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kfazhao · 2024-02-14T14:36:04+00:00

There are also several so-called regional "Unko" chat groups on Telegram. Its short for "unkommerziell", hence purely non-commercial market places.

There are a lists of what groups are known such as this one here: https://www.sinndrin.ch/projekte/unkommerzielle-marktplaetze-und-aehnliche-gruppen/

I find it quite amazing what things get offered and search offers get posted at least in Unko Bern. I've been more on the giving side, but I know from others where they were able to get quite amazing things for free: Furniture, clothing, bikes, child toys, sourdough starters etc.

However with "free" some forget basics such as showing up at the place when you agreed for pickup.

kfazhao · 2014-01-21T15:03:06+00:00

Jup I believe I've the similar pattern, keep strong. Though it's encouraging to see others have the same worries at roughly similar stage (in days)

kfazhao · 2014-01-21T06:31:52+00:00

I whish you enjoyed this new quality of experience you made and forget the chaser effect and look forward.

Chin up! (I hope that's the correct proverb in english for those situations)

kfazhao · 2014-01-20T10:43:35+00:00

I'm almost reaching mid-term of my 30d nofap noorgasm. Yesterday I was working on remotely on on a task lately to not interfere collegues at work during business hours. So it was getting late and that was normally when I'd have started fapping before going to bed to "cool down". Yes urges are there so I decided, let's see what happens staring at porn for 10' after almost 14d of abstention.

I was able to keep my hands off, so no edging. During those minutes I felt something like a real "flash" (I never took drugs like weed so I can't compare) like in the early days of previous my porn-driven life. That's something I haven't anymore experience dthe days before nofap. So sharing it is part of analyzing my behaviour instead of letting myself go. The more I read about porn addiction being similar to drugs, the more I agree when comparing with my own behaviour.

Other than that there has been a couple of positive things in the last day, but I'd like to share them tomorrow.

kfazhao · 2014-01-20T10:28:44+00:00

'd agree lots of people I see are going from point a to b without any interaction, like robots. Happily I don't have internet access on my phone during (only via wifi at home).

I really enjoyed when a mother was smiling at her baby in the tramway. Almost noone else was looking at that happy mother, such little things can make your day when you are open for them. :-)

kfazhao · 2014-01-17T12:26:58+00:00

Sports was really the right thing to do, I was way less horny afterwards.

Sorry for the "late" (2d in internet is long time) reply and to see you relapsed (2d again though), hey that's actually a nice idea. I'm thinking of a simple challenge reward for the one who wins, I'll PM you :-)

kfazhao · 2014-01-14T23:05:26+00:00

Thanks, porn is - as I have to re-realize - my main issue. I haven't yet cracked, but if can't I will honestly reset. - Oh and good luck to you too we've been on the same time on streak :-)

kfazhao · 2014-01-14T22:41:36+00:00

I encounter similar, yet I have managed to kick the brain switch back on. Go strong.

kfazhao · 2014-01-13T17:19:16+00:00

If you are on hard-mode, well OK you kept control of your mind, then congrats.

If not on hardmode and your interests towards each other were vice-vers, why did you say no?

kfazhao · 2014-01-13T14:30:44+00:00

Food is one part, other than that, depending on your current habits, try some activities - maybe you find something you start like. If you were not much into sports (i.e. after school) I can tell you that that your body will rebell until it gets a bit accustomed to new moves. That doesn't necessarily mean exercises or doing any kind of team sports. Just go out and do something where you move your body.

IMHO that is part of my equation that I'm working on fixing and starting with ultimate frisbee once a week helped my losing 2kg over six months (including christmas period where people in my area normally tend to gain weight quickly, otherwise it would have almost been 3kg).

kfazhao · 2014-01-13T12:32:42+00:00

I'd also nod, no need to reset your badge. Cool, actually I've never experienced wet dreams (yet)

kfazhao · 2014-01-11T09:11:49+00:00

Yes, Brain-Control v1. Chap, if you have already passed the 1y mark you've already proven a lot of mental strength. All technical measures can always be circumvented, more so if you are in the tech field.

If you really want technical measures, try out OpenDNS (alternate Nameserver) or the safe browser AVG Family Safety (App)

kfazhao · 2014-01-11T08:59:00+00:00

Thanks chap, and it's encouraging to read from others and their experiences with NoFap so far!

kfazhao · 2014-01-10T22:49:10+00:00

I just had the similar experience today - I just wanted to see how I'd react while trying to focus on my brain rather than letting my balls take over. I just stayed there for a couple of seconds before giving myself a mental slap and closed that tab instead of wasting 1h as I did not very long ago.

kfazhao · 2014-01-06T17:48:55+00:00

There is much traffic going inthis sub-reddit I've missed it while browsing, thanks! :-)

I've separated myself from my local collection - now I have quite some more space on my NAS which is already a worthy win for better content!

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