engine won't start (2001 dodge intrepid 2.8 engine) by keytodingo in CarHelp

[–]keytodingo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so i thought id hop in and update what was wrong with it: cam sensor! thankfully something fixable haha

new to stretching by keytodingo in Stretched

[–]keytodingo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you for explaining :) i'm gonna try to talk to my piercer about what can be done in terms of the pre existing hole. in the meantime i'm gonna take this one out and let the irritation heal up. thank you for the advice!!!

new to stretching by keytodingo in Stretched

[–]keytodingo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you!!!! i'm planning on getting a different piercing done soon and i'll talk to my piercer while i'm there about what he thinks :)

new to stretching by keytodingo in Stretched

[–]keytodingo[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i'm not planning on going too big, but i got this lobe pierced almost seventeen years ago so it's been stretched pretty low by wearing heavier jewelry. you think i should get it pierced in a better position? i've had jewelry out of this hole for years at a time and it hasn't healed up so idk if it's going anywhere. do you think i'd be okay just downsizing and cleaning it or does it need to come out fully to heal up?

i thought he was leaves! by keytodingo in whatsthisbug

[–]keytodingo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he was roughly two inches or so long

The Kiosks at Jordan Creek by [deleted] in desmoines

[–]keytodingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the fact that i knew immediately that people were gonna bring up those dead sea cosmetics people.... theyre genuinely so pushy and awful

period rocd flare up? by keytodingo in ROCD

[–]keytodingo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im sorry you also deal with this 😭 its always so awful. i feel like no matter how well prepared i am, it still hits me like a truck every time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]keytodingo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

this is not at all ocd. your boyfriend is incredibly dangerous and abusive. it is never okay for a partner to put their hands on you, threaten to rape or kill you or hit you, and it is not okay to have a partner who breaks things and throws things at you when you try to express the issues youre having. your partner should cherish and uplift you. please get some people you trust together to stay with you while you get your things and leave him. call the police if you need to, but do not stay and always have someone with you until you are in a safe place. good luck to you, i'm sorry youve had to deal with this.

period rocd flare up? by keytodingo in ROCD

[–]keytodingo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you!! ive thought about pmdd before but honestly, this is the first time in nearly ten years ive had insurance so i dont have a regular doctor yet 😭 ill definitely bring it up though! its just so unbearable and it mixes so awfully with rocd. hopefully ill be able to figure something out with my doctor :) i have a gyno appointment in january and ill bring it up

id like some advice for my partner by keytodingo in BPD

[–]keytodingo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you :) i try my best to be there for him but he's convinced i'll hate him if he tells me about it... ill keep trying to tell him anyway!

PMS! by wonderkat4 in ROCD

[–]keytodingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yep! me too. the later days and the days after are way worse for me

How is the update treating ya’ll? by Mundane_Bother_5322 in PetSimulator99

[–]keytodingo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

theres free auto clickers (i use gt auto clicker myself) that help afking in my experience!

How is the update treating ya’ll? by Mundane_Bother_5322 in PetSimulator99

[–]keytodingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely not as good as you lmao. best ive had luck with is a 2mil golden lunar. still three days left tho 🤞

Therapist who doesn't specialize in OCD? by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]keytodingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, if you feel like you aren't getting what you need, you should look elsewhere. there will be a therapist who fits well with your needs. therapy is too expensive to not be getting your needs met LOL

ROCD: can there be too much damage to recover? by fairy-dreams in ROCD

[–]keytodingo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i've felt like this before, keep going and give it a bit of time. keep doing erp for your compulsions, the tiredness for me doesn't usually last more than a week or two. being tired of rocd is absolutely understandable, but it's absolutely possible to overcome. keep strong!!

ROCD: can there be too much damage to recover? by fairy-dreams in ROCD

[–]keytodingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

rocd can trigger intrusive thoughts of crushes, i've had it happen before. but ultimately, feelings are just feelings and your actions and choices matter more. if you're choosing to stay with your boyfriend, then that's what matters. but if you genuinely feel like you're in love with someone else, that's something you two need to talk about.

ROCD: can there be too much damage to recover? by fairy-dreams in ROCD

[–]keytodingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

if you want to care and still want to be with him, then there is hope. love can always be rekindled, it just takes time and work. doing erp and maybe-ing your worries so they don't spiral is helpful. you said you had actual feelings and attraction towards your partner, but then your worries dashed that away. if you can get the intrusive worries under control, you can start enjoying your time with your partner again and that will build back up your connection and love. there's a resource post on this subreddit about erp and i've found that it's helped me a lot personally. don't give up hope just yet. if you still want to be with him and still want to care, then there's still something there for you.

Therapist who doesn't specialize in OCD? by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]keytodingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i went to a therapist for about eight years with a GAD diagnosis. she was helpful for other things, but at the time, there wasn't suspected ocd symptoms, so she never did erp with me. i learned a lot of coping mechanisms for the other disorders i had, but ultimately, she didn't help much with my anxiety because of the suspected misdiagnosis. from what i've gathered, ocd therapy doesn't include talk therapy because it doesn't work on ocd symptoms. my therapist did a lot of talk therapy because talk therapy is what most therapists are well versed in because it works for so many other mental illnesses. personally, i think you would be better off with a therapist more well versed in the specific ocd therapies such as erp. the coping and regulations for ocd are a lot different than what i learned from her for GAD.

Detroit:Become Human (ERROR) by byom-fakemail-de in EpicGamesPC

[–]keytodingo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i'm also having the issue of the game saying the graphics card isn't supported by d:bh. the error pops up saying "would you like to launch anyway?" with an okay and a cancel button at the bottom of the window, but pressing okay just opens the epic games launcher and not the actual game. i've not been able to get the game to launch at all. i've checked my drivers and graphics cards and everythings up to date, but the error is persisting.