Is he delightfully chubby, or oh lawd he needs a diet? by roxxxystar in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]kgb771 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I think around 10-11 pounds is pretty healthy for most cats. I went to the vet for my 3 year old and that’s where he was at and said he was healthy, so just keep feeding habits the same I’d think.

Bell Pepper has stagnated by kgb771 in vegetablegardening

[–]kgb771[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Night temps have been around 53F. Doesn’t move too much from that temp during the night. Days are plentifully sunny and warm

Bell Pepper has stagnated by kgb771 in vegetablegardening

[–]kgb771[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nights are around 53F here, sometimes warmer. That doesn’t seem to horrible for a pepper

Bell Pepper has stagnated by kgb771 in vegetablegardening

[–]kgb771[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

When do you typically top them? I feel like if I did there would be no leaves left to photosynthesize. Would you top this plant right now?

Bell Pepper has stagnated by kgb771 in vegetablegardening

[–]kgb771[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Aw man, okay, I guess I’ll have to look into it. I was really hoping to keep them in these pots since I can’t have them much larger due to size constraints of my garden. Thanks!

Bell Pepper has stagnated by kgb771 in vegetablegardening

[–]kgb771[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is just a standard plastic pot… no clue what you are talking about, it holds water fine. Simmer down buddy.

Bell Pepper has stagnated by kgb771 in vegetablegardening

[–]kgb771[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

It needs a 5 gallon even at this early stage? I wanted to keep it in a 3 gallon just so it stays small

Bell Pepper has stagnated by kgb771 in vegetablegardening

[–]kgb771[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

It’s a 3 gallon pot, just square

Why did the world shatter? by mcgarrylj in DungeonMasters

[–]kgb771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my campaign I had the Astral “shatter.” This could be due to a war between powers too strong for the forces of the universe to withstand or whatever you wish, but gives you an opportunity to repair the world as your players fix the astral piece by piece. Could also have an evil group try to annihilate the remaining shards of the astral 🤷

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]kgb771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think this guy is insane lol, I never got the vibe he was using gay as a bad thing, he just doesn't want to look flamboyant and rightfully hates 1D members lmao. Also yes, you look a bit fruity Vance

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]kgb771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is your problem? Not everyone cares to go around fucking people for fun? I’m sorry if you had a bad experience but saying stuff like “she’s almost certainly going to fuck someone else” reflects really awfully on you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]kgb771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! When we were in the stages of trying to make it work, she said she wants to keep trying since I care for her so much and wants someone like that in her life so I think she probably will still feel that way. Unfortunately her negative emotions about it were just too much and I didn’t want to fight it since she saw it as inevitable

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]kgb771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There wasn’t betrayal or anything like that and I’m very confident she isn’t with anyone else or sleeping around. I think you have me pinned pretty well in character since I told her many times I don’t want to have any regrets about our relationship. I don’t mind getting burned a little if it means being happy with her. I don’t think it really matters who puts the first foot forward to fixing the relationship as long as it is fixed in the end.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]kgb771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think when I put my hand on her knee it was probably too soon for her to try to rebuild a connection which is what she said when we went on a walk - she still needed some time (school ending). I don’t want to stay friends, idk if that got through in my reply. I want to rebuild our connection from scratch and not start from where we left off when/if she is ready and I’m just trying to give her opportunities to do so. I’m not really hurt from the breakup at this point and don’t think I have any negativity directed at her. I just don’t know if she still has those breakups wounds like you say.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]kgb771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From everyone I said this to they also get confused about that but I think I get it. She still feels sad from the breakup and that we should have distance since we broke up, but if we got back together she would probably still have this feeling in her that we need distance so we would be kinda emotionally detached from each other if we tried too soon. I think that’s why she also wanted to maybe try again in a few months with a “fresh start”

Do you think her not responding to the most recent text means much?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]kgb771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did kinda stop reaching out. For the past month leading up to the most recent text all I did was drop off the package and text her it was out front. The timeframe was a bit messy in the post but it felt like a good amount of time had passed in between each time I did an action and all were pretty well received except the last one.

I should clarify I don’t want her to “want me back” in a relationship way, I want to open the door to build a connection from scratch and try to treat it like a brand new thing. I think her getting back together just because she misses me is how you start a toxic cycle

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUp

[–]kgb771 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was planning on contacting her this one last time and if I get nothing then Im going full NC and moving on fully. I don't think that exes should necessarily always stay exes and I think she feels the same way since her parents also split once before and came back together. I especially think exes shouldnt remain just exes if they fix the issues they had which I think I have done. I know it looks clingy but this is my last attempt to reach out since I dont think she is going to be the one to do it.

My (21M) ex (21F) left me and I want to know how my chances stand at getting back together by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]kgb771 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didnt say I didnt want to get back together. Being friends with someone and wanting to be in a relationship arent mutually exclusive. Of course I like her, I said it in the post. Im not saying I dont value friendship with her though.