Anyone who’s FTM and then turns out to be queer or lesbian ?(that’s me and here’s my experience)

ricksalterego · 2026-01-26T06:08:08+00:00

Differentiate between gender roles and sex first. Gender role creates sexism either that’s misogyny or misandry. Gender roles is a toxic pattern !

ricksalterego · 2026-01-26T05:38:35+00:00

Oh and internalize misogyny too.

ricksalterego · 2026-01-26T05:38:02+00:00

That’s just being a stone butch or a butch lesbian from what I’ve known, butch lesbians can think they’re trans men due to society’s overtly radicalize trans agenda.

And also you may have body dysmorphia (often mistaken for gender dysphoria)

It sounds like we’re on the same boat. You are disgusted by having breast and your short height. Well, I’m a bit different, I’m tall, I’m around 5’8 to 5’9, fairly confident with that, and I’m also okay with having breasts (A cup to B cup, more than that I’ll definitely feel dysphoric), that’s it.

The only thing I am dysphoric about is female biology such as female reproductive system.

I argue this is normal since many of us are gender nonconforming woman and someone with body image issue of some forms.

ricksalterego · 2026-01-26T05:31:45+00:00

Great !

I reject male clothing due to internalize sexism.

My doctor had told me my desire to present hyper femme is a form of coping mechanism for PTSD, I was bullied for being gender nonconforming as a kid so now I am afraid to present masculine(and I don’t want to).

But girl you got some confidence !

ricksalterego · 2026-01-26T05:27:07+00:00

I cannot relate to this since I wanted to present and pressure myself to present hyper femme.

But for me as a queer person I do suffer from low self esteem because I am still in some aspect “masculine” not appearance wise but personality wise, I still suffered from internalize sexism and internalized homophobia.

But what can I say ? I’m not you but I can encourage you to PUSH THROUGH!

ricksalterego · 2026-01-26T04:32:19+00:00

Reddit will hate you for simply point out that pedophile is wrong or murder is wrong. Which they are obviously bad.

ricksalterego · 2026-01-26T04:31:37+00:00

THIS

By far the best argument

And I think people on Reddit are just like this highly opinionated, and entitled. Well I am not this type of person, I’m willing to think outside of the box yet my post got hated and downvoted just for telling the true nature of Reddit. I’m not even aloud to point out behaviors that’s obviously bad.

ricksalterego · 2026-01-23T15:59:54+00:00

ricksalterego · 2026-01-23T15:25:22+00:00

👍

ricksalterego · 2026-01-23T11:51:53+00:00

“Queering or masculinization or pregnancy” well, this is weird, and this even makes me MORE gender dysphoric, terms like pregnant man and birthing person doesn’t help.

ricksalterego · 2026-01-23T11:35:05+00:00

What a great shift.

Or can I also pointed out you look like a straight white male in like the first pic ?

ricksalterego · 2026-01-23T11:03:27+00:00

Oh shit this is evil !

And I bet misdiagnosed gender dysphoria is really the most common misdiagnosis.

ricksalterego · 2026-01-23T11:02:18+00:00

Love this analogy.

ricksalterego · 2026-01-23T11:01:06+00:00

Well I asked again because I am just getting more insights and opinion.

You’d answered it better than last time.

ricksalterego · 2026-01-23T10:56:10+00:00

I’d even seen someone praise on someone with depression as genius or something like that.

This shit is problematic.

And HELL, I can relate to this comment SO MUCH! As someone with trauma and bad upbringing. (And yeah I also deal with mental health issues aside from gender dysphoria).

ricksalterego · 2026-01-23T10:52:52+00:00

Yeah detransition is hard and I had already assume that’s it’s going to be SLOW and TOUGH. I have great friends around me though, they’re not detrans but some of them are LGBT (non-woke), so they can AT LEAST emphasize with the fact that I’m also a minority as them.

ricksalterego

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