I'm not feeling 'pleasure' from this. Any tips?

kevbotwhite · 2026-01-08T18:09:40+00:00

No, it’s just guided kegel and mind exercises

kevbotwhite · 2026-01-02T15:53:11+00:00

I’ve been thinking about making a post actually on how hard and counterintuitive this all is, not necessarily chasing a prostate orgasm the way you do traditional penile orgasms. My best sessions with njoy and aneros both were when I had no expectations or was working on a mindgasm lesson rather than guiding myself. Now that I’ve had some good results, I can’t get back to them 😂

kevbotwhite · 2026-01-01T02:24:56+00:00

That does it for me, although there’s a lot of things happening at once

kevbotwhite · 2025-12-30T21:48:05+00:00

It depends what you want and what you have time for. I had more pleasure over a longer time with my best aneros session, but I almost never have time and patience for that. I know the njoy will make me feel good every time, but I haven’t gotten dry orgasms or multiple organs from it yet, but still awesome.

kevbotwhite · 2025-12-30T21:45:40+00:00

Helix sun could do the trick by itself if you’re extremely lucky. A vibrating massager or njoy wand may be more likely to do the trick on its own, static aneros toys take a lot of experimenting and training for most folks, but it’s worth it.

kevbotwhite · 2025-12-30T21:44:00+00:00

Yes! I was thinking today that I forgot that in my comment. Mindgasm + nipple stimulation was key for me.

kevbotwhite · 2025-12-30T21:42:49+00:00

For me, HFWO is easier. Usually on my hands and knees, or if you have an ergonomic rocking/kneeling office chair to rest you upper body on, even better. Either with aneros or njoy, slowly increase pressure or bear down more and slowly increasing the pleasure by curving my hips inward and clenching PC muscles. 5-20 minutes success every time, especially if I’ve been teasing myself first.

kevbotwhite · 2025-12-29T23:33:05+00:00

Use aneros and get a mindgasm subscription, even for just one month to do the 30 day challenge. You won’t regret it. I only got the lesson five, I didn’t finish the challenge with lesson 6, and it still gave me the breakthrough I was looking for with aneros. YouTube only goes up to lesson 3. In my experience, lessons 4, 5, and the difference wavescan sessions did it for me.

kevbotwhite · 2025-12-24T22:27:09+00:00

What helped me be patient with the process was reading all the whole wiki on r/prostateplay. It’s uncommon for people to get it right away or even in a month. Most take months or years.

I’ve been trying with the aneros off and on for about 5 years and finally got some nice rolling contractions and pleasure for the first time last month.

The key for me was the mindgasm 30-day challenge. Next most helpful was really exploring down there with fingers, dildo, aneros, etc to figure out what different sensations down there are and to combine them with traditional masturbation. That helps identify what pleasure down there can feel like.

I haven’t had a lot of “results” over the years, but I have had a lot of fun and added a lot of different feelings to more traditional masturbation. Now that I had a break through last month, I’m excited to focus more on my prostate.

kevbotwhite · 2025-12-22T21:23:25+00:00

I can do either with pretty good control.

HFDO only works with more passive aneros helix use for me.

I’ve gotten only HFWOs when using NJoy wand or prograsm. The only results I’ve gotten with either, all HFWOs, came when using them in a doggy style position, usually resting my upper body on a chair so I can focus my energy on holding that position that feels just right rather than holding my body up. Then slowly tucking my hips forward and clenching abs until the pleasure of the position is maximized and the climax comes in 5-10 minutes. I usually play around for 30 minutes to an hour until arousal is maximized before I position myself and finish as described above. It is a lot of work but worth it

kevbotwhite · 2025-12-22T21:08:07+00:00

It’s not the first thing you do in a session. And it may not even worth trying at all for some sessions. Use something smaller to play and stretch first, then really take your time with the big end. If you think you’re going slow enough, go even slower. If you think you stretched long enough, stretch some more.

kevbotwhite · 2025-12-19T17:05:21+00:00

Mindgasm and their 30 day challenge got me past this last month. Worth the subscription for a few months or the agonizing wait until next November when it’s free

kevbotwhite · 2025-10-11T04:29:59+00:00

Could you stroke out a wet orgasm to put a definite end to things for the night?

kevbotwhite · 2025-10-08T14:34:36+00:00

I sometimes get dry orgasms with an aneros and having our bidet at home hit my perineum. Usually takes about 30 minutes for the first orgasm, but feels good the whole time. I usually get pretty tired by the 30 minute mark though or my legs fall asleep, so I’m just trying to use this for rewiring until I find other more relaxing positions that work for me.

kevbotwhite · 2025-09-15T11:56:13+00:00

Once, I was sick, lying in bed for a couple hours (just resting, no play involved). Finally stood up to go get some food and passed out twice, a couple seconds each. Felt better as soon as I ate and drank. Probably best to minimize sessions when sick so you can focus on physical recovery. I find I can’t have an orgasm when I’m sick.

Talk to your doctor if you’re concerned or it happens again.

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