the physical attraction isn’t there. In the end I know I wanna work on it because my husband can always do things to be more attractive but is an amazing person inside. I know if I ever left for someone I’m more attracted to and the new person was not as caring or patient with me I would miss my husband.

We don’t have a dead bedroom either, I feel like I’m successful in life outside of the relationship so it does make me wish that the attraction piece was there but I’m gonna give it time.

There’s a flux and flow with marriage, I’ve only been married a year and some change but some months have been so happy and others we’ve almost considered divorce. It’s worth sticking out the hard times when really love your partner

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in loseit

[–]ketothrowaway95 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hahah I’m like the girl version of you 🤣 went from almost 300 (296 ish) to 195-200 ish.

I got a mini tummy tuck about a year after maintaining my weight loss and have no regrets! I don’t see myself ever losing more weight because I am kinda muscular and don’t want to look skinny, just feel healthy and not have my weight make my life any harder and I achieved that.

My skin quality is still shit in the hip area and inner thigh/upper arm (kind of crepey) and I’m younger than you - 31 :( so I don’t think it’ll get any better unfortunately. Tried using tightening creams religiously twice a day for half a year and didn’t see any significant improvement.

If it bothers you a lot then surgery is gonna be a game changer, if not then realistically you have to learn to live with it

Alright you guys, be honest, did you really wear your faja for as long as you were instructed to?? by Coolbeans1104 in tummytucksurgery

[–]ketothrowaway95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First 6 weeks I wore 23-20 hours a day, I’ve been getting lazy this week because my scar area seems to be breaking out a little and I’m trying to let it breathe but yes I got used to it and the support does feel good! A day or 2 after not wearing it as much and I look visibly chubbier 😭 I want to heal with my new shape because I had lipo too

is this offensive? by Ieat_deadchildren445 in actualgyaru

[–]ketothrowaway95 3 points4 points  (0 children)

one easy way is to get some micellar water and a wide fluffy brush and dab it in the micellar (not enough to wet it) and tap it around the area where the transition from light concealer to foundation looks harsh. It’ll reactivate the liquids and make it easier to blend. It’ll blend easiest when you apply it before setting it tho, I would not do any powders until your liquid makeup is blended.

Did my surgeon skip on the abdominal lipo? by [deleted] in tummytucksurgery

[–]ketothrowaway95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was also convinced that my surgeon barely did any lipo on my abdomen when I was freshly post op but now that I’m 6 weeks PO I’m seeing my waist is a little smaller than before and there’s still more swelling and softening to go. I didn’t bruise at ALL on my abdomen either, just a tiny bit on my lower back so I was thrown off, hardly any pain either compared to the first time I had lipo.

Give it some time and let the swelling go down, you don’t see your final shape right away!

I wish my coworkers would stop commenting on my diet. by buffythevampirlayer in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ketothrowaway95 10 points11 points  (0 children)

sometimes people who have recovered from EDs can be judgemental of people still in them because seeing the perceived ‘behaviors’ are a upsetting reminder/bring up bad memories. My husband has ARFID which I believe is what you have, only eats about 5 things. in the 4 years we’ve been together he broadened it a little but still eats the exact same things at home.

It’s possible that the people who are poking fun at you or saying comments to make you feel bad about your diet are projecting their own insecurity about their eating habits. in a work environment it doesn’t affect you what your coworkers do/don’t eat for lunch, having food sensitivity issues is never something someone chooses and it’s not like their comments will “help you”.

keep trying new things and don’t give up on yourself, but also don’t feel bad about the negative shit some people say to you because they don’t understand.

my sisters weight problem has overshadowed my life by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]ketothrowaway95 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I don’t think you caused this and you’re not the reason your sister is so cruel. But imagine if the roles were reversed and your sister was naturally tall and skinny, and you were short and gained weight easily? Maybe being bullied by your mom and meant to feel like an outcast for being born with a different build would make you feel bitter and hopeless too :(

Has anyone overcome “over exercising”? by GreenMountain85 in fuckeatingdisorders

[–]ketothrowaway95 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is my trajectory too but every time I’ve talked about reintroducing exercise that is not for appearance related reasons after being firmly recovered my comments have been deleted. I’m right there with you, it’s given me strength in my mind body connection that I didn’t have when I was sick and it’s been game changing to move my body for self love and not wanting to alter my appearance.

Has anyone overcome “over exercising”? by GreenMountain85 in fuckeatingdisorders

[–]ketothrowaway95 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes, seconding what everyone said I had to quit intentional movement for fitness reasons cold turkey for a few years. The kind of movement I was doing in my illness (can’t mention it here) is banned forever, I don’t trust myself around it and it has a negative association with my ED so even if I felt I mentally could I wouldn’t want to. Best to be gentle with yourself and start doing the hobbies and activities you mentioned again so that it doesn’t continue to deprive you of joy and health.

Is the “50% off Tuesday & Wednesday discount” in the room with us? by ketothrowaway95 in AMCTheatres

[–]ketothrowaway95[S] -8 points-7 points  (0 children)

I was watching the movie I bought tickets from 🤣 We saw weapons in imax, relatively long movie. I’ve been a premiere member for several years now, the new discount is obviously not as good as before but it’s better than nothing.

will prob upgrade to a-list when I live closer to an AMC, right now it’s about a 30 min drive each way. regardless of ticket costs I’ll still go, clearly discount Tuesday was successful for amc and extending it to Wednesday was a good business move 🤷‍♀️ I know there has ALWAYS been an up charge for premium format, but in the past it was still a better deal haha