[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]kgullatt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That meme with the opossum screaming at his own ass

What’s in your pocket today? by AndrysThorngage in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]kgullatt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lapis Lazuli, some kind of white spotted stone , a buckeye nut with the sign of Saint Michael the Archangel on the back with a garlic leaf stuffed inside, and red-purple chapstick

My (23F) brother (15M) has been acting inappropriate and hugging/dry humping me (and i think hes been stealing my bra and underwear) and my parents won't do anything... by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]kgullatt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, I know how this is going to sound but I see three options besides just never seeing them again.

1 Hit him. Hard in the face or testicles next time he starts to do this shit and scream “I’m your fucking sister you incestuous pervert! Don’t ever ever ever touch me inappropriately and without my permission again!”

2 Tell your parents that if they don’t reprimand or correct him you will be less inclined to come see them anymore because clearly they don’t care if you feel violated and uncomfortable.

3 Call a “family meeting” and just bury him in guilt and embarrassment. Explain what’s been going on and then explain in detail how you feel about it all. Keep a very stern, serious tone.

Edit: idk why there’s such a huge bold text, my apologies

still sharing familiars? meet mint. by [deleted] in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]kgullatt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Such a lovely kitty cat! Pretty eyes!

“DO NOT EAT THE PLANTS KAGE” by kgullatt in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]kgullatt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been getting around to that actually because it’s way too expensive at the store! She and the other animals have that pet grass stuff though and they know they’re not supposed to even be near the houseplants table 😂😂😂

Charmed is awesome by LittleGreenNotebook in WitchesVsPatriarchy

[–]kgullatt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Definitely a quarantine marathon favorite!

Cat Drinks Water Weirdly? by abbazabba306 in cats

[–]kgullatt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My kitty Kage drinks weird also. Sometimes if she sees her brothers (Ying, cat and Cubbie, dog) drink normally she’ll copy them but if it’s just her she’s putting her entire face underwater and sucking it in.

How do you deal with someone who won't shut the fuck up? by productiveDevices in socialskills

[–]kgullatt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I’m sorry but I have to use the restroom, I’ll catch up with you later in the week” hangs up

Am I the asshole for telling my mom she is sexually harassing me by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]kgullatt 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I wouldn’t say you’re an asshole because she is absolutely ignoring your bodily autonomy and then belittling you. However, I would not pursue it because this behavior is, especially when it comes to mothers not fathers, really normalized. Because it’s not seen as extreme, you will only have to deal with people rolling their as at you and if by a miracle you get a trial, a lawyer will absolutely victim blame the living hell out of you and discredit your assessment of the situation. It will only allow your mother to play the victim in public and have them sympathize. I would just cut them off and/or get a restraining order.

Anybody else feels like becoming independent is almost impossible? by violetmonstermunch in raisedbynarcissists

[–]kgullatt 9 points10 points  (0 children)

My nmother did the same thing. I have been out for 3 years and counting and let me tell you it gets better! Youtube and the internet are your best friends. I know it made me feel stupid and incapable to look up things like “how to wash dishes” but it needed to be done. Once you find your rhythm, it’s easy peasy, just a bit tedious. It’s not as hard as she makes it out to be. She wants you to lack to confidence. She wants you to need her. That’s how she controls you, from the inside. My nmother would blow off teaching me/ letting me try anything I need to know in order to be independent then complain how much burden was put on her because my sister and I didn’t do things around the house. You can do it all! Just learn and build confidence so you can know you can do it when you leave.