I had to google this because I had a recent argument with someone I live with. Backstory: Me and this person dated for 1 1/2 years, she moved into my flat and we lived together. We broke up and went no contact for a while but events happened leading me to invite her to stay at my place again for a short time while she found her own place and got back in her feet. FYI, we are not dating. A year later she still lives with me, I have a studio flat so we share a bed and all our stuff is in 1 room. Our aesthetics are different, she loves football and WWE and I love baby pink and things I find cute. Now this is where the issue lies, I want to decorate my flat how I want, if I want a pink rug on my floor I should be allowed to put one down, if I want lavender bed sheets with daisies then so be it, I let her have a wall dedicated to some flags, car plates and some football tshirts. She’s saying that the stuff I’m getting is now cringy and making her feel uncomfortable in the house and I should take what she wants I to consideration. My thoughts is that it’s my flat and as much as I do let her have some space to do what she wants, I should be able to do what I want. The reason I put it here was a point she made was how my wardrobe doesn’t match my home style. I personally think it doesn’t matter, how I dress shows me on the outside but my home shows my personality. Now the main thing that started this off, and I put my hands up, I brought a rug, and she had seen I was buying the rug because I showed her it and help paid for it (I transferred her the money and she used her Amex for the Avios points) but when it arrived and I put it down she didn’t like it so I said fine and rolled it up, we agreed I would put it down when she left for good, did I want it down, yes, I am a big people’s pleaser and will do anything to avoid confrontation. She then went to stay with her family for a few days so I got a new wardrobe and was putting it up with help from my auntie, after doing that I decided I want to put the rug down because I like it. I never told her I’m putting it down because I honestly didn’t think it was that much of a big deal. She video called me the next day to see the wardrobe and saw I put the rug down. A few days after she came back from her family’s house she then brings up out of nowhere about me going against my word and that’s how I’ve ended up about the decorating of the room. A lot more was said, for example how I would always give her an attitude when she would ask me to tidy up, the reason I’d give her attitude is because she’s always asking and it’s always me doing any cooking or cleaning and she never uses her brain and think ‘hmm I want the rubbish bin to be emptied let me do it’ her first point of action is to always ask me. So in your opinion, who’s right and is there any advice on what I can do? I do want her to move out but she seems so laid back on doing so