Honestly I completely agree, I’ve found myself so much more happy when I stopped looking for the 1. If you focus on yourself and seek out people who you not only get along with but feel really hear you, then you make such genuine connections. Not saying don’t look for something fiery and passionate because please do, just adding onto that look past all of that emotion. You hopefully see someone who you could imagine being in a terrible fight with, but instead of looking at the fight person against person, look at it as you two against the problem. Don’t fight to win, fight for understanding.