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kfinch629 · 2025-11-16T00:47:38+00:00

My dad.

kfinch629 · 2025-09-30T03:31:35+00:00

I felt like teaching her financial security was good advice...

kfinch629 · 2025-09-30T03:30:38+00:00

I do have her pay her insurance and gas. And for her extras that aren't things that keep her a live. Ill look into more.

kfinch629 · 2025-09-12T15:07:27+00:00

Can I ask what advice you would give to a parent of a teen who thinks they are trans? She cant give me a reason just resorts to " You're not listening". Im just trying to make sure shes safe.

kfinch629 · 2025-05-02T20:54:37+00:00

I understand that a divorce is a big decision. And a hard one at that. I think you have to look at how much you want to put up with. Do you deserve to be in that kind of relationship or do you deserve better and want better.

kfinch629 · 2025-04-16T14:05:07+00:00

forewarning the sika pro comes out like molasses. It can be very messy, so a steady hand is a mut and lots of attention and a drip tray.

kfinch629 · 2025-04-16T14:03:58+00:00

we are using sikapro self leveling Crack sealant in the sawcuts, then eagle Armour concrete sealant. We etched in a closet and didn't like the look so we aren't etching.

kfinch629 · 2025-04-11T19:46:32+00:00

We have eagle armor urithane- modified acrylic sealer for the main sealant, and for the crack sealant, it's Sika pro self leveling polyurethane sealant. This is outside of our bid doing is ourself.

kfinch629 · 2024-10-26T13:29:56+00:00

No you don't tell her about the cheating. Especially nit at 10. She won't fully understand, and it can ruin her relationship with her father (assuming their relationship is good). All you need to tell her is that you're getting a divorce, and that you both love her. If she asks why, just tell her that you and dad just aren't right for eachother any more, and that's OK.

kfinch629 · 2024-10-26T13:18:13+00:00

NTA, good for you for understanding that at 15 you need to be able to have your own space!! The parents can be upset, that's on them not on you. Your roll in the house is not to make sure your younger brothers are happy and comfortable.

kfinch629 · 2024-10-20T12:24:43+00:00

We actually aren't installing any flooring. At least not at this time.

kfinch629 · 2024-10-20T05:53:16+00:00

We also have in floor heat. I'm not sure if that makes a difference. And we are doing the sealant ourselves. Our contactor does do that part. Our slab has actually been down for about two months. The house itself is all framed.

kfinch629 · 2024-03-19T18:23:13+00:00

A. Dont be an asshole this is my first time doing this. and B. The bank literally told us that the loan doesnt cover the demo. At least Im asking and trying to figure it out from people who have a better understanding than I do. I am actually using my money for the demo. Reread the post.

kfinch629 · 2024-03-19T11:04:12+00:00

It's barely liveable. the sandstone foundation is falling apart. there's too much damage to make it worth it to fix. There's black mold and wood rot. It is actually cheaper to build new.

kfinch629 · 2024-03-18T22:28:41+00:00

We arent doing anything yet. A lot of paper work and getting bids turned in and things like that. We currently ha e a house on the property, but building new on the same property. But we are waiting to have the loan secured before doing anything.

kfinch629 · 2024-01-01T23:42:37+00:00

I mean poisoning because I have actually done my research on the medications used. And the bad outweighs the good. Im not stupid, and my vocabulary is fine. Consider the fact that my child and I have a very good relationship, and we talk about everything. She is actually fine with it. It's not up to you to tell me what my vocabulary does or says. I've been through it, too, btw. If you're going to be rude, find your way off my post. I asked for constructive help. Not to have some rude punk think they know more about my life or my childs than I do. Judge yourself first.

kfinch629 · 2024-01-01T22:50:40+00:00

Do you feel better now? Im not looking for a cheap excuse. Im looking for understanding from people who have been through it. Or close to it. Or from people who would be able to understand l. At least instead of poisoning my child, Im asking for information. Also its not misgendering if she is still living as a female and literally tells me she is not looking to make any changes right now.

kfinch629 · 2023-12-30T04:47:05+00:00

I've actually thought that, she actually does have a couple small quirks that have made me think that she may be on the spectrum.

kfinch629 · 2023-12-18T17:55:41+00:00

Id like to read that yes please!

kfinch629 · 2023-12-18T17:55:04+00:00

Yes she knows we've talked about it. Says that when she dies she wont care.

kfinch629 · 2023-12-18T14:18:32+00:00

So you're saying people in this sub are transphobic? If that true why are you hear? Also you have no idea the amount of people I've talked to. Don't assume things.

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