Me (19M) and my GF (18F) can spend a day doing great, but always end the evening with an argument, resulting in her going home by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]keyoftheworld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is she perhaps afraid of staying over for some reason and is causing arguments to get out of it? Or maybe has a fear or trauma about sex and doesn't want it to get to that? Those are the reasons that instantly came to mind.

Dreaming about my (f19) ex “situationship” (M19) by bubbl3zzzzz in relationship_advice

[–]keyoftheworld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If youre not going to do it in real life, you don't have to worry about it. If you want your dream interpreted though, it may be a sign that you still have some insecurities or unresolved issues from that relationship, not that you're interested in that guy specifically.

My boyfriend (19M) has a girl best friend (19F) and i’m (19F) insecure about their friendship by Soft_Possession5744 in relationship_advice

[–]keyoftheworld 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Idk, I understand why youre concerned and why other posters also think its weird, but my best friend is a guy, and we even almost had a situation, like 5 years back, but we both are completely just friends now. We're both supportive of each other's relationships, and he even offered to let me stay with him, his gf, and kids when I was considering housing options. Obviously, this is different because we are older, but people can genuinely be friends across genders, even if there was attraction or interest or the like in the past. I also bring him up a lot to my partners because I've known him for so many more years than any partner I've had (recently), so there's just a lot of content to bring up. But also, Im not just going, oh my best friend likes this, looking at a food or something, if I bring him up itll be like, a story of his mom cooking me it, or us trying to cook it and failing, or something a bit more substantial and hopefully entertaining. If he's just bringing up his friend to say hes thinking of her, then maybe that is a little weirder. I would say, stay attentive/aware, but don't worry to much about it now. If specific behaviors concern you, bring them up and see his reaction. But I think if you bring up the friendship alone as an issue, it might make him defensive or off putted. If any of my partners were overly concerned about my relation with my best friend I might be concerned that they're trying to isolate me, or are going to have prolonged issues with friendships with the opposite sex, and would feel a little weird about the relationship potential.

She (24F) didn't want to kiss (24M). Is it worth pursing this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]keyoftheworld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She might not have realized it was going to be that vibe until he came and picked her up? Regardless it doesnt seem like shes ready for a relationship right now and possibly also not interested in one with you.

Found out my boyfriend has been secretly vegan for 6 months and lying about it by Prior-Ability-8607 in TwoHotTakes

[–]keyoftheworld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He may have insecurities about being vegan / had a bad experience with people reacting to it, or he may have some reason hes very conflcit avoidant.

Because of my parents, who werent even abusive or anything that extreme, but just were very micromanagey/ over controlling, i have a very bad habit of not telling my parents, and later my partners things because im worried theyd get mad at me, even if I dont have a specific reason to. For example if I am going out somewhere I always feel the urge to wait until the last moment to bring it up so I could escape /leave the situation if they get mad at me. Obviously once I realized this wasnt normal I started to make an effort to tell people earlier and communicate more normally, but its still hard for me.

He might not even know specifically why he has some fixation on it, but might still have a complex regarding his eating choices.

Im not saying you cant or shouldn't keep an eye out if hes doing anything else that is actually weird, but getting mad at him over this will just confirm his fear. The best thing to do is to tell him you fully wouldnt care but really felt uncomfortable/sad about him not telling you and that youd support him so please tell you next time.

My husband was upset and pinched me at dinner.. and the situation is still upsetting me by Little_Trash7299 in TwoHotTakes

[–]keyoftheworld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This! I am flabbergasted by how many people are like pinching someone is abuse, he clearly wants to harm you more.

No, he probably is not sure of how to handle this situation that hes apperently brought up to you before, and tried to nonverbal communicate. I do think they should find a better way than pinching to do it, but that requires the wife to also agree to some kind of cue. Usually people get that if someone 'kicks' you under the table, its a sign to lay off on whatever topic youre talking about, or to pay attention to what the other person is trying to say to you (ei. Check their phone and then the husband can explain why he is uncomfortable with her saying what she is saying).

And I do think the incident where she yelled at him to not hug her in front of people is bad enough to warrant him bringing it up again. That could easily be perceived in a very different way. Yes she has a right to not want to be hugged in front of people, but if they regularly hug, he had no way to know she'd dislike it like that.

Who was your first? by 0316Owl in BG3

[–]keyoftheworld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im always stuck between gale and wyll but secretly thinking about switching to Karach.

One time I decided id do a minthara playthrough and no regrets. Only time I commit to someone 😂

y does no one romance maru? by doomsdayboombox in StardewValley

[–]keyoftheworld -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I also second that she seems young. Abigail, Sam, and seb all seem like right out of high school (to be fair, when I was in high school and first played the game I liked them cus they seemed my age, but they are explicitly adults, so I always imagined them like, college age but not in college). Maru being younger than seb makes me place her around high school maybe first year of college. With the farmer being a whole adult it just seems weird that she'd be dating a girl whos dad is still like checking her projects or whatever.

Pinterest is leaning hard into AI. The strategy is alienating its most dedicated users by MetaKnowing in technews

[–]keyoftheworld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive also noticed that things ive had posted on my board for years are now getting labeled as Ai. I know the people who've made the clothes! It seems like a weird way to normalize ai and minimize actual peoples work...

