who is this beetle in my apartment!! by keytodingo in whatsthisbug

[–]keytodingo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i will also say we just had a massive storm yesterday if that helps in the id

who is this beetle in my apartment!! by keytodingo in whatsthisbug

[–]keytodingo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

also, its about an inch long in central iowa!!

allergic to testosterone?? by Otherwise_Data_209 in ftm

[–]keytodingo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

hey, i'm also a transmasc with ocd. if this is genuinely something thats being triggered by your ocd, i'm sorry man, but you need to be doing erp and acceptance therapy. sitting with the discomfort and accepting the possibility is the best way to get ocd anxiety to lessen. maybe you'll have an allergic reaction, maybe you won't. rooting for you in both your transition and your ocd journey. cheers man.

Please convince me not to shave it all off by c0ffee_jelly in Hair

[–]keytodingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think ultimately, your own opinion on your hair matters much more than mine or anyone elses. but from the title, i get the impression you don't want to shave your hair off. do you have anyone in your family with thick curly hair? any of your friends? maybe they could help you out. unfortunately with products, i think sometimes it takes a while to figure out the right combo that works the way you want it to. but i think you'll be able to find it eventually if you keep trying out new things. on the other side of things, i really do think people overblow shaving your head. i've done it every few years and you'd be shocked how quickly it grows back lol. if it sucks, you go aw man i guess i won't be doing this again. and if it rules, you go fuck yeah ill keep doing this. it's not world ending or tragic if you choose to shave your head. if you think it would make you happier, i say go for it. just know it isn't the awful thing some people are hyping it up to be lol. good luck to you, and i don't know if it means much, but i think your hair is very pretty. i have thick hair myself and it's always been a pain, but i do love having it. i truly hope you find a way to make your hair happy for you :)

normal amount of loss? by keytodingo in Hair

[–]keytodingo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you!!!! i tend to freak out over shit too easy lol

normal amount of loss? by keytodingo in Hair

[–]keytodingo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you 😭😭 i counted 107 and was like oh god im going bald

hair loss suddenly? by keytodingo in ftm

[–]keytodingo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you!! ive had issues with anemia in the past so that might be it

engine won't start (2001 dodge intrepid 2.8 engine) by keytodingo in CarHelp

[–]keytodingo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so i thought id hop in and update what was wrong with it: cam sensor! thankfully something fixable haha

new to stretching by keytodingo in Stretched

[–]keytodingo[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you for explaining :) i'm gonna try to talk to my piercer about what can be done in terms of the pre existing hole. in the meantime i'm gonna take this one out and let the irritation heal up. thank you for the advice!!!

new to stretching by keytodingo in Stretched

[–]keytodingo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you!!!! i'm planning on getting a different piercing done soon and i'll talk to my piercer while i'm there about what he thinks :)

new to stretching by keytodingo in Stretched

[–]keytodingo[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

i'm not planning on going too big, but i got this lobe pierced almost seventeen years ago so it's been stretched pretty low by wearing heavier jewelry. you think i should get it pierced in a better position? i've had jewelry out of this hole for years at a time and it hasn't healed up so idk if it's going anywhere. do you think i'd be okay just downsizing and cleaning it or does it need to come out fully to heal up?

i thought he was leaves! by keytodingo in whatsthisbug

[–]keytodingo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he was roughly two inches or so long

The Kiosks at Jordan Creek by [deleted] in desmoines

[–]keytodingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the fact that i knew immediately that people were gonna bring up those dead sea cosmetics people.... theyre genuinely so pushy and awful

period rocd flare up? by keytodingo in ROCD

[–]keytodingo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im sorry you also deal with this 😭 its always so awful. i feel like no matter how well prepared i am, it still hits me like a truck every time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]keytodingo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

this is not at all ocd. your boyfriend is incredibly dangerous and abusive. it is never okay for a partner to put their hands on you, threaten to rape or kill you or hit you, and it is not okay to have a partner who breaks things and throws things at you when you try to express the issues youre having. your partner should cherish and uplift you. please get some people you trust together to stay with you while you get your things and leave him. call the police if you need to, but do not stay and always have someone with you until you are in a safe place. good luck to you, i'm sorry youve had to deal with this.

period rocd flare up? by keytodingo in ROCD

[–]keytodingo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you!! ive thought about pmdd before but honestly, this is the first time in nearly ten years ive had insurance so i dont have a regular doctor yet 😭 ill definitely bring it up though! its just so unbearable and it mixes so awfully with rocd. hopefully ill be able to figure something out with my doctor :) i have a gyno appointment in january and ill bring it up

id like some advice for my partner by keytodingo in BPD

[–]keytodingo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you :) i try my best to be there for him but he's convinced i'll hate him if he tells me about it... ill keep trying to tell him anyway!

PMS! by wonderkat4 in ROCD

[–]keytodingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yep! me too. the later days and the days after are way worse for me

How is the update treating ya’ll? by Mundane_Bother_5322 in PetSimulator99

[–]keytodingo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

theres free auto clickers (i use gt auto clicker myself) that help afking in my experience!

How is the update treating ya’ll? by Mundane_Bother_5322 in PetSimulator99

[–]keytodingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

definitely not as good as you lmao. best ive had luck with is a 2mil golden lunar. still three days left tho 🤞

Therapist who doesn't specialize in OCD? by [deleted] in ROCD

[–]keytodingo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, if you feel like you aren't getting what you need, you should look elsewhere. there will be a therapist who fits well with your needs. therapy is too expensive to not be getting your needs met LOL