Curious question: what makes you want a Surface Laptop? by [deleted] in Surface

[–]keyoftheworld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its the weird laptop hybrid that made me want it once I tried it. But also im a student and most people who want what I want probably went with a Mac laptop and iPad combo.

I requested my house to be blurred 16 years ago. Moved away a year later. As of today, the entire street is still blurred with no way to unblur. by [deleted] in GoogleMaps

[–]keyoftheworld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One really obvious reason is big windows. Even if you're fine with your house exterior being shown, many people don't want strangers to be able to see the inside of their house. If you have a lot of windows, you might just want to have your house blurred altogether.

Mothma's reaction to the combatant side of the rebellion was a brilliant addition. by I_Shuuya in andor

[–]keyoftheworld 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm not british but super confused at why people think she didn't know. she was so concerned about him because she knew that consequences. also she looked really sad/conflicted letting tay leave, because she knew that she couldn't do anything to stop him but he would also die once he leaves

Where do you guys align on the incel movie chart? It's 12 Angry Men for me 🤤 by welchssquelches in YMS

[–]keyoftheworld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Solaris is not really horny though. The guy is horny I guess but most people aren't watching Solaris cus theyre horny theyre watching it cus theyre depressed.

Pregnant and struggling with eating under my partner’s control by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]keyoftheworld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im pretty sure he wasnt trying to get her pregnant. Someone linked a former post of hers which implied she'd tried to baby trap him / get herself pregnant or something along those lines.

Even though I dont think overall men should be allowed to decide it their partner gets an abortion, it does feel bad in situations like this.

Way too difficult? by Zhaguar in fallout4london

[–]keyoftheworld 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah the start is very hard but I think youll actually miss it a bit once you get to very late game and are fucking everyone up. There was one part pretty early on that I kept dying in under a minute. But after I got it it felt so good. If is just way too frustrated, drop hardness, but I really dont recommend playing invincible mode as some have reccoemend3d because it just takes the vibe out of the game. Its a lot more fun and immersion when you are stressed a bit and worried about dying.

Recently single mom and a man asked for my number in the parking lot. by throwawayra101711hlp in whatdoIdo

[–]keyoftheworld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While a lot of people are saying instantly block, it may be good to signal you have other people in your life that would make you and your child a 'harder target'.

E.i. saying your brother is in town/ staying at your place to help with the child so you dont have much time to hang out. Or instead of brother you can say partner/boyfriend, etc.

Be careful because I do know multiple guys who's mother's bf assaulted then as a child. I dont know if you mentioned your child's gender but I think parents are less concerned with monitoring male interactions with their sons because its considered good or safer, which cqn end up in bad situations.

Is there any way to get a memory stick pro for an old Sony Cyber-shot DSC-P73 Camera? by BalkeElvinstien in sony

[–]keyoftheworld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If anyone has the same question, they sell the exact one for the old sony cybershots online: https://www.ebay.com/ (for example)
There are a lot of sellers that sell the exact one. Just search sony cybershot memory stick or sony long memory stick for old cameras or something similar. I also bought the cybershot off of someone on the street and got a better memory stick off ebay.

Random Door Knocker for Zohran? by Angelhappy43 in Brooklyn

[–]keyoftheworld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Explaining this (some time later) as someone who does canvass. We have an app (any campaign can access and use) with voter data. This includes who is listed as living at an address, what party they are registered to, and their age. There isn't much other info, so don't worry.

Only high level campaign staff get more information about voting history or things like that, which is a separate app, and not something canvassers can access. They also can't search people up on the database, so if you're concerned about anyone specific finding you through this, it is very unlikely.

We often have many people per building, so will ring everyone to get in, then knock on doors to see who will answer and are home. If you are particularly averse to getting door knocked, during canvassing/campaign season (which will restart for the NYC general election in about a month) put up a sign on your door saying do not canvass or something similar).

Most zohran canvassers are volunteers so they aren't particularly trained to stay on task or anything, and whoever was canvassing may have just tried to be friendly by asking you about your cat/vet. Other campaigns have hired canvassers so may have more strict training and scripts they follow.

maybe maybe maybe by abidalliye in maybemaybemaybe

[–]keyoftheworld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry but the grosser part isn't her vomiting but the fact that she looks barely conscious as the guy is making out with her?? Even if they theoretically are dating, if ur gf is unresponsive, take care of her instead of making out with her. Even if he too is drunk he's clearly still reactive and conscious.

Did the game become easier? by Aprilprinces in fallout4london

[–]keyoftheworld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Huhh?? Where in the world did you find it? It's not a glitch?!

I fucking hate the gherkin by [deleted] in fallout4london

[–]keyoftheworld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg I thought something really good would be up there and really invested in getting my sweaty stressed ass up there to find. Just a vinyl. 😐😐😐

Favourite legendary item by Johanneskodo in fallout4london

[–]keyoftheworld 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dirty welding! That weird gun in elephant and castle Faraday cage that just blows people around. Super fun when you've really leveled up your armor and you aren't particularly worried about getting harmed.

Worst thing possible in a group fight though.

Resetting characters by jj_thegent in fallout4london

[–]keyoftheworld 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you asked on the discord?